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flora0250:
I post this with great hesitation but I think I am finally making progress on the two things that have been so hard for me with my POI. 1) I think the heartbreak of seeing his status as engaged now is finally what it took for me to greatly reduce / hopefully stop looking at his social media. I just can’t do it. Before I was looking to see which way things would go. Well. I have my answer now don’t I? It just hurts too much to see it now. But wow. It took that - it took to that point before I finally have decided it hurts just too much to look?

And 2) I don’t know how long it’s been since I’ve had a reading. I’ve been tempted a bit. But not having any disposable money helps. And more than that even when I think about it I remember how ultimately disappointed I was overall. It just finally?? outweighs the decision to get a reading anymore.

So that’s .... good??? Lol. I mean the outcomes are good - but the road to get to the outcomes not so much! I would have rather not had the heartbreak or waste so much money!

flora0250:

--- Quote from: Still tired on January 07, 2020, 04:40:17 PM ---That's great Flora. I'm sorry for all you had to go through to get here. I wish I hadn't had to go through so much too, especially the years and money wasted, but in the end I feel like I had to experience it this way to really understand and learn from it. Things could have been so much worse. I truly believe no one goes out of our lives who is meant to be there and sometimes when you lose someone it is a blessing. I know in my case I really dodged a bullet. Or it could be no matter how great that guy is, he's just not right for you and you are meant to be with someone else. In time you will see why it went this way and be glad for it. Life works for us not against us. I hope that this year will bring you and all of us many blessngs.

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Thank you so much and wishing you and all here all the best also. Lots of hugs!

sparky:

--- Quote from: flora0250 on January 07, 2020, 04:22:48 PM ---I post this with great hesitation but I think I am finally making progress on the two things that have been so hard for me with my POI. 1) I think the heartbreak of seeing his status as engaged now is finally what it took for me to greatly reduce / hopefully stop looking at his social media. I just can’t do it. Before I was looking to see which way things would go. Well. I have my answer now don’t I? It just hurts too much to see it now. But wow. It took that - it took to that point before I finally have decided it hurts just too much to look?

And 2) I don’t know how long it’s been since I’ve had a reading. I’ve been tempted a bit. But not having any disposable money helps. And more than that even when I think about it I remember how ultimately disappointed I was overall. It just finally?? outweighs the decision to get a reading anymore.

So that’s .... good??? Lol. I mean the outcomes are good - but the road to get to the outcomes not so much! I would have rather not had the heartbreak or waste so much money!

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This is great news on both of them.  I know how you feel about the social media and status change.  It does really help put something into perspective even with how misleading social media can be.  The second one is a bit of a heartbreak and good news all rolled into one.  I wish you had more disposable income but at least you are not getting readings.  Going down nervous cycle of trying to see if predictions will pan out or not.  I think in either case is to look at just the outcomes.  Like you said they are good things and focus on that.  I think sometimes we forget that in the end the outcome can matter more than how you got there.  In this case I would focus on that.  Plus it is a new year so I know that 2020 is going to be a year you will rock it!  You will have an amazing year! :)

Jenjen:
Hey flora,
Did any Psychics tell you he was coming back...or let go!
Social media is at times a tragic read. I am addicted to my mobile devices...lol.

beachgal214:
Flora that is amazing!!! so proud of you for breaking the cycle!!

I am doing so much better but not quite there yet.  I still had some lingering bookings.  but I have been off the platforms

keen since 12/11 (2 calls that month)
Psychic center 12/23 (only two calls that month)
Psychic Source 1/3 (no calls in December)

Kisha:
nothing in December but did a text in January

Yona:
Booked in November read in January

I am hoping to be done. I still get urges but I feel I know what I need to know. And I am trying to just let go of expectation and worry and fear and live my life. 

I have had a hard week emotionally, but havent had an urge for a reading. But maybe that is because I had them lined up.

Either way I am significantly better off than I was in May- September!!!  So I am seeing the positives :)

and trying to figure my life out on my own and live it and not be blinded by expectation or anticipation.

its not easy.  good luck to all hurting and going through this.

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