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beachgal214:
So Mercury Retrograde is here - and I am seeking closure from a POI... I have read so much on waiting for this time to pass before having any tougher conversations... is it worth it to wait if you want to be understood?

I mean I hate to put my life on hold for this however its not exactly a pressing conversation that has to happen now.  it just needs to happen at some point.. we have been out of touch for a couple weeks anyway as it is.

Thanks!

bee.23:

--- Quote from: beachgal214 on February 21, 2020, 03:27:47 PM ---So Mercury Retrograde is here - and I am seeking closure from a POI... I have read so much on waiting for this time to pass before having any tougher conversations... is it worth it to wait if you want to be understood?

I mean I hate to put my life on hold for this however its not exactly a pressing conversation that has to happen now.  it just needs to happen at some point.. we have been out of touch for a couple weeks anyway as it is.

Thanks!

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I would 100% wait until the retrograde is over. Retrograde is a real thing. Since the retrograde began- 2 of my best friends broke up after being in a relationship for a long time. I accidentally took both my keys and my roommates keys to work one day- and she missed her class/work. I mistakenly spilt milk all over my bosses furniture. My Roomate got shitfaced drunk and vomited all over my clothes she was wearing/and in our neighbors apartment. My mom went on a 1st date with a guy who went batshit verbally on her and kicked her out of his car so that she was stranded on the middle of the highway.  And I went on a 600$ psychic binge and cried - both of which I never, never do. The retrograde is real! It sincerely affects our emotions and our judgement! I would completely wait till after - just give it some space and time right now. And let things fall back into right alignment

Cranberry88:

--- Quote from: bee.23 on February 21, 2020, 11:46:54 PM ---
--- Quote from: beachgal214 on February 21, 2020, 03:27:47 PM ---So Mercury Retrograde is here - and I am seeking closure from a POI... I have read so much on waiting for this time to pass before having any tougher conversations... is it worth it to wait if you want to be understood?

I mean I hate to put my life on hold for this however its not exactly a pressing conversation that has to happen now.  it just needs to happen at some point.. we have been out of touch for a couple weeks anyway as it is.

Thanks!

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I would 100% wait until the retrograde is over. Retrograde is a real thing. Since the retrograde began- 2 of my best friends broke up after being in a relationship for a long time. I accidentally took both my keys and my roommates keys to work one day- and she missed her class/work. I mistakenly spilt milk all over my bosses furniture. My Roomate got shitfaced drunk and vomited all over my clothes she was wearing/and in our neighbors apartment. My mom went on a 1st date with a guy who went batshit verbally on her and kicked her out of his car so that she was stranded on the middle of the highway.  And I went on a 600$ psychic binge and cried - both of which I never, never do. The retrograde is real! It sincerely affects our emotions and our judgement! I would completely wait till after - just give it some space and time right now. And let things fall back into right alignment

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so true, my bf and i broke up too last month and i tried to fix things yesterday but it went all SHIT. I wanted to know when is this retrograde going to end ?

Smiley1:

--- Quote from: bee.23 on February 21, 2020, 11:46:54 PM ---
--- Quote from: beachgal214 on February 21, 2020, 03:27:47 PM ---So Mercury Retrograde is here - and I am seeking closure from a POI... I have read so much on waiting for this time to pass before having any tougher conversations... is it worth it to wait if you want to be understood?

I mean I hate to put my life on hold for this however its not exactly a pressing conversation that has to happen now.  it just needs to happen at some point.. we have been out of touch for a couple weeks anyway as it is.

Thanks!


And I thought my stuff was bad.

My ex broke up with me last mercury retrograde.  I think it’s done but i thought he might reach out this retro

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I would 100% wait until the retrograde is over. Retrograde is a real thing. Since the retrograde began- 2 of my best friends broke up after being in a relationship for a long time. I accidentally took both my keys and my roommates keys to work one day- and she missed her class/work. I mistakenly spilt milk all over my bosses furniture. My Roomate got shitfaced drunk and vomited all over my clothes she was wearing/and in our neighbors apartment. My mom went on a 1st date with a guy who went batshit verbally on her and kicked her out of his car so that she was stranded on the middle of the highway.  And I went on a 600$ psychic binge and cried - both of which I never, never do. The retrograde is real! It sincerely affects our emotions and our judgement! I would completely wait till after - just give it some space and time right now. And let things fall back into right alignment

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pfizer:
MR meant nothing to me, i will not put my life on hold because of this thing. it happens 4 times a year, we MUST get use to it anyway.
in any kind of contract i have always been super careful, i cannot put a pause botton as all other parties are waiting.
it may delay communications it may most probably create some hardwares issues but we get over them every time and we are still surviving.
so just live our lives and dont give a shxt then we will all be fine.

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