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The Running Tally

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Highlyfavored2:
aef2929,
I read with him when I was 19 or 20, I'm now 30. But he had such an impression on me. At that time I was in my dorm room calling. He was actually free. I had to call a Long Distance number, and I remember him telling me I would meet someone significant. It was my very 1st Love (SM) I met him on March 6 at 9:00PM in a different time zone. He told me he saw Fire around me. and 2 weeks letter my car was stolen from off of LSU's Campus and burned. Shocked! Yes I was. He told me the relationship would profoundly change me, and I would never be the same. OMG! it was and it did. When I saw his name I almost choked. WOW!!

He told me so much that came true, and to think I called him on a whim as a joke.

aef2929 P:
Highlyfavored I totally agree.  He's a blessing really and he's been wonderful to me.  He's on click for advisor sometimes but he's usually between 7 and 10 dollars a minute...he changes the pricing here and there...on his website he's 75 for 15 minutes that's $5 a minute.  He's well worth it though I think of all the money on california psychics I wish I found some of these others alot earlier.  I mean $5 a minute for Syd or 8.50 a minute for Jacqueline...hmmm....let me think about it...ok done thinking!  There's just no comparison.  He's real.  Period.

sunandmoon:

--- Quote from: Amaranth on March 13, 2012, 04:34:32 AM ---
And interestingly enough, when I was going to therapy, they diagnosed me as BPD.  So like you said, I know there is no medication for that, but there is DBT therapy ( which I haven't tried ).  I've also heard that empaths are often diagnosed as being BPD.  Regardless, they decided that mine wasn't that severe- that I actually function very well and only traumatic situations like being abandoned or rejected by someone I love sets off the symptoms.

I'm so sorry to hear about your ex!  And you're right- that's the thing that infuriates me more than the actual cheating, I think, is to think your ex or whoever's ex would expose their commited partner to the possibility of any STDs they may have picked up while cheating.  That's really scary.

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Ugh! I had no idea he had been seeing this girl much less sleeping with her, so when we hooked up that night and he didn't pull out a condom (he HAD them sitting there so I didn't think he had been celibate all that time) I just figured he'd been using them with others and trusted me to be clean etc (I hadn't been with anyone since him). I found out 4 months later when he broke up with her what had really happened. Not a happy camper and I couldn't even say anything to him. He would have denied being with her cuz that's what he does.

You were really dx'd with BPD? Wow! I know when I went to T around my divorce, it was my T that had suggested my now ex had it. He emphasized that he couldn't say for sure without talking to him but that I should read up on it and draw my own conclusions. In any case, doing so sure allowed me to "deal" with him better. And there were times I thought I had it or something. My T said my worst issue is I'm codependent, which is an issue all in itself.

There are so many levels of it and like I said before, KNOWING it may be an issue in your life is huge in helping you to manage it. I actually had some email exchanges with a guy with BPD when my ex stopped our r/s and they were very enlightening.

Also I found that there are so many symptoms that you can almost peg anyone at having some sort of PD. My sister has one, can't remember which, but when my mom told me she was saying "this is why she acted this way and that way" and I just said, mom - we ALL acted that way when we were in high school!!!! Really freaked me out at the time.

I wish you all the best!!!  :)

haileyn:

--- Quote from: aef2929 on March 13, 2012, 06:57:13 AM ---Highlyfavored I totally agree.  He's a blessing really and he's been wonderful to me.  He's on click for advisor sometimes but he's usually between 7 and 10 dollars a minute...he changes the pricing here and there...on his website he's 75 for 15 minutes that's $5 a minute.  He's well worth it though I think of all the money on california psychics I wish I found some of these others alot earlier.  I mean $5 a minute for Syd or 8.50 a minute for Jacqueline...hmmm....let me think about it...ok done thinking!  There's just no comparison.  He's real.  Period.

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I tried to do the $75 for 15 mins deal, sent the payment then got an email from him saying I didn't leave instructions so I replied asking him when is a good time for an appointment. Few hours after that I got a refund from him saying he couldn't read for me. Shouldn't he have just said that in his original email?

Highlyfavored2:
Hailyn, go through click for advisor. The appointment and scheduling may cause conflict. That way if he is on you can get an instant reading when you are ready.

http://www.bestpsychicdirectory.com

Go under Get Instant Readings and if he is available then click call/talk now. Or just schedule a call back and make sure to extend your hours so you will be in line.

aef2929 you are right I was able to get him for cheaper.

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