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How much time it too much time?
Sparkle002:
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--- Quote from: Jili1945 on August 05, 2019, 03:32:42 AM ---I started calling to Psychics from the first week after our falling out. Now, over one year and a half passed, we've been out of contact during all this time. I got so many time frames that never came to pass. Still I keep calling, and don't really know when I will stop. But it seems that point should not be far off :(
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Im glad to know im not the only one holding out hope even after the 1 year mark. May i ask, why is it you find it hard to let this person go? Caz i struggle with wondering if im being crazy or whether its my intuition telling me to hold on and it will be worth the wait.
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This must be tough for the both of you! Wow the longest Ive waited was 4 months no contact - the longest in my life. I’m so curious - have any of you reached out to the POI within this time at all?
I ask because Ive seen it too often on this board where folks have waited this long only to find the POI is engaged or married to someone else. I’d just hate that all this time has passed and there is no contact or closure. I hope you both get what you want (or need) soon ♥️
Jili1945:
--- Quote from: Sparkle002 on August 05, 2019, 04:00:15 AM ---
--- Quote from: pRoFeSsOr777 on August 05, 2019, 03:51:12 AM ---
--- Quote from: Jili1945 on August 05, 2019, 03:32:42 AM ---I started calling to Psychics from the first week after our falling out. Now, over one year and a half passed, we've been out of contact during all this time. I got so many time frames that never came to pass. Still I keep calling, and don't really know when I will stop. But it seems that point should not be far off :(
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Im glad to know im not the only one holding out hope even after the 1 year mark. May i ask, why is it you find it hard to let this person go? Caz i struggle with wondering if im being crazy or whether its my intuition telling me to hold on and it will be worth the wait.
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This must be tough for the both of you! Wow the longest Ive waited was 4 months no contact - the longest in my life. I’m so curious - have any of you reached out to the POI within this time at all?
I ask because Ive seen it too often on this board where folks have waited this long only to find the POI is engaged or married to someone else. I’d just hate that all this time has passed and there is no contact or closure. I hope you both get what you want (or need) soon ♥️
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Sparkle, I did, several times. And thank you for your kind wishes :)
Jili1945:
--- Quote from: pRoFeSsOr777 on August 05, 2019, 04:20:34 AM ---
--- Quote from: Jili1945 on August 05, 2019, 03:58:22 AM ---
--- Quote from: pRoFeSsOr777 on August 05, 2019, 03:51:12 AM ---
--- Quote from: Jili1945 on August 05, 2019, 03:32:42 AM ---I started calling to Psychics from the first week after our falling out. Now, over one year and a half passed, we've been out of contact during all this time. I got so many time frames that never came to pass. Still I keep calling, and don't really know when I will stop. But it seems that point should not be far off :(
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Im glad to know im not the only one holding out hope even after the 1 year mark. May i ask, why is it you find it hard to let this person go? Caz i struggle with wondering if im being crazy or whether its my intuition telling me to hold on and it will be worth the wait.
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haha ... I don't really know Prof. I ask this question from myself everyday, and I get no answer.
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Well for me the answer is easy. Ive never been in love with anyone else! The connection is deep and the memories are one of a kind. On and off for 14 yrs but the feelings never died. Hoping they feel the same way. But the longer the silence is the more my hope wanes. My dream is that one day I get to start a new thread on this forum overjoyed to share the fact that my poi came back and lauding the psychics who got it right. What joy!
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Prof! thanks for sharing your feelings, this is great! Hope you guys get back to each other very soon :)
And regarding making a new thread ... this is something that I always dream about :)
Sparkle002:
--- Quote from: pRoFeSsOr777 on August 05, 2019, 04:23:07 AM ---
--- Quote from: Jili1945 on August 05, 2019, 04:15:30 AM ---
--- Quote from: Sparkle002 on August 05, 2019, 04:00:15 AM ---
--- Quote from: pRoFeSsOr777 on August 05, 2019, 03:51:12 AM ---
--- Quote from: Jili1945 on August 05, 2019, 03:32:42 AM ---I started calling to Psychics from the first week after our falling out. Now, over one year and a half passed, we've been out of contact during all this time. I got so many time frames that never came to pass. Still I keep calling, and don't really know when I will stop. But it seems that point should not be far off :(
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Makes sense😊 hope it works out for you
I havent reached out this time caz ive always reached out in the past. This time, it has to go the other way for me to be convinced that what we share is mutual.
Im glad to know im not the only one holding out hope even after the 1 year mark. May i ask, why is it you find it hard to let this person go? Caz i struggle with wondering if im being crazy or whether its my intuition telling me to hold on and it will be worth the wait.
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This must be tough for the both of you! Wow the longest Ive waited was 4 months no contact - the longest in my life. I’m so curious - have any of you reached out to the POI within this time at all?
I ask because Ive seen it too often on this board where folks have waited this long only to find the POI is engaged or married to someone else. I’d just hate that all this time has passed and there is no contact or closure. I hope you both get what you want (or need) soon ♥️
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Sparkle, I did, several times. And thank you for your kind wishes :)
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flora0250:
--- Quote from: Yaz88 on August 05, 2019, 03:15:46 AM ---
--- Quote from: flora0250 on August 05, 2019, 01:20:49 AM ---
--- Quote from: Yaz88 on August 05, 2019, 12:07:05 AM ---For me, today was the breaking point. It’s been 3 months since last point of contact. All the readings started about 2 months ago. Up until last Thursday, all the readers (except for Aerie Rivers) indicated that he’d make contact. Aerie Rivers said I’d need to initiate contact. Since the majority said he’d make contact, I waited. Some of the predicted timelines came and went. Some other readers said it wouldn’t be until August 12, August 28, September, October, or beginning of November. Last week, a monkey wrench got thrown into my waiting game when Matilda said I’d need to make contact. I was thrown through a loop. Matilda said that this guy was worth the effort and he’d be open to communication. Of course, I then called Tara. She also said I should make contact, and said he’d find hearing from me to be good news. I waited a few days and then called Psychic Readings by Gail. Now this is when I was seriously confused. She said his back was to her, which meant I should not wait around for this guy (which is what happens when there’s no closure, whether you intend to wait around or not). She said he wouldn’t be back around until February. Well, today another part of Matilda’s reading seemed to have a mini hit. So this gave me enough of a push to text him. No response yet. Who knows whether he’ll respond or not. I’m glad I texted him. No more wondering and no more being confused. If he responds, cool. If not, oh well. What’s meant to be will be. The universe is so much more powerful than my text screwing up any divine plan. If he and I are meant to be in each other’s life, even if he doesn’t respond, the universe will put us in each other’s path (two readers said this would happen. We’d run into each other). If not, then I’m glad I put an end to this madness. Much love! <3
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To show how much of a skeptic I’ve become I look at this post and how many posts you’ve posted see that you’re pretty new and have to wonder if this reply is a set up and completely made up story to foreshadow that one of the advisors you mention were right and isn’t that fabulous that so and so was right? I’m sorry if this hurts your feelings as I don’t know you and it’s probably just my own skepticism but this is how much I believe that this industry is based in greed. That someone may just in fact go so far as to make up a fake account not to pretend to be the reader but to make up stories that then glorify a particular reader.
In the event this is not the case - wish you all the best and good for you for reaching out and setting your mind at ease.
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I’m not entirely sure how my post can glorify any one specific reader, no matter which way my situation goes. At this point, I’m truly beginning to think that they were all wrong about my situation OR my own freewill completely messed up the outcome. Yes, I’m relatively new on the forum. Lurkers who don’t contribute are frowned upon. Yet, you react with premature skepticism when someone new attempts to share their experience. If I were to have just “poof” appeared on this forum saying that so and so was 100% right and everyone needs to try her, well that’s another story. It’s always good to be somewhat skeptical, but keep in mind that taking a swat at someone’s authenticity as a preemptive measure will surely result in others not wanting to share their experiences with various advisors. Isn’t that one of the main reasons why this forum exists? To share our experiences and offer support? Hell, it’s not like most of us can talk to our friends and family about this without them being all judgey. So here we are :-)
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You are right - this is not something that I think most people can discuss with other people - and I wish I wasn’t so skeptical of every single poet I read. In fact I admit I’m even skeptical of posts from long time members too. I think it’s just because of my personal experience on the forum that I won’t go into but - a couple things really - that were too complicated to explain but left me basically feeling unable to trust 100 percent really anything anyone posts.
Now obviously no I don’t think every person is making something up to promote or the opposite - negatively influence a readers reputation. So I do benefit from reading the threads and trying to see overall opinions - it is meant to be a board to help everyone ...
Anyway I am sorry if it came across as a swat I didn’t intend it that way. Thanks for your post and offering your experiences. One just never knows and there is no way to know really who is genuine and who isn’t. Add on top of it the truth that one reader may connect really well with one person and not another... and it makes it so difficult to sift through what is valuable information or not.
Thanks for replying and wish you all the best - again didn’t mean it as so personal but I hope you understand where I’m coming from.
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