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Thoughts - Pushing out Positive Predictions
user5942:
I totally get that
I do actually have seasonal depression, and during the colder months it can really be hard to “get out of the ruts” so to speak
Star_01:
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--- Quote from: user5942 on November 08, 2019, 04:20:19 PM ---Are positive predictions often pushed out further because of our stress and anxiety over what's to come?
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I don't believe that. How you feel is important, because you are important. If you feel stress and anxiety it means something, there is a reason. If I feel that way I honor my feelings and value the message it is giving me. There's a very fine line between being positive and disregarding your true feelings. Feelings are also how we sense things. When there is significant stress or anxiety around something, sometimes it means the timing is not right yet. Maybe something has to be worked out first. The feelings do not push things away. Sometimes they show what needs to be worked through before things can move forward. When you accept, validate, and honor your feelings, things may move faster. Or, you may realize that deep down, you want something different than what was predicted.
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I haven't posted in a while on here but I wanted to agree with some of this... In my experience, being anxious about a situation always there was a reason for that and it was my gut feeling screaming out to me. I find the more positive I am about things the more negative they actually happen and vice versa. The nervousness can also come about from as said above ^ we aren't ready for something yet and as has been said in this thread it can get frustrating when readers put blame onto us for predictions not working out because we weren't positive enough and I've definitely experienced situations where I was encouraged to manifest things which were not good or meant for me. I always think it's best to leave things and let them play out in the set time it is supposed to. Best of luck.
Arigirl:
--- Quote from: Star_01 on November 11, 2019, 09:14:45 PM ---
--- Quote from: Still tired on November 08, 2019, 06:31:36 PM ---
--- Quote from: user5942 on November 08, 2019, 04:20:19 PM ---Are positive predictions often pushed out further because of our stress and anxiety over what's to come?
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I don't believe that. How you feel is important, because you are important. If you feel stress and anxiety it means something, there is a reason. If I feel that way I honor my feelings and value the message it is giving me. There's a very fine line between being positive and disregarding your true feelings. Feelings are also how we sense things. When there is significant stress or anxiety around something, sometimes it means the timing is not right yet. Maybe something has to be worked out first. The feelings do not push things away. Sometimes they show what needs to be worked through before things can move forward. When you accept, validate, and honor your feelings, things may move faster. Or, you may realize that deep down, you want something different than what was predicted.
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I haven't posted in a while on here but I wanted to agree with some of this... In my experience, being anxious about a situation always there was a reason for that and it was my gut feeling screaming out to me. I find the more positive I am about things the more negative they actually happen and vice versa. The nervousness can also come about from as said above ^ we aren't ready for something yet and as has been said in this thread it can get frustrating when readers put blame onto us for predictions not working out because we weren't positive enough and I've definitely experienced situations where I was encouraged to manifest things which were not good or meant for me. I always think it's best to leave things and let them play out in the set time it is supposed to. Best of luck.
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I absolutely agree with this, I have also had my fair share of readers who have placed blame on me when positive predictions did not manifest because I felt anxious or nervous about a situation. I am able to look back now in hindsight and see that my feelings were an early response warning system that I did not heed—because if I did, I would not have been encouraged to pursue things that were definitely not in my best interest. Although I am struggling with it a bit, I am also adopting a ‘let it be’ approach, I can’t change the past (I primarily contact readers about a past relationship), I can only move forward from here and knowing or not knowing what’s ahead will not impede my journey onward
fashiondiva6337:
New here!
Yeah I agree. I feel like most of us who are calling psychics already lean negative (at least I do) and there negative readings can confirm fears and then your just like yup that's probably right. I know we don't like fairytale readers, but I wonder if I would only listen to the positive ones if those would manifest.
fashiondiva6337:
--- Quote from: mrrrrh22 on January 03, 2020, 03:38:58 AM ---so im still waiting on the big prediction to come but i've had smaller ones come to pass (contact predictions, job interviews, meeting a new guy-which didn't wind up working out, etc.). and usually the ones that come to pass are the ones i am convinced wont and don't even think about them again really after the reading. and then it happens. so for me, i'm convinced that the big prediction isn't coming to pass bc i'm thinking about it too much, bc all the other predictions that have come to pass are the ones i don't think about or wait to happen, bc i'm convinced they won't lol. it's hard tho not to think about the big prediction, so its a mind screw. thats my experience at least.
also i did have a reader on PS straight up tell me to stop getting readings bc by doing so i was basically messing up the energy and leaving my POI out to dry so to speak. so from what she told me, i took from it that getting readings too often is going to push out predictions from happening.
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This happened to me too with angel readings. She said to many readings could change the energy. Honestly I’m stopping today for a bit because I got several negative in a row from California psychics which made me want to binge more. For me it’s an anxiety thing and it’s great having someone tell me everything is going to be okay. But honestly when they say it’s not I’m like well that just heightens my anxiety.
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