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diamondcanadian:

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--- Quote from: Fairydust123 on March 08, 2020, 07:36:44 AM ---Hey everyone!

Idk if this breaks the posting rules but I'm feeling uncomfortable even posting now. For people that have been on the forum for a while and us newbies come on here and post or update a prediction thats come to pass... maybe search other peoples thoughts on a reader too on all the links for that reader or topic before accusing us "newbies" of being that reader. It makes me want to take all of my posts downand not share and thats not fair to people who may have read with someone and are waiting and need encouragement. I thought going back and updating about a prediction for my situation might help someone else who has also read with her(spiritroombydawn,etsy). So sorry for posting. I don't even feel comfortable posting now. Are people always accused of being that reader when a prediction passes? Not trying to start anything but has this happened to anyone else on the forum? Ps. If i were the reader, I wouldn't be updating after having posted earlier.

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It's not personal - it's from experience.  Those of us who have been around a while have seen the forum used as a way tp advertise readers.  If I were a reader, and knew of this forum, and wanted to pull in some business, I'd probably do it too. 
It's not something to be sensitive about.  It happens commonly - and for those of us who have walked the addiction path and wasted thousands on readings in the past, it's important to warn others of the traps.
I suggest you post as you wish.. after a while, you'll gain increasing trust and it won't be an issue any more.

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Take it all with a grain of salt. It's not personal, some people are just super protective of the forum and will start spouting reader as if it were a witch hunt. I got called out for saying this forum makes me want to be a life coach. People backed off when I started snapping back but of course I had to explain myself for people to hush. Just comes with the territory I guess.

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I didn’t back off because you snapped back, literally didn’t give a shit enough to post again about something I really don’t care that much about .

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Why are you continuing to troll me? I didn't tag or state any particular person or individuals that were rude to other members, but you just called yourself out for being one of those individuals. Yes I felt like it was a witch hunt to an extend for zero reason because if you don't like something, don't read it. Simple as that. Subject was dropped over a week ago and I gladly appologized on that thread yet here you are again. Cute, real cute....

Ever heard the phrase "don't come for me if I didn't call for you!" ... If I wanted to call out a specific person please believe I would have but I respect other people's opinions are their own even if they are different than mine. Maybe you should try that out for size.

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Everyone knows it was me , they just have to read the thread . The evidence is right there .

And if it was dropped over a week ago, why bring it up again in the first place ?

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But did I link that thread directly, NO.
Did I state hey go to my one thread and you'll see, NO.
Did I mention your name, NO.

IF people want to do their own research then let them. That's on them not on you or I for that matter. I wasn't calling anyone out bluntly or directly at all with my original comment just said hey I feel you had the same thing happen to me. AND I only bring it up that it was you because YOU brought it up in this thread to begin with. You could have just not commented at all and let it lie. YOU reinforce it by addressing it directly here in this thread.

Projection at it's finest.

There is a BIG and valid difference between hey this also happened to me on some threads AND xyz person snapped at me in my one thread.

We're supposed to be here to help each other here right? Not tear each other part

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Lmao okay, you keep getting yourself worked up over it .

I’ll just keep “trolling” as you put it 😎

Fairydust123:
Guys,I didnt post this for everyone to fight about!  For those who kindly responded, thank you!  I appreciate that! I am not a reader. I wish I was, because that would make life easier lol. But i just wanted tonpost because it sucks feeling like you can be a part of a community that people are going through the same thing and then when you post a review, you get accussed. I do understand people want to weed out lurking readers though. But I'm def not old and  def dont have a british accent lmao.

Fairydust123:
Yes, lets just all try to support each other and yes, I'm sure there are readers that get on here. But lets have more evidence before accussing so we don't all feel uncomfortable!! I just want everyone to be okay!

Love2lovenj:
Honestly it sucks feeling attacked but if you don't respond to it you are better off.  Share your experiences, comment when you want to give support and chime in and just ignore everything else.  Welcome to all the newbies.

Smiley1:
Same happened to me.  It’s the same people always accusing new posters.

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