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Sincerity
international buff:
Unfortunately she was way off even with empath things. I always doubt predictions but her empath insights were soooo far from it. Overall all the reader were wrong for me. :( thank you, wasted 5 years on this guy. Dating on and off, thought Id marry him but my future husband would never treat me this way. Can’t wait to heal from this.
Miss Philosopher:
--- Quote from: international buff on January 22, 2025, 04:19:30 AM ---Unfortunately she was way off even with empath things. I always doubt predictions but her empath insights were soooo far from it. Overall all the reader were wrong for me. :( thank you, wasted 5 years on this guy. Dating on and off, thought Id marry him but my future husband would never treat me this way. Can’t wait to heal from this.
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I'm very sorry for your heartache and that these readers were all wrong. I remember when I was calling some about a previous POI that I had and I'd found out he was seeing someone. It was also a long-distance relationship as he'd moved to another state. I was told it would not last between them as well. They ended up getting married. BUT the marriage didn't last. They divorced 3 years later. He popped back up after that. I didn't want him by that time and I'd already met the current one. But I definitely agree with your statement that the man who is for you would not treat you this way. 5 years is a very long time to be treated that way. Long distance relationships are very hard as it is and spending 5 years that way had to be so difficult for you. There's someone out there much better for you. I send you lots of love and healing.
Miss Philosopher:
Alright. I have another update. Pretty much everything Sincerity said would happen did happen and this is regarding all of the readings I've had with her since 2023, minus a couple of pending items.
1. She said there'd be a shift by the end of the year and that he'd move out but stay around and deal with the situation, but that there would be a brief pause between us during the early part of 2025. All that happened. The shift was me asking him to move out because I needed change and felt that change would never happen if we remained living together. I was very done with the dynamics of how things were for the last two out of three and a half years. He did move out. Some of his stuff is still here but 75% of his stuff is gone. We did break up, briefly. The break up or pause lasted about 6 weeks. However, we never did stop communicating for weeks or anything like that. It was like a couple days here, couple days there.
2. She said anytime between the time of that reading (November of 2024) and March 2025, he would have a total change of attitude and a reconciliation would occur. That also did happen about maybe two weeks ago or so. We had long talks and reconciled. Our relationship is much better now. Better then it's been in years. I'm enjoying living separately for the time being. It gives time for both of us to grow and work on things we need to without the distraction of too many emotions involved. We've made plans to purchase a house in a year or so and we will then reside together again.
3. She said he would calm down and not want to go out with his friends as much and that his body would be feeling tired. All that is true. He said his body can't handle the same stuff anymore and he hasn't gone out with his friends once since early December 2024.
4. She said he'd start focusing more on work and our relationship by the end of January/early February 2025. All of that is true as well. He's now focused on getting his business started and he has put a lot more attention and focus on our relationship. He's even began using the words "us", "we", and "our". He hasn't used those words for the last two years.
5. She said she kept hearing the words "I'm sorry" in two different readings. He's actually apologized for how he's treated me for so long twice now. He said he wants to turn things around and wants our relationship to work. He's even agreed to read through a couple of books regarding healthy relationship dynamics together. Whereas before, for the last two years, he'd refuse to do any of it and would always tell me he didn't care.
6. In 2023 she told me he would get sober. He did beginning January 1, 2024 and has remained sober ever since.
7. She said he would get his shit together, grow, change, and become the man I need. I feel that's in progress right now.
There's many more small things she's said that all happened as well. There are a few things pending regarding my work/finances that were predicted for April/May of 2025 and a few things with my health that she picked up that I never asked about that's still pending. Pending in a positive way though, thankfully.
Sincerity has become my new Kisha.
Miss Philosopher:
--- Quote from: catherines on January 25, 2025, 08:52:00 AM ---
--- Quote from: Miss Philosopher on January 25, 2025, 05:36:34 AM ---Alright. I have another update. Pretty much everything Sincerity said would happen did happen and this is regarding all of the readings I've had with her since 2023, minus a couple of pending items.
1. She said there'd be a shift by the end of the year and that he'd move out but stay around and deal with the situation, but that there would be a brief pause between us during the early part of 2025. All that happened. The shift was me asking him to move out because I needed change and felt that change would never happen if we remained living together. I was very done with the dynamics of how things were for the last two out of three and a half years. He did move out. Some of his stuff is still here but 75% of his stuff is gone. We did break up, briefly. The break up or pause lasted about 6 weeks. However, we never did stop communicating for weeks or anything like that. It was like a couple days here, couple days there.
2. She said anytime between the time of that reading (November of 2024) and March 2025, he would have a total change of attitude and a reconciliation would occur. That also did happen about maybe two weeks ago or so. We had long talks and reconciled. Our relationship is much better now. Better then it's been in years. I'm enjoying living separately for the time being. It gives time for both of us to grow and work on things we need to without the distraction of too many emotions involved. We've made plans to purchase a house in a year or so and we will then reside together again.
3. She said he would calm down and not want to go out with his friends as much and that his body would be feeling tired. All that is true. He said his body can't handle the same stuff anymore and he hasn't gone out with his friends once since early December 2024.
4. She said he'd start focusing more on work and our relationship by the end of January/early February 2025. All of that is true as well. He's now focused on getting his business started and he has put a lot more attention and focus on our relationship. He's even began using the words "us", "we", and "our". He hasn't used those words for the last two years.
5. She said she kept hearing the words "I'm sorry" in two different readings. He's actually apologized for how he's treated me for so long twice now. He said he wants to turn things around and wants our relationship to work. He's even agreed to read through a couple of books regarding healthy relationship dynamics together. Whereas before, for the last two years, he'd refuse to do any of it and would always tell me he didn't care.
6. In 2023 she told me he would get sober. He did beginning January 1, 2024 and has remained sober ever since.
7. She said he would get his shit together, grow, change, and become the man I need. I feel that's in progress right now.
There's many more small things she's said that all happened as well. There are a few things pending regarding my work/finances that were predicted for April/May of 2025 and a few things with my health that she picked up that I never asked about that's still pending. Pending in a positive way though, thankfully.
Sincerity has become my new Kisha.
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A rollercoaster of a "relationship" like yours can never be good. One day he moves out and treats you like he doesn’t give a damn and the next you think of purchasing a home. Only reading your posts makes me feel like in a rollercoaster myself. A good relationship would never have what you are experiencing. A disaster.
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Well Catherines, I will both agree AND disagree with you at the same time. A much healthier relationship from the start would never have had all the issues that have gone on within mine. You are definitely correct about that. I will not argue with you on that one. However, the relationship as a whole has not consistently been "back and forth" if you will. There were not multiple break ups and make ups. This was the first real break up we ever had out of nearly 4 years. There was never a time when there was no contact for weeks and months, etc.
When people have certain traumas and issues, change and healing is a process and a process typically takes a year or more. I made a choice from the start to help him heal and recover. I knew his issues and I was somewhat prepared because I also had some of the same issues/traumas outside of addiction. I've never had an addiction issue. We both came from backgrounds of abuse, neglect, violence, abandonment, poverty, etc. When you mature, you strive to understand people moreso than judge them. In our case, I chose to understand because I saw something else there. Something much deeper. For the first time in his life he was provided with a foundation, stability, security, safety, by me. He needed that in order to heal and recover. I had no issue giving that to him. However, I also understand that sometimes people can become "too" comfortable and then a massive change is needed. I endured with understanding what I could, until I couldn't. Once I decided to make that change, everything else changed too.
Now you can say that a situation like that would "never work" but I whole-heartedly disagree with you. When two people CHOOSE to make positive changes, it WILL and it DOES work. But BOTH people have to be willing participants.
It seems to me that you have a very miserable and bitter outlook on many things. I'm unsure what's happened to you in your life or what is currently happening, but clearly you're in pain. That said, I will not take offense to anything you say because you're speaking from a place of pain and anger. I get it. We've all been there. I do wish you the best on your healing journey, should you choose to do so.
Miss Philosopher:
--- Quote from: catherines on January 25, 2025, 09:13:58 AM ---
--- Quote from: Miss Philosopher on January 25, 2025, 09:02:41 AM ---
--- Quote from: catherines on January 25, 2025, 08:52:00 AM ---
--- Quote from: Miss Philosopher on January 25, 2025, 05:36:34 AM ---Alright. I have another update. Pretty much everything Sincerity said would happen did happen and this is regarding all of the readings I've had with her since 2023, minus a couple of pending items.
1. She said there'd be a shift by the end of the year and that he'd move out but stay around and deal with the situation, but that there would be a brief pause between us during the early part of 2025. All that happened. The shift was me asking him to move out because I needed change and felt that change would never happen if we remained living together. I was very done with the dynamics of how things were for the last two out of three and a half years. He did move out. Some of his stuff is still here but 75% of his stuff is gone. We did break up, briefly. The break up or pause lasted about 6 weeks. However, we never did stop communicating for weeks or anything like that. It was like a couple days here, couple days there.
2. She said anytime between the time of that reading (November of 2024) and March 2025, he would have a total change of attitude and a reconciliation would occur. That also did happen about maybe two weeks ago or so. We had long talks and reconciled. Our relationship is much better now. Better then it's been in years. I'm enjoying living separately for the time being. It gives time for both of us to grow and work on things we need to without the distraction of too many emotions involved. We've made plans to purchase a house in a year or so and we will then reside together again.
3. She said he would calm down and not want to go out with his friends as much and that his body would be feeling tired. All that is true. He said his body can't handle the same stuff anymore and he hasn't gone out with his friends once since early December 2024.
4. She said he'd start focusing more on work and our relationship by the end of January/early February 2025. All of that is true as well. He's now focused on getting his business started and he has put a lot more attention and focus on our relationship. He's even began using the words "us", "we", and "our". He hasn't used those words for the last two years.
5. She said she kept hearing the words "I'm sorry" in two different readings. He's actually apologized for how he's treated me for so long twice now. He said he wants to turn things around and wants our relationship to work. He's even agreed to read through a couple of books regarding healthy relationship dynamics together. Whereas before, for the last two years, he'd refuse to do any of it and would always tell me he didn't care.
6. In 2023 she told me he would get sober. He did beginning January 1, 2024 and has remained sober ever since.
7. She said he would get his shit together, grow, change, and become the man I need. I feel that's in progress right now.
There's many more small things she's said that all happened as well. There are a few things pending regarding my work/finances that were predicted for April/May of 2025 and a few things with my health that she picked up that I never asked about that's still pending. Pending in a positive way though, thankfully.
Sincerity has become my new Kisha.
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A rollercoaster of a "relationship" like yours can never be good. One day he moves out and treats you like he doesn’t give a damn and the next you think of purchasing a home. Only reading your posts makes me feel like in a rollercoaster myself. A good relationship would never have what you are experiencing. A disaster.
--- End quote ---
Well Catherines, I will both agree AND disagree with you at the same time. A much healthier relationship from the start would never have had all the issues that have gone on within mine. You are definitely correct about that. I will not argue with you on that one. However, the relationship as a whole has not consistently been "back and forth" if you will. There were not multiple break ups and make ups. This was the first real break up we ever had out of nearly 4 years. There was never a time when there was no contact for weeks and months, etc.
When people have certain traumas and issues, change and healing is a process and a process typically takes a year or more. I made a choice from the start to help him heal and recover. I knew his issues and I was somewhat prepared because I also had some of the same issues/traumas outside of addiction. I've never had an addiction issue. We both came from backgrounds of abuse, neglect, violence, abandonment, poverty, etc. When you mature, you strive to understand people moreso than judge them. In our case, I chose to understand because I saw something else there. Something much deeper. For the first time in his life he was provided with a foundation, stability, security, safety, by me. He needed that in order to heal and recover. I had no issue giving that to him. However, I also understand that sometimes people can become "too" comfortable and then a massive change is needed. I endured with understanding what I could, until I couldn't. Once I decided to make that change, everything else changed too.
Now you can say that a situation like that would "never work" but I whole-heartedly disagree with you. When two people CHOOSE to make positive changes, it WILL and it DOES work. But BOTH people have to be willing participants.
It seems to me that you have a very miserable and bitter outlook on many things. I'm unsure what's happened to you in your life or what is currently happening, but clearly you're in pain. That said, I will not take offense to anything you say because you're speaking from a place of pain and anger. I get it. We've all been there. I do wish you the best on your healing journey, should you choose to do so.
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No pain at all on my side. You know nothing about me or my life. But a "relationship " like yours is bound to be misery. I don't care about your guesses and assumptions. Irrelevant to me but your endless novels here one day black and the next white about your relationship speak out loud for itself.
I don't go to psychics and much less to pay millions to ask about a guy. If you have to pay psychics to ask about someone you are with you already have the answer to the shit of relationship you are in.
I don't need to do that and I come from a stable and loving family so your guesses are just that, guesses and completely incorrect.
It goes beyond my understanding that you come here to vent and tell your whole story of your so called relationship. Can't you see that you are talking to yourself here, disclosing your life entirely?? That in itself speaks out loud about you. And your rollercoaster even more.
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For someone that doesn't use psychics at all for anything, I wonder why you're part of this forum? How did you even happen upon it? Seems a bit odd, no? You certainly don't have to read my "endless novels". I post my experiences here because, well, that's the entire reason for the existence of this website. I figured that would be common sense to the average person. Guess not. You're not obligated to read my novels but somehow, you find yourself reading them anyway. They must interest you to some degree.
Your negative and "endless judgment" speaks volumes. Your bitterness is more than obvious. What's typically the root cause of bitterness? Anger. What's typically underneath anger? Pain. Regardless of your background and the fact that I know no specifics about you or your life, it is easy for anyone and everyone to see that you are bitter and miserable. If you weren't, you wouldn't continue to attempt to be nasty. Nevertheless, what you think of my relationship is your problem. Not mine. Your opinion is noted but not considered. Have a nice evening. :)
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