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Amaranth:
Just a place/thread where I can update the current 'happenings' with my situation and details that psychics gave me.  I'll update it as things happen, so that way it might also help others to see which psychics were accurate as far as predictions and timelines go.  I'd be interested in seeing similar threads/topics from you guys on your situation where you keep some kind of tally of what's going on and who was accurate about it.  I feel it might help others maybe find psychics for themselves to see whether or not they were accurate with my situation. 

I have been receiving readings on 2 subjects that I'm specifically going to track.  A female friend I had a falling out with, and my SM, who ended a 10 year relationship when he just disappeared 2 years ago, leaving behind our brand new home and upcoming wedding.

Anyway, here's the running tally on the situation with my friend:

Kristine- says we'll resume our friendship
Therese- says we'll resume our friendship but that my friend is abusive and I should turn her away
Y- says she'll say she's sorry and we'll resume our frienship
Kathrine- says my friend will not apologize and has no interest in ever being my friend again
Stella- says we'll resume our friendship
Marie- kept refering to friend as my 'lover' never really answered whether we'd resume our friendship; confusing reading
Avalon Star- says we'll resume our friendship and WILL be as close as ever
Raven Star- says we'll resume our friendship but WON'T be as close as before
AstroSarah- says we'll resume our frienship but we won't be as close as before
Cookie- says she'll apologize and we'll resume our friendship, closer than ever
Sandy Esther- says we'll resume friendship ( gave the exact date of the last time friend contacted me )
Barbara- says we'll resume our friendship
FaeryLady- says she'll apologize and we'll enter a romantic relationship  :o
Kisha- says we'll resume our friendship

Dates for Contact:

Therese- said I would hear from friend within 10 days of my reading - WAS CORRECT.  Altho it would be the last time I heard from her, and was about 4 months ago
Kristine- said I would be contacted late March/early April
FaeryLady- said I would be contacted March 16
AstroLady- doesn't like giving timelines, but she said March 20
Sandy Esther- said I would be contacted March 21st


Okay, now some stuff about my ex. I don't get as many readings about him, because I have slowly been healing over 2 years already, and am a little more at peace with what he has done.  I don't want to get myself all worked up again by hoping for fairytale outcomes I might be given:

Kristine- said he would turn himself around in July of 2012, and would hear from him August 2012
Y- said I would hear from him right after the New Year.  HE SENT ME A CARD that I received the second week of January.  First real contact from him in over 2 years.  However, psychic said I needed to move on and that he left me because he fathered a child behind my back and was ashamed.
Kathrine- says I need to move on, we won't even be friends
AstroSarah- says I need to move on, says he cheated on me and contracted HPV, and that's why he had to leave me
Cookie- says HE DID NOT CHEAT ON ME.  Had mental breakdown ( which I can verify he was hospitalized )
FaeryLady- says HE DID NOT CHEAT ON ME.  Became 'unstable' and left out of guilt ( once again, I can verify he was hospitalized and is on a lot of meds right now to even him out )

I'm probably missing some things/some psychics, but that's it for now.  I'll update if I get additional readings, and I'll for sure update when the next date for contact ( March 16 ) passes.

sunandmoon:
Just a note, I hope you got tested for HPV! From what I understand men are carriers and may have it and not know it. But women can be tested for it.

He really just disappeared on you? I thought my that stopped being in a r/s with me suddenly was bad (he continued talking). But wow, to disappear really really sucks!!  :(

Amaranth:
I had a battery of tests done to rule out STDs when I was being diagnosed with Interstitial Cystitis 6 months ago, so I know I'm clean ( thankfully ).

One of the reasons I don't get many readings on my ex is because I know psychics can be wrong often, and some seem eager to paint the men in our lives as villains, and I don't want to get worked up hating him for something he may or may not have done when I'm finally starting to forgive and let go.  I'm more inclined to believe Cookie and FaeryLady's reading of him because in the months leading up to when he disappeared, he started exhibiting strange behavior.  He suddenly became obsessed with running, and lost 45 lbs in less than 2 months coz he would go prolonged periods without eating.  Then he started complaining about losing hours out of the day and hearing voices.

I haven't heard his voice in 2 years and he won't speak to me, but last September he called my mother, sobbing, saying he was so sorry for abandoning me and that he had been commited and diagnosed bipolar and something else.  My mom remarked to me that 'he didn't sound normal'.  I've known him 14 years and was involved with him for 10, and he was never like this before.   It's scary how something like that can come out of nowhere.

Anyway, thanks for your comment!

Synergy:
Wow.  Amaranth, I am so sorry to hear the details of your story.  I was aware that it had been years since you had contact with your ex, who you had been with for awhile, but I did not know that his mental health issues were so severe.

You are correct about some readers making men out to seem like they're awful, while others will do the opposite and will paint you a pretty picture.  It's difficult to gauge who is honest. 

I must say that it is important for everyone, male or female, to get screened for STD's at the end of every physical relationship.  I loved and trusted the father of my children, but I came to find out that he was unfaithful for the entire time we were together.  He impregnated a woman while I was pregnant, and I was devastated, but I was also angry that this man would expose me and our child to disease because the moment he had unprotected sex with someone else, he did just that.  Ever since then, I really worry about such things.  Be safe everyone.

sunandmoon:
I agree, I've been tested a few times in the past 5 years because of issues with my ex - oddly enough one was also a suspected HPV. Then last year I found that he had slept with me during a r/s he had with someone else so I had to get tested again - sheesh!

Amaranth, I do know people that have been dx'd bipolar and typically if they get medicated they are much better. But you knew him for so long.... I don't know enough about that to know if it would develop as someone gets older. I've also had experience with BPD which has its own set of issues and there is no medication for that. However if he knows he has issues, that is huge!

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