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almondtree:
I am sorry if I destroy some people's hope with my post. But I am glad that it did not work for me.

It is easier said than done to un-believe the psychics. Trust me, and ask hundreds of people in this forum.
For some, the psychics might work, and it might save them from many issues, etc. They did help me several times.
The psychic did help me make the right choices, I should say, but not all the time. And that is the issue.
We never know if they are right this time even though they were right last time, and that is probably one reason people come to this forum.
For me, I am done. I am not going to gamble anymore.

As for asking directly the POI, sometimes it is not possible. Some situations are more complicated than others. Please don't judge. In my situation, a relationship is forbidden due to the nature of the works we did together.

I was not doing crazy either. I just asked what he thought about me ( related to the work). However, I was told in the readings that it would take months but we would definitely get closer and he would contact me outside the works. That we have potential, that he was attracted to me. During this time, I was being friendly to him, and avoid showing him the usual cranky me. The project was over last October, so I did not see him anymore since then. I was told to not contact him because he would contact me and it would be a friendly relationship outside the work, according to several psychics. So I waited patiently for months for the prediction to happen just to find out that he is married. So what was the potential about? Potential of getting a  heart-breaking surprise?
LOL
He might contact me in the future for a friendly relationship...who knows. But it is a game-changer for me that he is married.
I guess this is the thing about psychics...they could be right, but most of the time only partially right...For me, I have never found anyone who is 100% right.

Again, I am happy for you who have psychics that work. For me, I am glad, that none of them ever is 100% right...
I have come to the point that I finally could be psychic free...that is another story.
Like many others here, Christianity is my exit from my psychic addiction.

sexyp:
wow is all i can say and I am sorry this happened to you. the next thing I will ask is you spill everyone who lied to you about this man so we know who fake connects. GIRL spill!! :-* :-*


 
--- Quote from: almondtree on March 13, 2020, 08:32:43 PM ---I am sorry if I destroy some people's hope with my post. But I am glad that it did not work for me.

It is easier said than done to un-believe the psychics. Trust me, and ask hundreds of people in this forum.
For some, the psychics might work, and it might save them from many issues, etc. They did help me several times.
The psychic did help me make the right choices, I should say, but not all the time. And that is the issue.
We never know if they are right this time even though they were right last time, and that is probably one reason people come to this forum.
For me, I am done. I am not going to gamble anymore.

As for asking directly the POI, sometimes it is not possible. Some situations are more complicated than others. Please don't judge. In my situation, a relationship is forbidden due to the nature of the works we did together.

I was not doing crazy either. I just asked what he thought about me ( related to the work). However, I was told in the readings that it would take months but we would definitely get closer and he would contact me outside the works. That we have potential, that he was attracted to me. During this time, I was being friendly to him, and avoid showing him the usual cranky me. The project was over last October, so I did not see him anymore since then. I was told to not contact him because he would contact me and it would be a friendly relationship outside the work, according to several psychics. So I waited patiently for months for the prediction to happen just to find out that he is married. So what was the potential about? Potential of getting a  heart-breaking surprise?
LOL
He might contact me in the future for a friendly relationship...who knows. But it is a game-changer for me that he is married.
I guess this is the thing about psychics...they could be right, but most of the time only partially right...For me, I have never found anyone who is 100% right.

Again, I am happy for you who have psychics that work. For me, I am glad, that none of them ever is 100% right...
I have come to the point that I finally could be psychic free...that is another story.
Like many others here, Christianity is my exit from my psychic addiction.

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kdspirited:

--- Quote from: Pinkamena on March 13, 2020, 06:39:22 PM ---Eak!!! I think we need to be a little bit more sensitive here to this member. It happen, and my heart does go out to what you experienced.

First off, let’s cut the stigma of shame out:

I think this IS a very COMMON especially on this forum but it is a kind of attachment disorder or fantasy... and it’s also a really sensitive subject because people on the going thru it are highly critical of what to say or indulge (and of themselves too).

I call it love addiction, other say limerence, or unrequited love, torchbearing, intense infatuation ... but regardless (and this isn’t easy to say because I’m highly sensitive too and have been very cynical lately on this forum, so I understand if you won’t like what I say) if this a common pattern I would recommend some books (there in the Patrick Carnes, Pia Melody, the dreamer and the fantasy & the fantasy relationship by Lue)... all I want to say is people like you do exist! There are highly sensitive and very shy and very selective on whom (or who) they open their heart. Yet has this happened before? (And you don’t have to answer here, but I think a lot of people on here secretly go through this)

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I completely agree with Pinkamena this happens all the time in work situations. Someone might be flirting with you but because of work and the whole Meetoo thing never express or take it to the next level. The person on the receiving end can be someone who can get infautated with someone and start to day dream about it they maybe too shy to ask. Especially sometimes such personalities who are extremely shy get a little too shy get worse when it comes to someone they like. They may be even more hesitant and get tongue tied around them. This is a real phenomena.
Also this guy maynot be a full time employee but a consultant in the company and work for another company. In that event you may not know anything about him. But the good news is the cat is out of the bag and now you can move on with your life. And do share who these psychics are.

almondtree:
I know it is hard to chew. I know this is not going to happen to you. I know this is just simply me being stupid.
I know it is nothing to do with some of the psychics.
Based on these, I would not spill out the names of the psychics that I talk to.
They are those of the most favorite and most mentioned here in the forum.
There are two ways of learning things in life: one from your own mistakes, the other way is by listening to people who have been there.

I am so much content and happier without psychic readings. My pocket is happier too.
I love Jesus. God is real.

I wish all of you all the best.

njlady:

--- Quote from: almondtree on March 13, 2020, 04:46:18 PM ---We were kind of flirting when we were doing works together.

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You called for a year about a guy you were kind of flirting with?  Wasn't there some way for you to have some small talk and find out what his situation was?  Maybe say you're going to Subway and does he want to come along and small talk? Or ask a few carefully crafted innocuous questions and statements like do you have a long commute? I heard the school system there is really good. There are so many ways to get basic info about people you have access to.  When people have a prompt or non-threatening opening, they normally disclose these things. 

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