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4everhopeful:
I saw the same pattern with other people also. The things that they forgot about and didnt focus on always came true. Ive read many articles and many of the psychics told me that when you focus on a particular thing its messing up the flow of energy. Who knows? Im just at a point now of not caring anymore. It just feels better to focus on me and the ones that really care about me. I think one thing that really messed me up was the psychics telling me to be positive and not let negative energy surround me. Sounds good but I think if I had let the anger that I felt come to the surface and get rid of it when I should have, I would have healed and forgotten about that stupid man a lot sooner.

sunandmoon:

--- Quote from: jordie on January 21, 2012, 11:57:36 PM ---Found something very interesting you just said. About how it came true exactly for your son because you filed it away and put no thought into it. Perhaps that is the key. I do know that when something I was told that came true I had forgotten all about it because it took a year to come about. We get readings too often to keep checking up. We let our insecurities rule.  Hard to file it away when it involves ourselves and what we view to be important to us. However, it is what we have to do. I know I have messed things up a few times based on what I "knew" or expected.

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That's not always key, as in my case I've been very occupied with my new guy for 5 months and rarely think about the old one. I don't open that spreadsheet of timelines daily anymore.

I honestly believe if it's going to happen, it will happen. Otherwise it won't. And there are very few people that are good at seeing it.

sunandmoon:
Course I did. It was the only way I could keep track of all the damn psychics I called, who I liked, who I didn't. And in it I noted some key info for the ones I thought were good, like contact timelines and the final outcome. That way if they were right it was easy for me to see who was right and call them back if I needed more info. Much easier than going through my notes. It also allowed me to pick up Winter as a scam.

I did this for 18 months so it wasn't like I just called a couple of them, sad to say.

LiveLaughLove:
I agree I dont think that's really key either...maybe it helps but I've been dating a lot and focusing on that since there are people who occupying my time and stil nothing happened...I looked back at the notes of some of the people I spoke with like seha,Jacquilene, and a few more I spoke with and nothing happened when they said it would and this was 5 or 6 months ago...

If its going to happen I guess it will but thankfully I met a great guy so as much as I love my ex and truly believe he is one of my soulmates (which I didn't have to talk with a psychic to know that) I'm happy with where I'm at with this new guy I don't really care.

What's funny is I called a guy my friend suggested and asked about my ex and this new guy and he said that this new guy doesn't really like me and by feb march my ex will want me and April this this new dude would figure out tha he wants to be with me. All I could do was laugh and get off the phone because this new dude does like me or he's a good faker and spending a lot of money and time on me because he just wants too lol. Plus by April if me and him were still at this dating stage I wouldn'nt even be in contact with him...that's how I've always done it&thars not going to change. I don't date guys for months and months and months and stay in the same place..if by 3 moths we are just dating and I'm not you gf I will move onto the next person because that's wasting my time .

4everhopeful:
Im just wondering if keeping a spreadsheet is sort of obsessing over the readings. I dont know how much it has to do with thinking about it or just keeping such great records but I think if you dont keep notes or anything and you just take what they say and have it filed away in your memory and go on with your life, then maybe when things happen you just sort of remember that you were told this months ago. Who knows? Im just not gonna spend anymore money on the psychics cause I really think it makes us more miserable than bring happiness. We make it for years without psychics, why not make it on our own now and enjoy our money in other ways? I think by now we have all learned that we arent gonna know whats really going to happen anyway. Even if some predictions come true it isnt how we had it imagined in our minds, its always a different way or route of getting to the final outcome. I enjoy coming here and reading everyones posts and I still enjoy going to CP and reading the blog entries but with some of the things that have happened in my life, especially in the last few days, Im not calling psychics anymore. Im just going to live my life and make my own decisions and go with the flow. Its so much easier and better that way. Much less stress.

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