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30 day Challenge
russianred:
--- Quote from: beachgal214 on May 06, 2020, 03:12:33 PM ---so today is day 30 over here. I dont know why but I am getting that anxious feeling I know all too well over here.
its like this gnawing that I just want to know how hes feeling at present.
its heavy today. I have been doing so good. havent felt like this in a while.
the good news is I am not going to call keen or anything. but I am tempted to phone a good empath. but trying not to. i think I can redirect my attention. going to try that.
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Hey, so sorry that you are feeling anxious and tempted. I had written some questions trying to help you to "reason" your way out of calling but I think everyone on this thread knows that readings are not rational or logical yet we still have spent hundreds/thousands on them.
I actually got this from my therapist today (not in regards to readings): when you are tempted to do something to soothe your anxiety that you know isn't good for you, it's a good reminder to look inwards and use healthy tools to combat (or even just sit with) the anxiety. I honestly believe that compulsively getting readings is very similar to drinking or using drugs to cope with intrusive and anxious thoughts. It's that compulsive "I NEED this RIGHT NOW" piece that is a signal to me that the reading will actually never give me what I'm looking for, unlike the readings I used to get on occasion "for fun"
kdspirited:
I brokedown and got a general reading from Kisha. I am getting very anxious about my job situation or lack there off and she is good with landing career predictions. The good news is i had no desire to ask about my POI
bee.23:
--- Quote from: kdspirited on May 09, 2020, 06:26:18 AM ---I brokedown and got a general reading from Kisha. I am getting very anxious about my job situation or lack there off and she is good with landing career predictions. The good news is i had no desire to ask about my POI
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Has she been accurate with your love and POI situations in the past? May I ask
beachgal214:
--- Quote from: kdspirited on May 09, 2020, 06:26:18 AM ---I brokedown and got a general reading from Kisha. I am getting very anxious about my job situation or lack there off and she is good with landing career predictions. The good news is i had no desire to ask about my POI
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that is great news about not having urge to ask about POI!!!
how are you doing? I fell off wagon a bit and am working to get myself back. I know I can get back there!!! I am just giving myself some grace and starting over. Day 1 today :)
beachgal214:
--- Quote from: Pinkamena on May 12, 2020, 03:25:54 PM ---
--- Quote from: beachgal214 on May 12, 2020, 01:11:16 PM ---
--- Quote from: kdspirited on May 09, 2020, 06:26:18 AM ---I brokedown and got a general reading from Kisha. I am getting very anxious about my job situation or lack there off and she is good with landing career predictions. The good news is i had no desire to ask about my POI
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that is great news about not having urge to ask about POI!!!
how are you doing? I fell off wagon a bit and am working to get myself back. I know I can get back there!!! I am just giving myself some grace and starting over. Day 1 today :)
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Beachgal I am so proud of you! You got this!
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thank you, Pink!! Trying over here. I have felt amazing in the past. Just need to get back there. Unfortunately I usually broke the binge cycle by getting confirmation and validation from POI -- and right now I refuse to do that for various reasons, mainly pride. so... its a bit harder this go round. my feelings were hurt bc of his lack of contact and so thats why im a bit edgy. but I so appreciate the support and know ill g et. back there!!!
how are you holding up?
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