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I’m really really upset
Loulou:
I don’t know many that wouldn’t feel disturbed to receive that from a stranger. I’m done with this. You don’t have any logic and I’m arguing with someone that only sees one side of things.
--- Quote from: Star_01 on September 30, 2019, 01:47:10 AM ---
--- Quote from: Loulou on September 30, 2019, 01:43:59 AM ---I was in general terms
Whatever. If you think that message on to total stranger up to you
This place is disturbed
I will say star 7 messages saying you’re trouble seem to put my mind at ease. I feel better now it’s not just me you hate.
Enjoy your night
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We could have spoken about it like adults in private like I tried to do and you didn't want to, so we had to speak about it here.
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Star_01:
--- Quote from: Loulou on September 30, 2019, 01:48:47 AM ---
I don’t know many that wouldn’t feel disturbed to receive that from a stranger. I’m done with this. You don’t have any logic and I’m arguing with someone that only sees one side of things.
--- Quote from: Star_01 on September 30, 2019, 01:47:10 AM ---
--- Quote from: Loulou on September 30, 2019, 01:43:59 AM ---I was in general terms
Whatever. If you think that message on to total stranger up to you
This place is disturbed
I will say star 7 messages saying you’re trouble seem to put my mind at ease. I feel better now it’s not just me you hate.
Enjoy your night
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We could have spoken about it like adults in private like I tried to do and you didn't want to, so we had to speak about it here.
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It's only disturbing to those who are not innocent.
Star_01:
--- Quote from: mrrrrh22 on September 30, 2019, 01:50:59 AM ---
--- Quote from: Star_01 on September 30, 2019, 01:47:10 AM ---
--- Quote from: Loulou on September 30, 2019, 01:43:59 AM ---I was in general terms
Whatever. If you think that message on to total stranger up to you
This place is disturbed
I will say star 7 messages saying you’re trouble seem to put my mind at ease. I feel better now it’s not just me you hate.
Enjoy your night
--- End quote ---
We could have spoken about it like adults in private like I tried to do and you didn't want to, so we had to speak about it here.
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I agree with you Star. Loulou posting your private message to her on here just puts a bad taste in my mouth. I wouldn't feel comfortable someone doing that to me. not like i'm sending my personal secrets in a message, but still, it was sent as a private message for a reason...
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Thanks. I don't mind the message I sent being posted publically as I did no wrong personally and I thought I could clear things up with the user themselves, well, hoping to.
Loulou:
Admin please delete my account. I don’t want to be here anymore
This is the star show obviously any many of you allow her to do it
Enjoy the nanny state
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--- Quote from: mrrrrh22 on September 30, 2019, 01:50:59 AM ---
--- Quote from: Star_01 on September 30, 2019, 01:47:10 AM ---
--- Quote from: Loulou on September 30, 2019, 01:43:59 AM ---I was in general terms
Whatever. If you think that message on to total stranger up to you
This place is disturbed
I will say star 7 messages saying you’re trouble seem to put my mind at ease. I feel better now it’s not just me you hate.
Enjoy your night
--- End quote ---
We could have spoken about it like adults in private like I tried to do and you didn't want to, so we had to speak about it here.
--- End quote ---
I agree with you Star. Loulou posting your private message to her on here just puts a bad taste in my mouth. I wouldn't feel comfortable someone doing that to me. not like i'm sending my personal secrets in a message, but still, it was sent as a private message for a reason...
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Star_01:
--- Quote from: persimmon on September 30, 2019, 01:56:32 AM ---Forum wars are usually a waste of time and energy. It serves no higher purpose, fomenting only frustration and animosity, and almost always ends in a stalemate.
To be fair, Star did express her original concern/query in a private message, so I'm not really sure why loulou felt the need to start a public thread, which lit this dumpster fire in a sh*t storm. Not taking sides, but if I received a PM that irritated me, I would just delete it and move on with my day.
Honestly, I think you both are valuable contributors to this forum, and I've read reviews/opinions/thoughts/suggestions from each of you that have been helpful, so I hope that we can quash this dispute, and perhaps just agree to disagree on a particular issue or reader.
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Thank you, I appreciate it and agree.
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