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HornetKick:
--- Quote from: ES1281 on December 29, 2019, 12:41:54 AM ---
--- Quote from: annathechica on December 28, 2019, 05:37:07 PM ---There are strong opinions about single mothers by choce but i have dreamed of being a mom and my fertility window is closing.
i cant wait on guys any longer.
I am going to get approved for disability, also. the state offers help for babies, as well.
this REALLY is a personal choice and NOT anyone's business.
I have people in my life who will help
SERIOUSLY - I didnt ask anyones opinion on my choices of having a child. this isnt F-ing china
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Hi Anna
I think what you need isn't psychic but counselor for your mental health.
I have two kids my own and I'm sure mom's mental health is very important for kids' wellbeing.
This is very serious.
Please find a good counselor, but not psychics.
Psychics aren't professions in charge of people's mental health, they don't need any certifigation and degrees to be a psychic.
But a counselor does.
In addiotion I want to say stop saying' f-king china', I'm chinese, you didn't mean to hurt anybody but this hurts people.
Don't make chinese people sad okay?
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How is she making chinese people sad? She wasn't talking about chinese people, she was referring to China's culture of the one child policy. In all honesty facts shouldn't be hurtful.
Bostongirl:
how and when someone chooses to have a child is their business. They asked for help about psychic readings. referring to China is offences to a Chinese person and she kindly asked for it not to be referred too. It's not how you feel about something it's how a chinese person feels. Respect their wishes and move on.
Sparkle002:
Facts can be hurtful. I mean, if someone was ugly (as a fact or ...in other words unattractive) it would probably be hurtful to say it to their face #differentperspective or if someone wasn’t intelligent - calling someone “dumb” is hurtful
--- Quote from: HornetKick on December 29, 2019, 03:17:13 AM ---
--- Quote from: ES1281 on December 29, 2019, 12:41:54 AM ---
--- Quote from: annathechica on December 28, 2019, 05:37:07 PM ---There are strong opinions about single mothers by choce but i have dreamed of being a mom and my fertility window is closing.
i cant wait on guys any longer.
I am going to get approved for disability, also. the state offers help for babies, as well.
this REALLY is a personal choice and NOT anyone's business.
I have people in my life who will help
SERIOUSLY - I didnt ask anyones opinion on my choices of having a child. this isnt F-ing china
--- End quote ---
Hi Anna
I think what you need isn't psychic but counselor for your mental health.
I have two kids my own and I'm sure mom's mental health is very important for kids' wellbeing.
This is very serious.
Please find a good counselor, but not psychics.
Psychics aren't professions in charge of people's mental health, they don't need any certifigation and degrees to be a psychic.
But a counselor does.
In addiotion I want to say stop saying' f-king china', I'm chinese, you didn't mean to hurt anybody but this hurts people.
Don't make chinese people sad okay?
--- End quote ---
How is she making chinese people sad? She wasn't talking about chinese people, she was referring to China's culture of the one child policy. In all honesty facts shouldn't be hurtful.
--- End quote ---
HornetKick:
--- Quote from: Sparkle002 on December 29, 2019, 03:43:49 AM ---Facts can be hurtful. I mean, if someone was ugly (as a fact or ...in other words unattractive) it would probably be hurtful to say it to their face #differentperspective or if someone wasn’t intelligent - calling someone “dumb” is hurtful
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You're missing the point, but if you think someone is ugly doesn't make it a fact, it makes it your opinion. That same person may not be ugly to another person. The same as if you're calling someone dumb. That's all objective. It's not a fact.
Sparkle002:
Not missing the point...maybe it was a bad example since those things I mentioned are "subjective"...but the point (in this response) is that Facts actually can be hurtful. Just because its fact doesnt mean it cant be hurtful.
Let's try a disability - that's a fact, right? If someone lost their leg. But to make fun of someone disabled, or reference it negatively can be hurtful.
Either way I think the point was missed in the original response...I don't think everyone automatically knew the background behind the OPs post referencing China and children...
--- Quote from: HornetKick on December 29, 2019, 04:49:34 AM ---
--- Quote from: Sparkle002 on December 29, 2019, 03:43:49 AM ---Facts can be hurtful. I mean, if someone was ugly (as a fact or ...in other words unattractive) it would probably be hurtful to say it to their face #differentperspective or if someone wasn’t intelligent - calling someone “dumb” is hurtful
--- End quote ---
You're missing the point, but if you think someone is ugly doesn't make it a fact, it makes it your opinion. That same person may not be ugly to another person. The same as if you're calling someone dumb. That's all objective. It's not a fact.
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