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Never ever contacting psychics again

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Dreamer23:

--- Quote from: Zzib on June 15, 2019, 05:33:19 PM ---I like this part you said I am rested and focused on my life, not on a fantastical future that has no basis in the present.

Seriously how can they care, love us and all those wonderful things if I’m the reality we are being shut down or blocked

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With psychics I never took what happened as reality, they always made me distort reality. Yes, he is distant but only because he loves you so much, he is not where he wants to be in terms of his work, he is scared that he is not good enough for you, it will all change, he will come out of it in ... 2 weeks, 2 months, 6 months, insert any other timeline here. This is true love, he is the love of your life, he is your soulmate. Be patient, he will show you soon how much he cares. All of these things that I've heard from most psychics (I did hear some negative stuff but few and far between and of course I blocked it out because I wanted the fairytale), it made me believe in another reality and ultimately I looked so stupid.

I would be careful looking to psychics for advice. They are just another person, but you may tend to believe that they know more than you because of their "psychic gift", and that's when you begin to not trust your own guidance system. Is it hard to tel if a guy is right for you? Not really...if they treat you well then that means they are good for you. If they don't...then that means they are not, no matter what they might be thinking or feeling. You can be stuck in relationships with narcissists and sociopaths, because psychics tell you how much someone loves you. It can be so dangerous.

And I wish my wallet was fatter but because I spent so much, it will take me a good amount of time to pay off all my debt. :(

SomethingBetter:
It really does belong in the DSM IV or V whatever version they are on now.

Dreamer23:

--- Quote from: SomethingBetter on June 19, 2019, 12:40:44 AM ---It really does belong in the DSM IV or V whatever version they are on now.

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I agree!

Cteebaby1:
I feel the exact same way. Until I’m strong enough to break the cycle of this on and off again bull I will no longer consult psychics. At the end of the day my POI and I are not in a committed relationship and I have to take it for what it is. He might care about me but he certainly doesn’t love me but love doesn’t do that. Unfortunately we brought a baby into our mess so I still have to talk to him. The fact that we do have a child gives him the peace of knowing I’ll always be around anyway so he doesn’t even try anymore until he thinks I moved on. Really at this point psychics don’t really tell me anything other than advice or he has feelings. I’m done with it myself and will stop getting readings. I’m just going to let things play out how God wants it to

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