@flutter- it does seem bittersweet. I feel for you, I really do.
When I first started talking to Julie, I was already emotionally involved with this guy. Before she even knew what the scenario was she told me to literally *put my fastest running shoes on and RUN* that the situation I put myself in with this man was a nightmare and would stress me out for YEARS.
That's how I knew she was accurate. But the heart wants what the heart wants. She had told me all along I would eventually move past this whole thing and if I chose the *put it in a box on the shelf* by the fall I would feel like my normal self again. She had predicted a job change in the fall (happened) she was bang on with the time frame of WHEN I'd find a new job, dead on accurate about me still working with my friend and that friendship would continue to blossom and become closer over time but that I may have to push things along with my ideas in order to keep it going. And it's managed to keep moving along at a bit of a slower place, but trust and a bond has been created now and I know there is always going to be things for me to do with him.
Her original prediction for my friend and I was a long-term friendship on the work level. That given time and tlc it would just keep rolling, that he'll always be someone that I do side stuff for. Here I am almost a year later and her prediction is still unfolded. The thing about this guy is that he's always been open to a friendship with me whereas the other guy is not.
Everything she said has been bang on for these two men over the last year. And as I said, her advice for both has been priceless. If it wasn't for her I may not have been able to maneuver through the friendship with the one guy as smoothly as I have. She pointed out things I was doing that kept setting things back over the last few years, once I stopped those few things, magic happened and everything or mostly everything is smooth sailing.
With the other I guy I was romantically involved with she told me exactly what NOT to do if I wanted to keep it going and what the consequences were if I did this one thing. Well, I did do the one thing I wasn't supposed to and his response was exactly what she said it would be. BUT it was the best course of action for myself in order to shove him away and now I'm feeling so much better because of it. She actually predicted that I would do what I did, even though I didn't think I would.
All in all I know you are in a tough spot, but Julie can see things the way the are in reality and it's been a God send for my sanity. I just wish that I had listened to her back in January when she told me to RUN, than maybe I wouldn't have let things get out of hand and I wouldn't have let things run on for so many moons.
I'm glad you read with her. At least you can take the info and accept where you stand with little or no expectations for the moment. Love Julie, I found the reader I've been looking for my whole life and blam the universe gave her to me.
Have a great weekend!!!
