31 day July challenge

[jolimano]

I’m ready for this challenge so of course I got two readings today on Purple Garden to hold me over lol. One was with that five minute trial for VIP users- I read with AnnLucas and Ashtar. Both were consistent with all other readers but AnnLucas made a pretty bold prediction for this upcoming week. She said my poi Will have a conversation with me this week where he brings up us moving in together and what that would look like. as much as I would welcome that idea and conversation, it seems a little far-fetched just because of timing. I will definitely update you guys though

I feel like we are doing the opposite of what we are trying to do in this thread lol. I also had two readings today. Have you read with QOC or Kisha?

[jolimano]

I don’t know if Aries intuition is one of those? Lol. If she’s not then no I haven’t read with Kisha or QOC. My reading with Aries intuition is due I think like Tuesday of next week

Yes Kisha is Aries Intuition. Please let me  know how your reading goes! I just received mine today. An email reading.

[jolimano]

I definitely will! How was yours? Do you feel like it was a good connection? Was there a lot of details?

I'm a little confused by it, to be honest. Maybe I am in denial. I can't tell if it is final, or if it for the timeline she sees???

I can PM it to you if you're interested? I would love to have some feedback.

[sexyp]

I have scheduled with Yona this July, I hope this doesnt count as July challenge failed.
I have paid it last month.

that is fine. for readings already booked should be fine

[jolimano]

Tssssssttttt!!!!

Focus!!!!
You guys want to gossip and ask who worked for who about other psychics use the rest of the forum for that, you want to focus on being clean from readings focus on then stay on the solutions here. Make this space for what you guys intended.
Staying in solution means: I’m not calling or checking i made that choice but I’m having withdrawals feeling anxious, so I worked out! Checked in with a friend! Read helpful literature. Kept my mind from being idle ... I dunno maybe that’s my HW as well what does “staying in solution mean? When it comes to psychics?”
-Creating spaces for safety where nope no psychic allowed no mental dwelling

I’ve been doing this exercise for a week and it’s helped me a lot but is also kind of manifestation technique, but it’s also writing thing, so I’m sure it could benefit splurging your unwanted feels. And it’s kind of why I’ve been so assertive lately.

If you’re moping and feeling sad, wanting to call a psychic
1. Get timer set it to 10-20 min
2. Write; pen to paper (no not your phone it could help but the more you’re finger cramp the better) write why you want to call, what’s not working? Anything everything, cry the next couple minutes if you can’t write, but start writing
3. When timer goes off say: deleted! Cancel that! I’m done with story. Garbage! Crumple the paper throw it away!
4. Set the timer again 10 min or more but at least 5 min ; write your new story! How it’s easy, how you would like it be, stay in the positive! How you don’t think about psychics, don’t even mention it.

Do it again if you have to 3 times a day or in the once in the morning or when you’re feeling too much. Like I said I have a week,  after day 3 I forgot to do day 4, but when I got to day 5 I spent less time but I snapped out of it faster. I just did this again today: yup thought about opening my account what so and so reader, wrote it out and told myself done with it! Scribbled the words, But then wrote a new story. If I feel anxious I know I can come back to this again tomorrow... and you know no that lie I’ve been writing and journaling for myself so spending time with this has probably made this technique a little more empowering. I do little eft tapping for my crying portion, but I think that part of psychic stuff that makes it hard is spending too much time on “dwelling” or “wallowing”. And I think if you want to challenge yourself: let yourself feel, but then stop limit it, redirect your focus.


I currently have 5 days and 16 hr and 23 min! Clean!

You're right lol. Thanks for this!

[jolimano]

Btw, I remember Angel readings wrote that it is better not to have readings at least give space for 3 weeks after any reading. Maybe its good for us now.. i wonder if this is true AR said it will block prediction and energy.

Btw all of you are talking about QoC, may i have the link please?
Beside Keen, where she is reading?
Not to have reading for now because we are in July Challenge, but i just want to know where she is for future reference.

I am pretty sure she is only on Keen!

https://www.keen.com/tarot-readers/queen-of-cups18/7074596?category=0&gid=0&pmode=0&flmode=call&pageid=26

[samantha87]

I am in; I went about five months without any readings and I had four in the past two weeks.  So I want to go back to none!

[Nala208111]

Hey Everyone Happy July!!!! and Happy Day 1!!!
How's everyone holding up!??

[sexyp]

Good! Tempted to try some Michele Knight Psychics but trying to resist it

Btw, I remember Angel readings wrote that it is better not to have readings at least give space for 3 weeks after any reading. Maybe its good for us now.. i wonder if this is true AR said it will block prediction and energy.

Btw all of you are talking about QoC, may i have the link please?
Beside Keen, where she is reading?
Not to have reading for now because we are in July Challenge, but i just want to know where she is for future reference.

I am pretty sure she is only on Keen!

https://www.keen.com/tarot-readers/queen-of-cups18/7074596?category=0&gid=0&pmode=0&flmode=call&pageid=26

This ... misses the point 🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️

So not to pick on you guys, but I see people keep going back to this, think of this way:
It’s like going to AA meeting you bring a case of tequila and beer. We’re not going to drink the alcohol but we’re going to talk about which brands made us do ... (fill in the blank)

It’s just best not to bring the alcohol or drug period to the meeting! I just think this is disrespectful to this section of The thread. PLEASE REFRAME FROM MENTIONING PSYCHICS OR RECOMMENDATIONS ON THIS SECTION, focus on your recovery. You have the whole other board for this, you can direct message people for this and post directly under the psychic thread, but seriously make a commitment to one space, of zero tolerance

And I’m fine if I get criticized for this, I’m not the moderator, this is review forum, well what about you! blah blah blah, etc. I really am over it and proves to me some things

Please be well and again create a section of recovery If not here somewhere else, Create touchstone places,  cause it will snowball later and become safe haven when triggered

I agree and hope going forward we can stop talking about readers on this page. Anyway, day one done

[jolimano]

Good! Tempted to try some Michele Knight Psychics but trying to resist it

Btw, I remember Angel readings wrote that it is better not to have readings at least give space for 3 weeks after any reading. Maybe its good for us now.. i wonder if this is true AR said it will block prediction and energy.

Btw all of you are talking about QoC, may i have the link please?
Beside Keen, where she is reading?
Not to have reading for now because we are in July Challenge, but i just want to know where she is for future reference.

I am pretty sure she is only on Keen!

https://www.keen.com/tarot-readers/queen-of-cups18/7074596?category=0&gid=0&pmode=0&flmode=call&pageid=26

This ... misses the point 🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️

So not to pick on you guys, but I see people keep going back to this, think of this way:
It’s like going to AA meeting you bring a case of tequila and beer. We’re not going to drink the alcohol but we’re going to talk about which brands made us do ... (fill in the blank)

It’s just best not to bring the alcohol or drug period to the meeting! I just think this is disrespectful to this section of The thread. PLEASE REFRAME FROM MENTIONING PSYCHICS OR RECOMMENDATIONS ON THIS SECTION, focus on your recovery. You have the whole other board for this, you can direct message people for this and post directly under the psychic thread, but seriously make a commitment to one space, of zero tolerance

And I’m fine if I get criticized for this, I’m not the moderator, this is review forum, well what about you! blah blah blah, etc. I really am over it and proves to me some things

Please be well and again create a section of recovery If not here somewhere else, Create touchstone places,  cause it will snowball later and become safe haven when triggered

I wouldn't criticize you for this, because I think you're right! I just wanted to respond to amour and now I am done. No more psychic talk!

[Realrealwater]

You are right @Pinkamena

This should be a trigger free zone.
No more feeding the fire - it needs to die.

[Hopeful2020]

Day 4 check in. Hope you all are doing great! Here is some motivation. ❤

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[Realrealwater]

I have reached out to psychics for a while now...
Keep getting the whole rhetoric is that he is stubborn& is holding back....
I just followed my poi (he asked me to - a month ago, I just reactivated) & he followed back straight away.
It’s really not a huge deal but...

I keep proving myself right & these psychics seems to be reading his PERSONALITY but not his heart.
(I have other instances where he has responded very well)
Believe me, I’m on July pause& I feel like I’ve done more harm than good consulting psychics & filling my head with things I know in my gut, aren’t true.
I’m really happy to be taking steps towards following my gut & reconnecting with myself.

Next stop will be reaching out. Tired of this psychic shit now.
It was getting out of control.
6 days clean

[JJC]

I have reached out to psychics for a while now...
Keep getting the whole rhetoric is that he is stubborn& is holding back....
I just followed my poi (he asked me to - a month ago, I just reactivated) & he followed back straight away.
It’s really not a huge deal but...

I keep proving myself right & these psychics seems to be reading his PERSONALITY but not his heart.
(I have other instances where he has responded very well)
Believe me, I’m on July pause& I feel like I’ve done more harm than good consulting psychics & filling my head with things I know in my gut, aren’t true.
I’m really happy to be taking steps towards following my gut & reconnecting with myself.

Next stop will be reaching out. Tired of this psychic shit now.
It was getting out of control.
6 days clean

I know how hard it is for you right now, not saying you should go back for another reading after this pause of 6 days, but I also don't feel you should reach out to him either, you will end up being the one to initiate contact again and again until getting fed up completely.

[Realrealwater]

I’m sure it won’t be this way.
(I’m not the chasing type - number 1.)
2. I just want to follow my gut.

Today i just said fuck it.... That’s who I am.
He will have to come towards me as of now. I gave him a lil validation.
What I’m saying is if I feel it is taking away from my own power - reaching out is an option.
I dont have to do this to myself.