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I’m really really upset
jas:
I went back and looked at loulou's post and I don't see anything where she is vehemently defending a reader. Seems that the majority of her post were simply reviews, some good, some bad. I didn't see anything where she was vehemently defending any particular reader. Maybe I missed it but I can't see anything wrong with what she has posted.
Star_01:
--- Quote from: jas on September 30, 2019, 12:36:30 AM ---I went back and looked at loulou's post and I don't see anything where she is vehemently defending a reader. Seems that the majority of her post were simply reviews, some good, some bad. I didn't see anything where she was vehemently defending any particular reader. Maybe I missed it but I can't see anything wrong with what she has posted.
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She's made a few postings saying that the negative reviews of that reader should be discounted. I don't think that was fair to say and that was my point.
1) Pretty good. Similar stuff to me. I can’t see why people try and make her look so dodgy. I’m going to have a 2nd with her soon. I like the way you can buy minutes too and just book reading woth them. I might do that gas anyone tried it?
2) I wasn’t on here when that all happened but read some of it. My humble opinion is led by some upset people.
Nobody is perfect but she was incredible for me
Care to share any specifics?
3) I have been having readings now for around 10 years, i have found it increasingly interesting to watch the feedback on here range from euphoric to dissing a psychic and trying to make them look underhand.
I have realised the best way to get results after years of readings and just want to share this with you. The reality is that psychics don’t have all the answers, not because they are not good psychics but because of the expectations of some of those getting readings.
I hope this list helps, I am not going to mention any specific psychic but I will say that i stay away from Keen and large platforms and err towards private readers who seem to be more ethical. This is only my point of view and I just want to see people manage their expectations better and realise that if you manage the way you have readings you will have better luck.
This worked for me and after 10 years of readings I realised that I have had so many predictions happen over the last 5 when I changed my expectations and stop being so needy.
Ask for a general reading and let the psychic pick up what they want to start with
Don’t give them too much information
listen don’t talk
Don’t ask questions too early and don’t ask too many pointed questions you will only find that psychics get it wrong. They don’t all have the ability to pull yes or no answers out of the air and if they are not giving you that information then you are not meant to have it
Keep an open mind, one of the biggest lessons I learnt was that I assumed what a reader was saying was about a particular situation or person, often when I read back it wasnt at all
Don’t just listen to what you want to hear about a certain person. what a waste of money to concentrate on one topic in a reading that may or may not be relevant to the rest of your life
Record your readings if you can the stuff really good psychics say not related or in passing is usually the gold
Listen and listen and listen and listen some more psychics speak in a cryptic way sometimes if you cannot work it out then you should just stop getting readings
no psychic can get 1 hour or even 30 minutes of details about one person nobody if they are doing that then they are con artists
Let go of timing immediately the more you cling to it the more it will move and the more you will be disappointed
Dont correct a psychic, unless of course they are telling you something you are 100% dead cert you know the answer. You are ruining them for insight, if they tell you something that you think is wrong such as Tommy has a girlfriend, don’t assume you know that Tommy doesnt have a girlfriend. I used to correct psychics all the time, it would change the reading and I would waste my money, Tommy had a girlfriend and I didn’t want to hear it.
Stop assuming psychics are looking up your information. This is a big one for me. I only use private readers and the information I have been given would make your toes curl. Never has a psychic looked up my information as there is none to find and the really good psychics know stuff that would blow your mind. That is how we know they are good.
Be realistic about what they are saying, psychics can build hope that is unattainable and the euphoric feeling is often followed by deep lows. This is not good for anyones mental health
Be realistic also about the questions you are asking, and listen to their advice. I found that the advice I was given on how to handle situations as the psychic had insight into the persons personality is what helped me more than anything.
Not all psychics have your best interest at heart they have their bank balance in mind more than anything
Sadly I have seen on here that so many excellent readers have been badly treated and scared by the comments and feedback because people make assumptions. It is often for me the ones that have been the most help and I feel that if you kept an open mind many people would see it too.
I am not encouraging anyone to get readings but I just found that these things for me helped me manage myself and the readers I chose as well as the situation. I don’t recommend anyone in particular but I do recommend you stay away from platforms. The choice is ultimately yours, This is only my personal experience and understanding that I have come to over the years.
username1111:
You have my support @loulou
@star, I am not sure what makes you feel like your opinion (veteran) has more value or weight than one from a "newbie". You can be registered on this forum for just a week but have experience with readers for many years. You could also be familiar with this forum for years before becoming an active user.
I too, have difficulty understanding what's the point of making assumptions and possibly accusations on people because they support a reader. We all have favorites that we enjoy recommending.
In doubt that a user is a hidden reader and has bad intentions, it would make sense to contact the admin and have something to verify that before aggressing / accusing people out of the blue.
There is way too much drama on this board already
Star_01:
--- Quote from: username1111 on September 30, 2019, 12:44:18 AM ---You have my support @loulou
@star, I am not sure what makes you feel like your opinion (veteran) has more value or weight than one from a "newbie". You can be registered on this forum for just a week but have experience with readers for many years. You could also be familiar with this forum for years before becoming an active user.
I too, have difficulty understanding what's the point of making assumptions and possibly accusations on people because they support a reader. We all have favorites that we enjoy recommending.
In doubt that a user is a hidden reader and has bad intentions, it would make sense to contact the admin and have something to verify that before aggressing / accusing people out of the blue.
There is way too much drama on this board already
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I'm not bringing up the authenticity of the actual reader, I'm saying it's wrong that a few people say reader X did this and it was unethical on their part, and someone (especially someone new) comes along and discredits that in more than one post saying how it's untrue and unfair. How can said person know if it is or isn't true if they have "only had one reading with that reader"? And it will lead to arguments like these and people feeling uncomfortable to post publically... Which then isn't true feedback. A reader could be a great reader but outside of their readings could shoplift, be a narc, hit their partner - just because they're a reader who was good for you that doesn't mean either way you can judge if they are good or bad. Whether the reader is good or not - there wasn't any need for the newbie to come on and talk about the authenticity and accuse people of lying and brainwashing, they simply could have said the reader was good for them and had worked for them and that be that. It's unfair to accuse people of lying for posting something they're wary about. I'm saying this about all readers, not just one. It has happened with Shaman whatever she calls herself now, people had things to say and one or two became a little too defensive which pissed people off. That's the point I'm trying to get at.
So if LouLou is allowed to post freely - so are others who counteract that reader negatively - it works both ways ;D I know you like that reader too but we all need to be fair and allow both sides of the coin.
Loulou:
I will say I’m really disturbed by your long novel.
Far too invested in this situation.
I don’t care what you think of who you think I am
You are disturbed. This makes me very uncomfortable and very worried to speak.
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