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Fidget1028:
QoC, Mattie, and Cookie all said he was with another woman during this timeframe although Mattie later said the 3rd party was an ex. No doubt he could have maybe dated someone briefly, but no evidence of a relationship. Who goes away to Woodstock for an extended weekend and doesn't bring their significant other? There were enough pics to convince me he was single. And more pics before and after that still showed him completely alone.
Newtowngirl20:
Does social media provide conclusive evidence that someone is in a relationship or not? Your intuition or knowledge of the person is probably right but I don’t think social media holds much water.....and people make stuff up anyway (but this is coming from someone who has no social media accounts). If someone was reading on my bf, then he’s very single because there are no pics of us/me on his social media and I wouldn’t have it any other way. I don’t want my face plastered online and it doesn’t validate the relationship. On another note, everyone should definitely take what psychics say with a grain of salt!
Just FYI:
I wonder if the third party is someone that’s on your POI’s mind, but he’s not with? It could be someone he feels a strong emotional bond to or with. A few years ago, a psychic said my husband was involved with an older man. My husband is not gay, he was remembering/grieving the death of his father that had happened a year earlier. The feelings were so strong that he had a severe emotional breakdown. Not saying this is exactly what’s going on with your POI but it could be along these lines.
Fidget1028:
--- Quote from: Newtowngirl20 on October 04, 2019, 11:36:52 AM ---Does social media provide conclusive evidence that someone is in a relationship or not? Your intuition or knowledge of the person is probably right but I don’t think social media holds much water.....and people make stuff up anyway (but this is coming from someone who has no social media accounts). If someone was reading on my bf, then he’s very single because there are no pics of us/me on his social media and I wouldn’t have it any other way. I don’t want my face plastered online and it doesn’t validate the relationship. On another note, everyone should definitely take what psychics say with a grain of salt!
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No, of course not. It's just a snapshot. In this case, he is definitely the one who doesn't want his face all over social media. But as I said, he is friends with a woman who posts her entire life publicly. There were tons of pics of a few events that he attended with her/her husband and others that she posted publicly. She didn't seem to be discerning in what she posted. She tagged him in all the pics. I was able to see them because they were public. He later "untagged" himself from almost all the pics, which I'm not surprised, but it doesn't make the pics less visible because they are public regardless.
Fidget1028:
--- Quote from: Just FYI on October 04, 2019, 12:05:20 PM ---I wonder if the third party is someone that’s on your POI’s mind, but he’s not with? It could be someone he feels a strong emotional bond to or with. A few years ago, a psychic said my husband was involved with an older man. My husband is not gay, he was remembering/grieving the death of his father that had happened a year earlier. The feelings were so strong that he had a severe emotional breakdown. Not saying this is exactly what’s going on with your POI but it could be along these lines.
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My intuition tells me that the 3rd party was his ex wife. She was always described as negative/controlling, which could be a cold reading tactic, but in this case it's true. When we dated, she would text him all the time telling him not to discuss their family issues "with your new girlfriend". I don't know this woman, and I don't like to make assumptions on anyone's exes because there is always 2 sides to the story. I'm divorced also and except for us having minor kids together, we don't communicate outside of things regarding the kids. He has his life and I have mine. That's why we're divorced. My POI's kids are adults. I never understood why she would tell him what to do/how to act/ what he could and couldn't say after the divorce. It's even crazier that she acts this way when she was the one who filed for the divorce in the first place.
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