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ladya:
I feel like exes come back most of the time. Isn’t it human nature lol. All my exes and Even unimportant flings have come back when they realized what they lost and grass is only browner on the other side. I’ve never had an ex come back just for frivolous things. even the most stubborn of men came begging for forgiveness. If you know nothing can compare to your relationship just let the universe do it’s work. They’ll come back. In the meantime just focus on yourself and let the past of what happened go. It happened that’s it. You don’t want that old relationship back, you want a new and better one.
Star_01:
I think we all have different experiences with ex coming back. Some of us are lucky or whatever word you would like to use and have all the men at our feet begging for us back and others have exes come back because they want sex or something else which they haven't got elsewhere and it's that sudden lightbulb moment that you were the one to give it to them.
My friend has had all of her exes come back and at first they put on the charm to soon lead to needing money or one guy hadn't contacted her for 5 years and popped up wanting sex because his new wife isn't giving him any.
My friend's ego blows up when she messages me omg guess who just contacted me and then when they end up wanting something, she's like "uh... oh". I will say that from her experience (as none of mine ever came back) leopards don't seem to change their spots and they continue the same behavioural pattern months or years before. Each person is different when it comes to exes and their motives of returning.
Girly1998:
--- Quote from: Star_01 on September 08, 2019, 01:44:30 PM ---I think we all have different experiences with ex coming back. Some of us are lucky or whatever word you would like to use and have all the men at our feet begging for us back and others have exes come back because they want sex or something else which they haven't got elsewhere and it's that sudden lightbulb moment that you were the one to give it to them.
My friend has had all of her exes come back and at first they put on the charm to soon lead to needing money or one guy hadn't contacted her for 5 years and popped up wanting sex because his new wife isn't giving him any.
My friend's ego blows up when she messages me omg guess who just contacted me and then when they end up wanting something, she's like "uh... oh". I will say that from her experience (as none of mine ever came back) leopards don't seem to change their spots and they continue the same behavioural pattern months or years before. Each person is different when it comes to exes and their motives of returning.
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True, they don’t always come back for good reasons. Although, you’re going to know their character before they come back as well. If they were a pig then they’ll more than likely be a pig now. I have one that pops his head up every now and then telling me he loves me but I know all he wants is a hookup - that’s pretty much all our “relationship” was to begin with.
Star_01:
--- Quote from: Girly1998 on September 08, 2019, 02:46:25 PM ---
--- Quote from: Star_01 on September 08, 2019, 01:44:30 PM ---I think we all have different experiences with ex coming back. Some of us are lucky or whatever word you would like to use and have all the men at our feet begging for us back and others have exes come back because they want sex or something else which they haven't got elsewhere and it's that sudden lightbulb moment that you were the one to give it to them.
My friend has had all of her exes come back and at first they put on the charm to soon lead to needing money or one guy hadn't contacted her for 5 years and popped up wanting sex because his new wife isn't giving him any.
My friend's ego blows up when she messages me omg guess who just contacted me and then when they end up wanting something, she's like "uh... oh". I will say that from her experience (as none of mine ever came back) leopards don't seem to change their spots and they continue the same behavioural pattern months or years before. Each person is different when it comes to exes and their motives of returning.
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True, they don’t always come back for good reasons. Although, you’re going to know their character before they come back as well. If they were a pig then they’ll more than likely be a pig now. I have one that pops his head up every now and then telling me he loves me but I know all he wants is a hookup - that’s pretty much all our “relationship” was to begin with.
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Yeah very true, lol we all know a guy like that 🙄
Jili1945:
--- Quote from: ladya on September 08, 2019, 01:19:45 PM ---I feel like exes come back most of the time. Isn’t it human nature lol. All my exes and Even unimportant flings have come back when they realized what they lost and grass is only browner on the other side. I’ve never had an ex come back just for frivolous things. even the most stubborn of men came begging for forgiveness. If you know nothing can compare to your relationship just let the universe do it’s work. They’ll come back. In the meantime just focus on yourself and let the past of what happened go. It happened that’s it. You don’t want that old relationship back, you want a new and better one.
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Thanks Ladya for your kind note!
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