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Offline Nala208111

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Re: 30 day June challenge
« Reply #15 on: June 02, 2020, 08:23:29 PM »
Good Tip! I'm have done that in the past without the intention of avoiding the reading haha but great idea to do it purposefully. thanks!!

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Re: 30 day June challenge
« Reply #16 on: June 02, 2020, 10:31:30 PM »
So it’s about to be 12am so that’s day 2 done.

My tip/hack is to join a fb group for manifesting or LOA that’s interactive.
I feel I turned to readings because I felt powerless. But the more I realise how I view my situation myself - the more I realise I need to change my mindset.
I haven't had the urge to read at all& usually when it’s quiet is when I’d get the itch. But I’m just accepting and allowing. I feel normal.
I even sold my tarot cards. I just want this phase of my life to be a distant memory - whatever happens

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Re: 30 day June challenge
« Reply #17 on: June 03, 2020, 02:53:28 AM »
I’m at 2 day 3 hr 21 min and counting ... day 3 is usually the hardest for me... why I want to quit or commit to this challenge? Whatever the reason it better be good and enough compelling for me. Le Sigh

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Re: 30 day June challenge
« Reply #18 on: June 03, 2020, 09:37:25 AM »
Day 3 for me and still standing. It has been a struggle but I keep telling myself to spend that money on myself and so I have just done that. I bought myself some new dresses off Nastygal and I feel good about that. I cannot remember the last time I did a clothes haul yet I could have done this with money spent on readings

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Re: 30 day June challenge
« Reply #19 on: June 03, 2020, 10:49:51 AM »
𝙸 𝚚𝚞𝚒𝚌𝚔𝚕𝚢 𝚍𝚒𝚍 𝚊 𝚛𝚎𝚊𝚍𝚒𝚗𝚐 𝚊𝚝 11𝚙𝚖 𝚘𝚗 𝚝𝚑𝚎 31𝚜𝚝 𝚝𝚘 𝚐𝚎𝚝 𝚖𝚎 𝚝𝚑𝚛𝚘𝚞𝚐𝚑, 𝚋𝚞𝚝 𝙰𝚗𝚡𝚒𝚎𝚝𝚢 𝚍𝚎𝚏𝚒𝚗𝚒𝚝𝚎𝚕𝚢 𝚔𝚒𝚌𝚔𝚎𝚍 𝚒𝚗 𝚢𝚎𝚜𝚝𝚎𝚛𝚍𝚊𝚢 𝚊𝚗𝚍 𝙸 𝚠𝚊𝚗𝚝𝚎𝚍 𝚝𝚘 𝚛𝚎𝚊𝚍. 𝚂𝚘 𝚏𝚊𝚛, 𝚜𝚘 𝚐𝚘𝚘𝚍. 𝙸 𝚙𝚞𝚕𝚕𝚎𝚍 𝚜𝚘𝚖𝚎 𝚌𝚊𝚛𝚍𝚜 𝚏𝚘𝚛 𝚖𝚢𝚜𝚎𝚕𝚏, 𝚋𝚞𝚝 𝙸 𝚊𝚖 𝚓𝚞𝚜𝚝 𝚕𝚎𝚊𝚛𝚗𝚒𝚗𝚐 𝚜𝚘 𝙸 𝚛𝚎𝚊𝚕𝚕𝚢 𝚍𝚘𝚗'𝚝 𝚔𝚗𝚘𝚠 𝚑𝚘𝚠 𝚝𝚘 𝚒𝚗𝚝𝚎𝚛𝚙𝚛𝚎𝚝 𝚝𝚑𝚎𝚖 𝚊𝚗𝚢𝚠𝚊𝚢. (𝙳𝚘𝚎𝚜 𝚝𝚑𝚊𝚝 𝚌𝚘𝚞𝚗𝚝 𝚊𝚜 𝚌𝚑𝚎𝚊𝚝𝚒𝚗𝚐??)

𝙰𝚜 𝚏𝚊𝚛 𝚊𝚜 𝚗𝚘𝚝 𝚐𝚎𝚝𝚝𝚒𝚗𝚐 𝚛𝚎𝚊𝚍𝚒𝚗𝚐𝚜 𝚐𝚘𝚎𝚜, 𝙸 𝚏𝚒𝚗𝚍 𝚏𝚘𝚛 𝚖𝚢𝚜𝚎𝚕𝚏 𝚝𝚑𝚊𝚝 𝚒𝚏 𝙸 𝚜𝚊𝚢 "𝙸 𝚌𝚊𝚗 𝚗𝚘𝚝 𝚍𝚘 𝚒𝚝" 𝙸𝚝 𝚐𝚒𝚟𝚎𝚜 𝚖𝚎 𝚊𝚗𝚡𝚒𝚎𝚝𝚢, 𝚋𝚞𝚝 𝚒𝚏 𝙸 𝚓𝚞𝚜𝚝 𝚝𝚎𝚕𝚕 𝚖𝚢𝚜𝚎𝚕𝚏 "𝙸 𝚌𝚘𝚞𝚕𝚍, 𝚋𝚞𝚝 𝙸'𝚖 𝚌𝚑𝚘𝚘𝚜𝚒𝚗𝚐 𝚗𝚘𝚝 𝚝𝚘" 𝙸𝚝 𝚒𝚜𝚗'𝚝 𝚊𝚜 𝚋𝚊𝚍.. 𝙸𝚍𝚔 𝚙𝚛𝚘𝚋𝚊𝚋𝚕𝚢 𝚊 𝚖𝚎𝚗𝚝𝚊𝚕 𝚒𝚜𝚜𝚞𝚎 𝚕𝚘𝚕

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Re: 30 day June challenge
« Reply #20 on: June 03, 2020, 11:28:38 AM »
Today will definitely be a bit of a challenge for me cos I feel a tad off.
I’m going to use it as an opportunity to explore what makes me feel better during uncertain times. It’s like a feel lonely& I’m always alone anyway. But that’s the void I feel when I try not to make readings an option.

I’ma give myself small rewards for not readings & a bigger one every week that passes.
Thinking about what to do for myself today....any suggestions? Yesterday, I spent the WHOLE day in the sun,I had a nice alcopop& ordered from my fav takeaway.

I think I’m finally gunna bust open my new foot spa &do my toes& maybe try to find a series although I’ve found myself having poor concentration due to lock down
I used to make sure I do it every week now I see how much I neglect myself -I don't even enjoy it anymore. It saddens me :(

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Re: 30 day June challenge
« Reply #21 on: June 03, 2020, 01:38:48 PM »
sooo day 2 here... i'm feeling good so far.. day is still early lol..
yesterday was better than the day before...
it helps to come here and read  posts to divert my attention...

i took some time last night to think about why i feel the need to get a reading...
the thing that kills me about my "reading addiction" - life for the most part is good for me..
i just took a placement test to enroll to finish my masters online at harvard, things with my POI are developing nicely, works good...
my only anxiety - is money cuz i spend to much on these damn readings!
so trying to stay focused on that!!! 
(pulling up my bank account everytime i get the urge) lolol.. (kidding... not kidding)



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Re: 30 day June challenge
« Reply #22 on: June 03, 2020, 05:08:37 PM »
I’m working on what will be day 3 today. I am trying also to manifest my way out of debt, but I also think in the bigger picture is the universe won’t invest in me if my actions don’t inspire that, so I get to also take actions that reflects that. What am I doing To reflect this?  So ...it’s about day 4 or 5 of setting aside every day what I make from uber 10% or more (also yes, I’m aware this isn’t even enough for taxes, why I’m living poverty when the standard tax is way about 20-25% - but I’ll let future me worry about that, and it’s all I can for right now. Plus 10 % is better than nothing)

It’s genuine and super small but efficient baby steps I am committing to with my finances and I love that I’ve kept this promise to myself. It feel so nice and good to wake up knowing I have this, in a special place where I know mentality I’m not grabbing it for psychics, just nope... so I have gratitude about that, I am grateful I am keeping my promises to myself about money.

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Re: 30 day June challenge
« Reply #23 on: June 03, 2020, 06:17:02 PM »
I saw this quote on my workout app awhile back and wanted to post it (it was for women fitness app): change your “have to” and “shoulds” to I “get to”
I think about how it’s half way thru the year- if I’m addicted to psychics badly now, wait December cause usually holidays are way worse and lonelier; karmically I know I’m always served dish of what I worked on.

So I instead of “I have to quit psychics” I get to:
-work on my finances
-Work on my anxiety and triggers
-Work on myself
-Work with getting into stillness
-Work on loving myself better... wildly... passionately... in ways that serve me and puts me into wellness

And maybe work isn’t the right word either but I hope this helps, reflects in what we get to have and be grateful, and Stay accountable to show up.

-I get to learn to save money and love it!
-I get to learn to about my anxiety, that loves me better

I also know sometimes when I’m longingly looking for advisors to self soothe that anxiety that I just can’t be reassured with what they say (maybe for a day or week or month). But...Limiting that time spent in worrying. And it’s truly sinking in way way way more that ever if I have doubts, worry, anxiety I don’t have to believe that state of being, to know I am ok, I’m good! I will be more than enough, forgive myself and just go do something else with no judgments. Flip the states of being when in worry and doubt... it’s definitely doable... hard at first but I think will help shift

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Re: 30 day June challenge
« Reply #24 on: June 03, 2020, 06:52:13 PM »
I saw this quote on my workout app awhile back and wanted to post it (it was for women fitness app): change your “have to” and “shoulds” to I “get to”
I think about how it’s half way thru the year- if I’m addicted to psychics badly now, wait December cause usually holidays are way worse and lonelier; karmically I know I’m always served dish of what I worked on.

So I instead of “I have to quit psychics” I get to:
-work on my finances
-Work on my anxiety and triggers
-Work on myself
-Work with getting into stillness
-Work on loving myself better... wildly... passionately... in ways that serve me and puts me into wellness

And maybe work isn’t the right word either but I hope this helps, reflects in what we get to have and be grateful, and Stay accountable to show up.

-I get to learn to save money and love it!
-I get to learn to about my anxiety, that loves me better

I also know sometimes when I’m longingly looking for advisors to self soothe that anxiety that I just can’t be reassured with what they say (maybe for a day or week or month). But...Limiting that time spent in worrying. And it’s truly sinking in way way way more that ever if I have doubts, worry, anxiety I don’t have to believe that state of being, to know I am ok, I’m good! I will be more than enough, forgive myself and just go do something else with no judgments. Flip the states of being when in worry and doubt... it’s definitely doable... hard at first but I think will help shift

Yessss!!!! Love this!!! Rooting for you :)

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Re: 30 day June challenge
« Reply #25 on: June 04, 2020, 01:50:58 PM »
I actually haven’t had a reading since Saturday but for the sake of this post.
Nearly had a reading last night - someone I REALLY wanted to read with again was on last night but I but my phone next to me & managed to fall asleep.
I feel so powerful atm.

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Re: 30 day June challenge
« Reply #26 on: June 04, 2020, 04:16:56 PM »
 Good afternoon! day 3 today, made it through another day yesterday! yay! so happy to hear everyone is doing well. today feels much easier than yesterday!! thank god!
love the posts above!

I could not agree more about how anxiety and readings being a source of reassurance. totally hitting the nail on the head for me..

Happy Thursday everyone! 
 

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Re: 30 day June challenge
« Reply #27 on: June 04, 2020, 06:47:32 PM »
Checking in: 3 days 19 hr... working on what will be day 4. It’s been challenging ... i was about to check in at 17 hrs and then realized oh I haven’t really check in with myself or spent time in gratitude. I spent a little time on that then thought I’ll go pay bill and did. Yes that was nice! Feeling inspired I then decided into looking up another bill -but instead got frustrated! Yep, I’m at a wall of frustration with that bill/situation... so I’m currently not feeling sunshine or the ease... so better check in...

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Re: 30 day June challenge
« Reply #28 on: June 05, 2020, 12:29:57 AM »
3 days and 18 hrs. I don't plan to have any until July when I try to get my half reading with Yona.

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Re: 30 day June challenge
« Reply #29 on: June 05, 2020, 03:02:29 PM »
I broke down and called 😭😫😣 made though time 4 day and 13 hr ... gonna I dunno ... not binge but just feel hopeless ? I dunno