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How much time it too much time?
SomethingBetter:
I think today was my breaking point. I had a reading this morning with someone I read with recently and it was pretty pointless. This is my fault, I feel it was too soon in between readings now that I think about it.
Listening to it again, the reading seemed phoned in, some of the predictions changed (not vastly but details and predicting situations that I know for a FACT would never happen) the overall tone of the reading was just...off. I think this reader is highly talented, and the first reading was great. This one wasn’t. It was regurgitated.
Also, this reader mentioned at least 4 things that I have felt/thought of in the past 24-48 hours. Which makes me wonder if the changes in the reading were also due to this person reading current energy or confusing energies. Literally things I had just thought about, or felt, were said. So it makes me wonder how much is them reading us and the lenses we view things through and our thoughts vs reading the other energies and the actual future.
Anyway, this has led me to just tell myself to stop. What will happen, will and however it’s supposed to.
I am going to have a final reading with Cookie, a broad general one because to be perfectly honest, Cookie has been the most accurate for me. Things she has seen, randomly saw have happened. I have had the experiences this summer so far that she described. She has been on point with so much.
But I’m tired and weary now. If this situation I’ve been waiting on while telling myself I wasn’t, lol, happens then it does. Right now, I just don’t have it in me to go through and think, “Well Cookie said this and Yona mentioned that and...”
🤷🏻♀️
Girly1998:
--- Quote from: SomethingBetter on August 05, 2019, 12:37:34 AM ---I think today was my breaking point. I had a reading this morning with someone I read with recently and it was pretty pointless. This is my fault, I feel it was too soon in between readings now that I think about it.
Listening to it again, the reading seemed phoned in, some of the predictions changed (not vastly but details and predicting situations that I know for a FACT would never happen) the overall tone of the reading was just...off. I think this reader is highly talented, and the first reading was great. This one wasn’t. It was regurgitated.
Also, this reader mentioned at least 4 things that I have felt/thought of in the past 24-48 hours. Which makes me wonder if the changes in the reading were also due to this person reading current energy or confusing energies. Literally things I had just thought about, or felt, were said. So it makes me wonder how much is them reading us and the lenses we view things through and our thoughts vs reading the other energies and the actual future.
Anyway, this has led me to just tell myself to stop. What will happen, will and however it’s supposed to.
I am going to have a final reading with Cookie, a broad general one because to be perfectly honest, Cookie has been the most accurate for me. Things she has seen, randomly saw have happened. I have had the experiences this summer so far that she described. She has been on point with so much.
But I’m tired and weary now. If this situation I’ve been waiting on while telling myself I wasn’t, lol, happens then it does. Right now, I just don’t have it in me to go through and think, “Well Cookie said this and Yona mentioned that and...”
🤷🏻♀️
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I feel this. Even if the reading is positive I just leave it feeling emotionally drained and worse than I felt before. We’ve been out of contact for 3 months but I haven’t even made any effort on my end. These psychics just leave me feeling discouraged with the “he’s missing you but you won’t get a response back. He still has his guard up, let him come to you.” Even going as far as saying I’m blocked (can’t confirm or deny.)
At this point I feel like just laying out the message to him, getting everything of my chest and stop listening to these people who put me back into the same negative mind space when I think I’m getting better.
He’s the first person I’ve ever gotten a reading on. I honestly don’t even remember how I stumbled upon them but I definitely wish I never did.
Sorry for the rant, today just sucks.
Fidget1028:
--- Quote from: SomethingBetter on August 05, 2019, 12:37:34 AM ---I think today was my breaking point. I had a reading this morning with someone I read with recently and it was pretty pointless. This is my fault, I feel it was too soon in between readings now that I think about it.
Listening to it again, the reading seemed phoned in, some of the predictions changed (not vastly but details and predicting situations that I know for a FACT would never happen) the overall tone of the reading was just...off. I think this reader is highly talented, and the first reading was great. This one wasn’t. It was regurgitated.
Also, this reader mentioned at least 4 things that I have felt/thought of in the past 24-48 hours. Which makes me wonder if the changes in the reading were also due to this person reading current energy or confusing energies. Literally things I had just thought about, or felt, were said. So it makes me wonder how much is them reading us and the lenses we view things through and our thoughts vs reading the other energies and the actual future.
Anyway, this has led me to just tell myself to stop. What will happen, will and however it’s supposed to.
I am going to have a final reading with Cookie, a broad general one because to be perfectly honest, Cookie has been the most accurate for me. Things she has seen, randomly saw have happened. I have had the experiences this summer so far that she described. She has been on point with so much.
But I’m tired and weary now. If this situation I’ve been waiting on while telling myself I wasn’t, lol, happens then it does. Right now, I just don’t have it in me to go through and think, “Well Cookie said this and Yona mentioned that and...”
🤷🏻♀️
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It's exhausting, I know. I'm taking a break too. I have my annual Kisha general email (which always works for me), then a sabbatical. I've got too much other stuff that needs my attention.
Girly1998:
--- Quote from: pRoFeSsOr777 on August 05, 2019, 01:02:08 AM ---My situation is a little different. Over the years, I have always been the one sucking up and reaching out. So even though I feel to reach out many times, I cant because I need to know if this person could ever care enough to chase after me for a change. My first and only reading with Yona is coming up this month (waiting a month per reading is too much for me), and it is my intent to pack it in after reading with her. Im very prepared. I even bought myself a $9 voice recorder off amazon for my 1 hour read. This person is the sole reason I got into psychic readings searching for hope that this person will come back. My soul really is tired and hurting and I look forward to a day when I wake up and this person no longer dominates my thoughts.
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1 year and 3 months without anything? Is this the longest you’ve been out of contact?
SomethingBetter:
--- Quote from: Fidget1028 on August 05, 2019, 12:57:55 AM ---
--- Quote from: SomethingBetter on August 05, 2019, 12:37:34 AM ---I think today was my breaking point. I had a reading this morning with someone I read with recently and it was pretty pointless. This is my fault, I feel it was too soon in between readings now that I think about it.
Listening to it again, the reading seemed phoned in, some of the predictions changed (not vastly but details and predicting situations that I know for a FACT would never happen) the overall tone of the reading was just...off. I think this reader is highly talented, and the first reading was great. This one wasn’t. It was regurgitated.
Also, this reader mentioned at least 4 things that I have felt/thought of in the past 24-48 hours. Which makes me wonder if the changes in the reading were also due to this person reading current energy or confusing energies. Literally things I had just thought about, or felt, were said. So it makes me wonder how much is them reading us and the lenses we view things through and our thoughts vs reading the other energies and the actual future.
Anyway, this has led me to just tell myself to stop. What will happen, will and however it’s supposed to.
I am going to have a final reading with Cookie, a broad general one because to be perfectly honest, Cookie has been the most accurate for me. Things she has seen, randomly saw have happened. I have had the experiences this summer so far that she described. She has been on point with so much.
But I’m tired and weary now. If this situation I’ve been waiting on while telling myself I wasn’t, lol, happens then it does. Right now, I just don’t have it in me to go through and think, “Well Cookie said this and Yona mentioned that and...”
🤷🏻♀️
--- End quote ---
It's exhausting, I know. I'm taking a break too. I have my annual Kisha general email (which always works for me), then a sabbatical. I've got too much other stuff that needs my attention.
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Fidget, Girly, I’m in the same boat with y’all. Exhausted.
We can rant about it, lol, I think at this point ranting and sabbaticals and just laying things out on the table are the healthiest things we can probably do.
I have had a raging on and off migraine for days, my feelings go from zero to 60 within hours, I’m not sleeping (shout out to Cookie), and even things that should be easier to see (work situations) I’m getting conflicting answers about.
Time to get off the merry go round. When I was first on, 10 years ago, I called about someone for a year and a half. Didn’t hear from him at all, everyone telling me he’d reach out. While I was calling he was getting engaged. A year and a half (and more cause it took a long time to get over) of my young life wasted. Only to do the same thing another year later with a different guy. I’m not letting this one take years if my life. If I’m quite honest, the situation I was in was not ideal at all and it doesn’t matter. There’s no going back. (Sorry, Yona).
Like I said, Cookie so far has been the most accurate. It probably also helps that it takes a long while to contact her again. Maybe Yona is right but it’s too soon to tell and she could be speaking about someone I haven’t even met yet. 🙄
But yeah, Cookie. I know she’s not everyone’s cup of tea but for me she’s been working, she’s not selling me a dream, she’s actually quite realistic with me and helpful, and yeah...
Again, tired.
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