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My Story
Piggynose:
I’m really sorry....
Sparkle002:
❤️hugs❤️ my friend. Just know I’m here for you
Jeninmd2:
--- Quote from: MidwesternSun on December 26, 2019, 06:10:40 PM ---Well, it looks like in my last post I lied... I am providing this last update for 2019.
The ex is now engaged... the boyfriend of eight months proposed on Christmas morning. She publicly posted on facebook this morning. I'm speechless.
At this point, I don't want to hold on to Cookie's prediction just earlier this month, "You may even hear of engagement or proposal, which would disturb you. But I'm telling you, this is a prediction, they will not stay together. Something is going to happen and she is going to communicate with you."
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I'm so sorry to hear this! Yeah, best to try to not hold on to Cookie's prediction for your own sanity....
karma17:
I’m sorry for what you’re going through.
I wanted to add- I know 2 people going through the exact same situation around me and freakily the last few days a few people have posted similar stories on here about a person of interest’s engagement.
I didn’t believe in astrology so much but I’ve been using the Pattern app for a few months and it lets people with similar transits share their experiences. It’s so eery how similar people’s stories are and they always seem to have a “Venus in Sagittarius” or “Mars in Taurus” (just examples) causing these such similar experiences. Something must be going on in the sky somewhere...sigh
Hopefully things will get better for everyone soon and whatever damned transit this is, will end.
PS- social media and hearsay is a lot of smoke and mirrors too
sparky:
--- Quote from: karma17 on December 26, 2019, 06:52:07 PM ---I’m sorry for what you’re going through.
I wanted to add- I know 2 people going through the exact same situation around me and freakily the last few days a few people have posted similar stories on here about a person of interest’s engagement.
I didn’t believe in astrology so much but I’ve been using the Pattern app for a few months and it lets people with similar transits share their experiences. It’s so eery how similar people’s stories are and they always seem to have a “Venus in Sagittarius” or “Mars in Taurus” (just examples) causing these such similar experiences. Something must be going on in the sky somewhere...sigh
Hopefully things will get better for everyone soon and whatever damned transit this is, will end.
PS- social media and hearsay is a lot of smoke and mirrors too
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This is all good but I want to focus on the bold. Social media is a horrible thing that doesn't really show what is going on behind close doors. In today's society getting engaged of only knowing each other for 8 months isn't a good sign for a relationship. Statistics is against it from lasting and it could very well fall apart before the wedding like Cookie predicted. Not saying they cannot work it out and make it last but statistically the odds are against them. It isn't like the old days where people met and married in a matter of months or weeks. That generation stuck through all the hardships to make a relationship last. Today it is all about the instant gratification caused from social media. About how those likes go up from a story like someone getting engaged and releases endorphins that make you feel good. But in reality they could be having a horrible relationship and it is all just a cover up. Once the dust settles than it could fall apart. So what is happening on social media could be false. That will help you move on from the social media post.
Also try not to hold onto Cookies prediction. I know my description above could line up with her prediction but their relationship could also be an outlier to that and truly last. So at this point just try to forget about her as currently she is completely off the market as far as you know. As they say. Ignorance is bliss.
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