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Help me close my keen account
SomethingBetter:
So I am laying here a bawling, sobby running nose mess.
I can’t get it through my head and my heart that this is over. It wasn’t even good to begin with but my head and heart want it. I don’t think he’ll be back but I’m holding on to little bits of hope from Cookie and Yona.
I’ve been keeping my keen account open to talk to Cookie, Anne and Kira.
Somebody speak some wisdom to me, lol. Help me get this albatross off my neck.
username1111:
--- Quote from: SomethingBetter on June 11, 2019, 04:24:22 AM ---So I am laying here a bawling, sobby running nose mess.
I can’t get it through my head and my heart that this is over. It wasn’t even good to begin with but my head and heart want it. I don’t think he’ll be back but I’m holding on to little bits of hope from Cookie and Yona.
I’ve been keeping my keen account open to talk to Cookie, Anne and Kira.
Somebody speak some wisdom to me, lol. Help me get this albatross off my neck.
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He doesn't deserve your love. Your heart is precious, it should only be for someone who can see its value.
Stay strong, Big hug.
kdspirited:
--- Quote from: SomethingBetter on June 11, 2019, 04:24:22 AM ---So I am laying here a bawling, sobby running nose mess.
I can’t get it through my head and my heart that this is over. It wasn’t even good to begin with but my head and heart want it. I don’t think he’ll be back but I’m holding on to little bits of hope from Cookie and Yona.
I’ve been keeping my keen account open to talk to Cookie, Anne and Kira.
Somebody speak some wisdom to me, lol. Help me get this albatross off my neck.
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Somethingbetter I am in the same boat. Take it one day at a time. plan your day ahead think about how you will spend your day read, go for a run anything to keep you busy and your mind off him. close the account cold turkey there is no point in the misery. When you are ready therapy can help. Meditation helps me a lot. Self love. Go to the movies. Make a list of 100 activities that you could be doing that will take your mind off him. I am trying as well its been 2 years for me and he has given me nothing concrete and I want to move on from him. But we work together so its hard for me because I see him everyday. But I will make it happen. I am dating again and although its a struggle it is critical in the moving on process.
Clarita:
--- Quote from: SomethingBetter on June 11, 2019, 04:24:22 AM ---So I am laying here a bawling, sobby running nose mess.
I can’t get it through my head and my heart that this is over. It wasn’t even good to begin with but my head and heart want it. I don’t think he’ll be back but I’m holding on to little bits of hope from Cookie and Yona.
I’ve been keeping my keen account open to talk to Cookie, Anne and Kira.
Somebody speak some wisdom to me, lol. Help me get this albatross off my neck.
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I've done it myself, knowing I didnt even really like the guy but still I was devastated. Calling Psychics when the relationship was dead but needed to hear some nonesense because it made me feel better. In the end it was counselling that helped me. I've done this for more than one relationship by the way. Too many to be honest. Years in counselling also. Lots of money spent for me to find my own balance and love myself.
SomethingBetter:
You guys are great, btw.
I really feel like doing it.
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