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Smiley1:
Thanks. Glad I reached out and asked.  Stops me ringing anyone else.





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--- Quote from: Smiley1 on February 23, 2020, 01:00:17 AM ---Yeah. It has to come from him.  Yona told me that 2 years ago.

Readers that said he’s embarrassed by his behaviour made sense.  He embarrassed himself doing what he did.

But hey. Obviously if I was significant he’d have reached out and apologised. Maybe he doesn’t care.

We live and learn

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He may very well care to some degree, but the level of care he has is outweighed by his own ego, self-preservation, and insecurity.  If someone that you spent a significant amount of time with just vanishes and then ignores you, it means that they are a damage case and I’d say, self-centered or that they have really crappy self-esteem so they put up this shield of protection.  Zadalia is the empath that best picked up on my POI’s thought patterns.  In the end, you can’t make someone want to communicate with you, so you’ve got to move forward (not necessarily move on, but move forward).  With these POI’s that vanish, if they’re supposed to come back, they will.  It’s just that their return is not on our timetable and there’s not a damn thing we can do to make them comply with our request that they man up and communicate.  My POI is a kind person, he is honest, he is genuine.  I know that he isn’t playing a game with me or intentionally trying to hurt me.  I imagine that he’d be shocked to know that I still think of him quite often, miss his presence in my life, and that I am currently posting about him on an in-line psychic review forum.

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