Potpourri Boards > Addicted to Psychics
2020 and still getting readings
Yaz88:
--- Quote from: midwest60 on January 23, 2020, 03:01:54 AM ---One reason that I have not heard much on this site regarding reasons for calling psychics is that callers may just be LONELY. I am single and have limited access to talking to people about my every day life, work issues, etc. I have an executive level job with much responsibility and work many hours. My family and friends are primarily on one coast so when I'm driving home from work there are limited people to talk to. So, I now try to fit quality conversation time during a lunch...somewhere...so I have a connection with those I care about. And when I get home from work I replace calling psychics with reading my Bible or watching TV.
--- End quote ---
Midwest, you make a really good point. My reality is that I spend my days listening to other people’s problems and helping them come up with solutions. The situation that started the cycle of me calling psychics was one that I could not solve bc my POI refused to communicate with me. I really have no one to talk to about the situation. Since my friends and family expect me to be the one to solve problems, they don’t really know what to do if I’m the one who has the problem. So, I started calling psychics to gain insight about my POI and why he acted/reacted the way he did. I just wanted to make sense out of it. Eight months later I can honestly say that I did get insight. I got insight about my POI and I also learned a lot about myself. So, at least, it wasn’t all done in vain. But there comes a point when you realize that all the insight in the world won’t change the situation. I may have a very sound understanding of why my POI acted/reacted the way he did, but that doesn’t mean I can make him communicate with me. He has his own freewill and there’s not a psychic reading in the world that can change that. This month I spent $50 on Infinitestar as a last ditch effort to gain another perspective on my POI (which really didn’t provide anything I haven’t heard before. Not bc infinitestar isn’t gifted, but bc I’ve had well over 50 readings on this situation), and I spent $25 on a career chart reading with Zadalia. That’s the least amount I’ve spent on psychics since June . . . and I finally feel happy and free again. It really does get easier once you stop getting readings. Also, I really thinking that getting readings makes it near impossible to move on, bc with each reading you are reliving the situation over and over again. Wounds stay fresh and can’t heal. Good luck to everyone out there who is trying to reclaim their freedom and control!
midwest60:
Yaz88, I applaud you for being the problem-solver and the great equalizer. I too have been the problem-solver. You are right that there is an expectation for you to have it all figured out. But, my guess is at the end of the day you are too spent and just need the area of your life you desire most to work (POI) to indeed happen. And, consulting psychics over and over again just causes one to relive all the reasons why the relationship or lack of is not working.
In my case, I spent years in relationships waiting for the guy(s) to want to be in a committed relationship. With each relationship, I wised up to the point that one day something clicked in my brain and I no longer wanted to be with any of these clowns. It's humorous to me that today (15 years later) I see at least one of these guys from my past still trying to work towards commitment. All that has changed is that they are bald, fat, and trying to use the same old tricks with someone half their age.
It's only when you finally promise yourself that you won't take back someone who is flakey...and accept that you can't change someone who won't communicate (like you have).... that you really grow and attract the person you are meant to be with.
Smiley1:
--- Quote from: midwest60 on January 23, 2020, 03:01:54 AM ---One reason that I have not heard much on this site regarding reasons for calling psychics is that callers may just be LONELY. I am single and have limited access to talking to people about my every day life, work issues, etc. I have an executive level job with much responsibility and work many hours. My family and friends are primarily on one coast so when I'm driving home from work there are limited people to talk to. So, I now try to fit quality conversation time during a lunch...somewhere...so I have a connection with those I care about. And when I get home from work I replace calling psychics with reading my Bible or watching TV.
--- End quote ---
Very good point. But surely we need to find another way to fight our loneliness. I have found these last few months that I never got readings often. Now I look to see because my evenings are so lonely and I feel that I dont have anyone to talk to
midwest60:
I think that everyone has a good sense of what comforts them or provides companionship. For some, who are single or no longer want to date, it might be reading a good book, going to a movie, or talking/spending time with friends. For others, it may be going to a social event to meet others. But, at least for me, it's never going to be spending time with someone who doesn't know what they want or has commitment issues. Wasted years of my life with that ilk. I'm past the point of wanting to be charmed as the feeling is always fleeting. Rather spend time with my dogs! :)
honeydip:
I agree with you ladies. Lonliness does trigger the readings because of the accessibility to reach psychics you call or chat when you feel alone about the situation. It's a big waste of time and a joke. The psychics can't make these men commit and only keep us waiting around wasting time. After three years of calling about my POI I confessed my love to him this week. He told me that he feels we are on two different pages in life and well see what happens. Really!!!! I have wasted thousands of dollars holding on to hope that he will come around. I'm over it and will work towards not calling anymore. I need to refocus on self care and finding new hobbies.
Navigation
[0] Message Index
[#] Next page
[*] Previous page
Go to full version