Relationship Psychology Discussions > My Story
Synergy's Tally
sunandmoon:
--- Quote from: PsychicWhore on May 28, 2012, 09:49:11 AM ---NightSky,
She couldve asked him sooner! Only reason why she probably didnt is because the "Psychics" told her he would come back within a certain time frame.
--- End quote ---
Not always true. The main reason I never asked my ex in the beginning was because I believed he was confused and like someone said, I didn't want to rock the boat. He was still talking to me after all, and giving me mixed messages so I went with the flow. With his personality traits, had I asked him it would have pushed him into a corner and he would have walled himself in from me or ran.
lightme:
PW, I guess all of us would have our own learning cycles.
you had been calling for years before you stopped calling,
synergy will have her own experience. this is what this forum
is for, to share our experiences. thanks for sharing yours too !
lightme:
putting psychics aside, I agree that one could rock the boat by asking in the
first few months. my own opinion is we should do no contact and give enough time
for the other party to figure things/feelings out. this no contact is very painful
and that is why we started to call psychics. not saying we should or should not be calling,
but I totally understand the pain that drives people to call.
PsychicWhore:
--- Quote from: sunandmoon on May 28, 2012, 11:56:57 AM ---
--- Quote from: PsychicWhore on May 28, 2012, 09:49:11 AM ---NightSky,
She couldve asked him sooner! Only reason why she probably didnt is because the "Psychics" told her he would come back within a certain time frame.
--- End quote ---
Not always true. The main reason I never asked my ex in the beginning was because I believed he was confused and like someone said, I didn't want to rock the boat. He was still talking to me after all, and giving me mixed messages so I went with the flow. With his personality traits, had I asked him it would have pushed him into a corner and he would have walled himself in from me or ran.
--- End quote ---
Why do we have to put up with this type of behavior? They're scared and result to games and we have to sit back and try to decode and fiquire out where we stand. I wish I could care :'(, I'm emotionally Bankrupt and emotionally detached so I havent had to put up with this crap in a while. And in someway I'm happy it protects me and in the end thats whats its all about.
He plays games- goodbye
you're scared- ok goodbye
you don't want a relationship- ok, but you want all the emotional and sexual benefits of one-GOODBYE
You're idea of a date is me coming over watching your TV- GOODBYE
You Just need time? hmm mm sounds good...GOODBYE
My time is precious to me and at this point in my life you need to prove you are worthy of my time, I'm not sacrifing my needs so that all yours can be met. its unfair and if you are not ready to give me what I need then theres the door! and you don't gotta call a psychic to decode that lol :D
but O well I guess I'm a typical emotionally unavailable aquarius.
BellaLife:
Hi Synergy.........I love what you said about living your life and not waiting for things to happen...many thanks.. :)
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