Relationship Psychology Discussions > My Story
newPsychicAddicted Tally
newlyPsychicAddicted:
@Jana
I feel like crying so hard :( Even I am a believer. Did you ever read with kisha,cookie or astrosarah??? who were the readers you read with???
Highlyfavored2:
I understand your frustration. Are they saying that he will come back and you two will reconcile or are they saying he is coming back. Sometimes comingn back means you will have contact with him at some point in your life in the future. Ive had psychics tell me before he's coming back....but in my case he does come back..I can count on him coming back 100% this I know as a fact based off of his patterns. He will ALWAYS come back to me as long, and its always "my choice" to accept him or not. The thing is, he doesn't stay. He comes and goes and is inconsistent. Are they saying he is coming back and you two will be reconciled and the relationship will move forward?
Barbara was honest with me she told me that (SM) would come back, and he would propose to me. This hasn't happened yet. She said that unless I marry him soon after he ask me, then he would get scared again and run. Many Many psychics have told me that he will "shift" or change and offered me tips on what to do, but truth is much of what the have told me I've tried and it hasn't worked. I eventually stopped trying to change him. I know I can't
Just b/c a prediction doesn't happen in the time frame given doesn't mean that it won't happen. There isn't a magical psychic that you could talk to that will be correct. Take a deep breathe..I suggest writing down what yo know as a FACT versus what you have been told by a psychic. Then from your "logical" mind make a decision. Only use psychics to gain insight on things that you don't already know.
But if you don't mind sharing a little of what they have told you then maybe we on the board can help by breaking down the prediction and looking at it from all angles. Timing is fluid and can change.
newlyPsychicAddicted:
This is so sad. Many psychics have told me that we would reconcile.Kisha specifically told me this. And to be honest till now I thought that if they said that he would come back it meant it was permanent .
Highlyfavored2:
@new it may be permanent in your case. I was just telling my experience.
Everyone's situation is different. When I was first started calling psychics I would ask is this over or will we reconnect and many psychics would say yes depending on what they saw. Some psychics would see the "BIG" picture and tell me "No", so I thought well no way they were lying. Well turns out depending on the reader and their abilities and how far ahead they are able to read and what type of reading I'm getting then to that reader they will interpret that as a "NO"
I don't generally like to get readings from Empaths b/c for me they will read the feelings at the time of the call or energy. I know what his feelings are and so that just doesn't appeal to me. Readers that use Spirit Guides, I'm on the fence about b/c I don't know what type of Spirit Guide they are using to obtain this information. Some say they talk to my guides and his guides or ect. I know Kisha uses a guide as well. Guides also relay messages in a format that either I or the psychic must interpret. That information can be true or false or misinterpreted.
Now, b/c I use to only be concerned about timing and when he would come back I mislabeled a LOT of psychics as being wrong b/c he didn't contact me on a certain day and we did "reconnect" when they said we wouldnt. I don't call as much now to psychics b/c my needs have changed and the type of psychic I need truly need has changed. For myself, I need a psychic that can read below the surface, behavior patterns, can interpret feeling from beyond at the time of the call. Lot's of people don't need this, and just need to know if he'll call or contact them and when or if they will get a job and when.
I remember calling psychics when I had a job interview at a company and asking psychics if I would get the job,some said no and some said yes. Only one psychic told me what was below the surface of a yes or no. That psychic told me that they liked me and I'm a candidate for the position, and I will be offered the job and will not be able to accept it. So that is why I was getting yes and no from different readers. Some readers picked up the company offering me the job so they came up with YES, some psychics picked up on me not working there and the answer was NO.
Surface readings like you are going to go here and there and do this and that with him is BLAH BLAH BLAH to me. That may be good for someone else, but not for me. That is what I liked about Cookie she didn't just give me a surface reading she picked up on his inconsistency and she told me why it has happened and why it will continue and she told me it will continue pretty much until a certain thing happens. She told me that after that happens I can take him seriously. She didn't give me time frames, but she told me what to remember. That's why Barbara4846 told me that when he comes back and talks about marriage and proposes what I needed to do. He is not going to magically change or shift overnight. Cookie told me that in his mind he has decided that I'm the woman he wants to marry. He decided when he first met me, she said that's a done deal you are it you are the one, however his actions and follow through is the problem. She empowered me with additional knowledge to take forward in dealing with him.
I say pick a reader or readers that is right for you and YOUR situation as well as YOUR expectations for the reader.
@Jana I understand what you mean. You would like for something to happen, and nothing is happening. I don't know if you have tried to contact him or not. I also don't know if you have asked a psychic what will happen if you contact him. I'm not telling you that you shouldn't give up, calling psychics is expensive and if you are not getting the results that you want, then make the decision that is best for you..
stelka:
Surface readings like you are going to go here and there and do this and that with him is BLAH BLAH BLAH to me. That may be good for someone else, but not for me. That is what I liked about Cookie she didn't just give me a surface reading she picked up on his inconsistency and she told me why it has happened and why it will continue and she told me it will continue pretty much until a certain thing happens. She told me that after that happens I can take him seriously. She didn't give me time frames, but she told me what to remember. That's why Barbara4846 told me that when he comes back and talks about marriage and proposes what I needed to do. He is not going to magically change or shift overnight. Cookie told me that in his mind he has decided that I'm the woman he wants to marry. He decided when he first met me, she said that's a done deal you are it you are the one, however his actions and follow through is the problem. She empowered me with additional knowledge to take forward in dealing with him.
Hi,
Reading your post I had a feeling we are 'dating' the same man. Seriously, my SM's behavior and his pattern of running away when things become serious is like yours. His cold/hot, in/out, being inconsistent, distant, withdrawn, his tendency to disappear. His actions are manifestations from being insecure. I've been told that his previous relationships made him the person he is now, that he is not very trusting and has an immature spirit when it comes to the relationships. I don't know how you deal with this behavior but honestly I had a really hard time accepting this. I tried to change him and control the situation. Obviously, it didn't work, we separated a few times but always found the way to get back together. It is tiring though. I wish he moved forward a bit quicker but I have to stay calm and accept who he is. All the psychics told me that it is my decision to stay with him. I may see some improvement once he is more committed but he will always be that person.
Navigation
[0] Message Index
[#] Next page
[*] Previous page
Go to full version