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Dont you just hate it when Psychics say this....
SomethingBetter:
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--- Quote from: WinterElf on July 22, 2019, 11:15:32 PM ---And 99 percent of the time when they say a new person is coming never happens. Plus i usually cut them off when they want to go into more details about it because it's all bullshit.
Only 3 predicted my current poi. And this is why i feel readings are EVIL because they said it will be a happy long term relationship and had details on his job and looks before i even knew he existed. After 2 months of dating this guy they said um.... "Looks like he is not the one. Now the new guy coming in is...."
I just wanted to scream .
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Then when this happens we need to step away from the readings and focus on ourselves. I’m a big believer too that psychics also pick up on our anxiety and this can skew the reading.
Pick certain readers and stick to them. Don’t believe everything as gospel - if in your gut you don’t feel it to be right , it isn’t right .
Psychics who are scammers will tell you anything to keep you hooked . You just have to learn to prioritize/ ignore or let go .
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I agree with Diamond.
Also, WinterElf, it’s cool that a few predicted a certain man, however, before they started saying , “he’s not the one,” stuff like that, were things going well? Or had things started to go wrong already?
If things were great and they started predicting bad things then subconsciously you might have been throwing out that information and energy and unknowingly causing problems on the relationship. Or were things starting to go downhill already and you mentioned that to these reader and they ran with it? Some are very astute cold readers/armchair psychologists and could have been using your own words to make these negative predictions.
I really hope you find a way out of this hole with the readings and I truly believe if you think these readings/readers are evil, please stop. Don’t let that energy in your space if thats how you feel.
WinterElf:
Spiritminded was the one who predicted him coming into my life and also she said, " If you do not listen to others and not let others influence the relationship, it should go well."
She was right but as each reading went on, it got worse etc.... I called after we had a small misunderstanding a few weeks into dating each other.
Phoenix rising saw it coming and was so correct for every man in my life. before him i always had her saying it wouldnot work out and it never did despite my best efforts but this POI was the first she said that i would have a relationship with... and Marceejay saw him coming. Jessica spirit has been the most accurate about him since dating and also QOC and Aquarian Psychic.
be careful with spiritminded and marceejay and do not feed them information at first because they can run with a bad story even if they are really accurate.
My anxiety caused issues but he did also.... and also jealous people who didnt want to see me happy and with him... and readers who made fake predictions of him being with other women etc that caused me to react or be upset.
SomethingBetter:
--- Quote from: WinterElf on July 23, 2019, 12:47:32 PM ---Spiritminded was the one who predicted him coming into my life and also she said, " If you do not listen to others and not let others influence the relationship, it should go well."
She was right but as each reading went on, it got worse etc.... I called after we had a small misunderstanding a few weeks into dating each other.
Phoenix rising saw it coming and was so correct for every man in my life. before him i always had her saying it wouldnot work out and it never did despite my best efforts but this POI was the first she said that i would have a relationship with... and Marceejay saw him coming. Jessica spirit has been the most accurate about him since dating and also QOC and Aquarian Psychic.
be careful with spiritminded and marceejay and do not feed them information at first because they can run with a bad story even if they are really accurate.
My anxiety caused issues but he did also.... and also jealous people who didnt want to see me happy and with him... and readers who made fake predictions of him being with other women etc that caused me to react or be upset.
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I have never worked with Spiritminded but I adore QoC. She is a straight shooter.
I wouldn’t call psychics if you just had a little misunderstanding. That is going to mess with your head. This is where I support exercise, meditation, walking away, deep breathing, Yoga...whatever it takes to get you into a better headspace.
Marceejay is a fake.
I think the mistake you are making is 1. Blaming other people who were jealous. Girl, you had him. Let them be jealous. Unless they were true sabotages than pay them no mind. They are dirt under you shoes.
The other mistake is you blaming readers who say he’s with others. I don’t care if you’re reading with God himself. Unless you have proof, don’t react or panic. Save them for when you do have proof. You are living a self fulfilling prophecy. They tell you something and instead of sitting back and waiting for evidence you jump the gun. They predict something bad, you get reactive then the bad stuff happens. It’s a cycle that only you can stop. You have to take more responsibility for your actions.
Who else do you read with? Have you tried Yona or Kisha? I like QoC, but do you read with off keen readers who are reputable?
Maybe they can five you peace of mind.
I hope you relax and find something to ease your nerves.
bstalling:
--- Quote from: Sparkle002 on July 22, 2019, 08:47:12 PM ---
Good grief! Whomever that reader is, pull them from your list!
Sounds like the readers you’ve been choosing are terrible...like omg I couldn’t imagine.
I’ll say that readers have an affect on me - or after affect. Like if they get a hit, I’m entertained and in awe of their abilities. That’s why i go back. I don’t however get emotionally invested in the readings. At least where I’m holding on to what they say is true as I try to keep a balance with realizm vs readings. That doesn’t mean i may not be disappointed but I’m not “all the way in” and dependant emotionally. I can’t be. It’s bad for health.
I take readings with a grain of salt. If it happens it’s like a high, if it doesn’t, it’s like a bad sandwich i throw away- basically wishing it was a tasty sandwich but i wasted my money - oh well.
--- Quote from: WinterElf on July 22, 2019, 08:28:36 PM ---I see what you are saying good points. But if it is truly where they have no effect on a lot of people, why do they keep calling and paying money? To forget about the advice? To not have the words linger in their minds once they are confronted with decision making for the issue? If there is no use other than entertainment, why do they keep calling ? To trust the psychics advice because the little things came to pass so they act on the other advice? I know people say it doesnt affect them but even after paying all that money , I started to take certain ones seriously when multiple predictions came to pass and then the biggest prediction NEVER HAPPENED.
Yes, I need help. I keep crying and I am so angry that I allowed them in... the psychics because all their advice... the little stuff was right but the big picture advice never manifested and many got angry and some threatened me when I said , naw that aint right because .... etc... I blame myself first of all. I am so angry though and bitter now. I just stay in my room and i sleep all day after work to try to forget my reality. Now the one thing that they said happened but never was happening.... will happen because the fear that was stirred up during the readings that made me so depressed and nervous.
An example of a couple of readings....
Psychic: " Um, the cards here say that there is a woman around him. "
Me: "But 2 weeks ago you said He is not going anywhere and has no interest in other women. You also didnt mention a woman in the last reading"
Psychic: "Okay, you can take my advice or you can go to a fairytale reader. That is why he is not even your bf yet because you believe the fluff"
ME: " I was just asking a question. This reading is very different than last time."
Psychic: "He just got laid off right?"
Me: " Yes, you are right. I guess if you can see that, maybe there is something to this new development."
Psychic: "He has a roommate ? Tall guy with black hair? He makes more money than your guy and is to himself a lot."
Me: "YES! Very true"
Psychic: "Okay he is not with his roommate but with her now. They are talking now."
Me: " OMG... oh no... :'( :'( :'( :'( :'("
The next day I get a call from him asking me to come over. They had dropped him off at his place from the hospital as he collapsed at work the same day the psychic said he was at on a date with the mystery woman. It was all over FB of him in the ambulance etc and in the hospital till the next day. I spoke to his friend and he said he was with him the entire time...... So yah, but even with that evidence it kept playing in my head as to how the psychic got the little stuff right but the part that I thought was the most important to hear was not right at all.
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Yeah, it took me a long time to not get invested emotionally in these readings. Years of misses and wrong outcomes killed that. I see them for what they are now, which is entertainment. I will always believe in psychic ability, but its just not useful in our everyday lives.
WinterElf:
Marceejay has never given me free mns in the years i have spoken with her weird lol But i guess there is a connection because a lot of her readings have come to pass for me but also if she is wrong, she is so damn dead wrong.
I know i should not have reacted but after the trauma of the last relationship where i was always calm etc until he suddenly dropped a bomb on me about another woman, i have been super insecure even if i try to hide it.
It has been 3 weeks since my POI contacted me. I feel that is message enough he dont wanna talk. My heart is breaking so bad. I just need someone to hold me now because i keep crying everyday... my friends and family try to be there for me. My guy friend is coming over to have a talk and hug... i feel physically sick.
i just dont have energy to even text my friends on the phone and ask them to call me because i am usually just sleeping and it is easy to lay down and just talk to a voice. i feel sick and so sad i hope i can get over this heartbreak.
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