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Do all psychics tell you your poi is coming back? Never bad news?

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russianred:

--- Quote from: Lifeisdandy on February 17, 2020, 03:31:10 PM ---That is a bit similar to me. I decided today that I wont be getting anymore more readings. No one on this planet can know 100% what will happen. My poi cant give me what I deserve and even though I dont know when I will ever feel like that again if ever.. at least I have my dignity.

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I'm not sure if this will help; it sort of depends on your own situation.

One thing I've found is that if I look back through a rational rather than emotional lens, I find that even during the relationship, I experienced far more moments of anxiety, fear, doubt, and uncertainty than I did happiness.  Yes, overall there was an intense emotional connection that I would welcome back into my life if he ever is ready to love me with his whole heart.  But the day-by-day was marked by a lot of feelings of insecurity.  That's why I started calling psychics, to try to get the security that he wasn't giving to me...

This might not apply in your situation because maybe your relationship genuinely felt great on very level and then the rug was pulled out from under you.  That's probably even worse.  Either way, I'm sorry.

Lifeisdandy:
It was fantastic for a few months and then I went through a horrible toxic rollercoaster. I dont even know whats the right thing to do anymore. Sorry if im sounding dramatic right now. I have no one else to vent to.

russianred:

--- Quote from: Lifeisdandy on February 17, 2020, 04:00:47 PM ---It was fantastic for a few months and then I went through a horrible toxic rollercoaster. I dont even know whats the right thing to do anymore. Sorry if im sounding dramatic right now. I have no one else to vent to.

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Yeah, that describes my relationship too.  For a few months I just wanted to "correct" it and get it back to where it was when it started, which is why I started calling, but I eventually just broke it off and am now healing from all of it.  I would say that the right thing to do is to give this person time and space.  Try to detach as much as you can from the situation, which for me meant drastically reducing the amount of calls.  It's OK to vent here, especially to people who have been in similar positions.

beachgal214:
Just raising my hand as someone else very much in the same boat.

I have my good days and bad. My triggers and my days where things are more even keeled.

I am in a triggered type mode right now for various reasons but I know peace will come soon enough as I ride this wave of emotion. I know time heals and I know the waves of emotion are going to happen.

Just wanted to say I can relate to all of the posts here and...I am sorry you're hurting.

My situation like reds was marked by lots of inscecurity triggering but also offered these amazing highs that I hadn't felt.  And it scares me to lose that.  and have a hum drum connection with another.   I feel that since I have had a soul connection that I strive to hold onto it and nurture it - or very least not let it go.

but it's hard.  its not making me happy.

it makes me distracted and on edge and jumpy or .. irritable.
But I dont know how to find satisfaction in a less intense connection so I feel I struggle there.

Venting on this board is something that does help me.  I just try to not dwell too much as it can drain my energy and keep me in a low vibe!

Here if you need to vent :)
BG

HornetKick:

--- Quote from: Still tired on February 17, 2020, 03:25:37 PM ---I could have written these exact same words a few years ago. It was literally the first time in my life I ever felt happy. When that got taken away I felt like I must have failed or done something wrong. The rest of my life sucked so much. I just needed to understand why it all happened that way. I still don't fully understand and don't know if I ever will.

What I do know is that happiness never would have lasted with my ex. He had too many problems in his life and he wasn't in a good situation to be in a relationship. Bsides all of that we were just too different. He tried to tell me he couldn't give me what I needed. I didn't understand because I thought, but he is giving me what I need. Maybe just for that amount of time, he was exactly what I needed, so I could learn what happiness feels like, but it was never meant to last.

After we broke up he changed overnight, turned into a different person, or reverted to his true self, I don't know which. But he became very cruel, badmouthed me behind my back and treated me like dirt. It took awhile before I could see it because he was so sneaky and two faced about it. His behavior didn't add up, it just didn't make any sense. That only drove me to get more readings to make sense of things.

Meanwhile pretty much every psychic told me he was coming back. They described it different ways but they all saw it happening somehow. Some gave me the fairy tale and said oh he's going to come back like a whole new person and make everything up to you. Others were more like no he's a jerk, he'll come back but you won't stay together.

In the end I see that it was a blessing he didn't stay in my life. I wish it could have been different but he is who he is. And despite however happy I felt, I deserved so much better than the way he treated me. He was not good for me and I knew it. I just didn't want to give it up.

I don't know why it had to happen this way but I learned so much from it. It was a valuable experience (to the tune of I don't even know how much I spent on readings but it was thousands and it set me way back financially.) If I hadn't been able to see it in terms of losing money I wouldn't have understood how much this man cost me emotionally. No amount of happiness was worth the suffering he put me through.

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What do you mean just too different; in your beliefs or the way you handled things? Don't opposites attract?
I admire some of your post because you recognized it wasn't you. Women tend to blame themselves more often than men (from what I've seen).

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