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Who is the most brutally honest, no sugarcoat reader that has been right?
Miss Philosopher:
You have a great both. Both can be wrong. Just because someone tells us what we do not want to hear doesn't make it true. I think us humans are more inclined to believe the bad things will happen but have a hard time believing the good things will happen. Why is that? I ask myself all the time and for me it's because of bad past experiences that created trust issues for me in general.
mliva34:
I think it's a trauma response based on past experiences. And we utilize such forums like this to help us navigate through those negative thoughts by actively looking for positive reassurance and reading people's positive experiences. This helps calm subconscious fear and anxiety.
Miss Philosopher:
--- Quote from: mliva34 on September 22, 2025, 07:30:14 PM ---I think it's a trauma response based on past experiences. And we utilize such forums like this to help us navigate through those negative thoughts by actively looking for positive reassurance and reading people's positive experiences. This helps calm subconscious fear and anxiety.
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Very well said indeed!
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