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WTF with psychic readings
Sparkle002:
Ok ok ok...like I’ve seen all these posts seeming as if psychics connect with dark spirits or bring the negativity and all that but I have to ask (I didnt want to but here it goes)
I have so many questions @WinterElf :)!! My questions are for pure understanding, not for anything condescending - just wanted to put that out there. Also, I just have a different perspective on this but was just curious.
1. Was there a legit real life reason as to why you were calling psychics about the POI - like some suspicion on his part? I’m asking because for you to actually react that way I feel there had to be some real life suspicion if the readers were saying those things. Case in point, I had a reader that kept telling me a woman was living in my POIs house so much that I plum WENT OFF on him. But my reason was that I NEVER been to his house in REAL LIFE so it appeared to me as a valid reason enough to go off on him. While it didnt ruin our relationship, in the end I did eventually go to his house after a YEAR. Even tho he told me no one lived there. In reality - that girl DID live there - I know it, but he waited until the right time when she was completely moved out and the key was returned to allow me to come in (so I do believe she was out for a while before she gave the key back).
2. Sometimes we have to check our OWN energy. If we are in a negative place - be careful with reading especially with new readers. I believe LIKE attracts LIKE. I’ve had readers give me BS readings before but never in my life had them affect me in a way where I thought that they brought some negativity over me or anything like that. If it was anything negative, it was coming from my conscious or subconcious and had nothing to do with them. However based on where your mentality is, readers can exacerbate what you are ALREADY feeling.
3. “Your luck gets worse and unfortunate things happen”. Sorry I dont believe this at allllll. So readers are the sole reason for this? Things get worse due to negative mentality. Negativity attracts negativity.
While I can definitely AGREE that some of these readers are FLAT OUT wrong and BS - and some of us do take responsibility for our actions but I cannot believe that these readers are like Bad luck charms or something. I always say dont believe everything they tell you until it happens - especially new readers who are not your trusted readers. If you dont have that circle, then definitely take what they say with a grain of salt. (For me I can somewhat trust my small circle of advisors due to consistency of outcomes, HOWEVER, I will NOT act on anything they say in REAL LIFE unless I have evidence to do so).
Maybe I’m a rare one that has gotten a majority of good insights to my POIs - ONLY after I found the right readers for me tho....we all know when we connect with the wrong ones, and they say something that does not match REAL LIFE, we know in our gut they are wrong. However, that shouldn’t allow a negative cloud to hover over you because of their wrong reading - I know its easier said than done but I realize looking back I was just in a negative place (with a POI from the past) and kept attracting the wrong readers. I felt bad not because of them but because of my mentality and how I allowed the POI to TREAT me. I just refuse to blame anything on readers even if they are wrong - we are controllers of our own destiny in the end.
If they play off your fears - what are you fearing? It’s like allowing these people who dont know you have control when you are the one control of YOUR reality in YOUR life - I’m sorry I just dont get the reasoning. Maybe you can help me understand - if you feel like it ;)
WinterElf:
girl , your post did come off condescending and i didnt feel like reading all your long questions. But i dont expect everyone to agree. It is just how things are going for me and other long time addicts. I know you were trying to say you dont believe me but it is what it is for me. I believe what you said because it is your experience. As I said before, everyone has a different experience.
either way the point of my post is that it is a waste of time and after doing it for over 19 years, the addiction is not easy to kick. It has been a waste of money and even other psychics say stop calling them so much and do not call them when a relationship is just starting. This was for the positive and negative readers. ... their advice to people. GOing over my notes from the past decade... 85 percent of those readings did not come to pass BUT I keep calling. I dont know why. Even when calling about a POI who i am super excited about with no DOUBTS, I got readings that were not accurate, no matter how positive i was.
That post was a way to get out my frustrations with readers being so right about things but then completely wrong about the other half of it, whether it is negative or positive. Calling readers is giving your power away even if you dont always believe them.
WinterElf:
--- Quote from: WinterElf on May 16, 2019, 11:44:20 PM ---Yes .... please please do not listen to them.. They made me lose my shit yesterday ... i do take responsibility for listening to them... but i was so messed up in the head that I went OFF on him. They say stuff that play on your fears, whatever they are connecting to. I was crying and screaming when i got home because i had pushed him away based on my fear.
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that was very strong of you to not react to what she said. THey say that it is for ENTERTAINMENT purposes but we all know that thousands of people go to them for important life choices or relationships that mean a lot to them. Sadly, people get caught up in it like i did.
Sparkle002:
Well ok then! I’ll go back to minding my biz ::) and not read this long negative thread.
--- Quote from: WinterElf on May 17, 2019, 01:48:25 AM ---girl , your post did come off condescending and i didnt feel like reading all your long questions. But i dont expect everyone to agree. It is just how things are going for me and other long time addicts. I know you were trying to say you dont believe me but it is what it is for me. I believe what you said because it is your experience. As I said before, everyone has a different experience.
either way the point of my post is that it is a waste of time and after doing it for over 19 years, the addiction is not easy to kick. It has been a waste of money and even other psychics say stop calling them so much and do not call them when a relationship is just starting. This was for the positive and negative readers. ... their advice to people. GOing over my notes from the past decade... 85 percent of those readings did not come to pass BUT I keep calling. I dont know why. Even when calling about a POI who i am super excited about with no DOUBTS, I got readings that were not accurate, no matter how positive i was.
That post was a way to get out my frustrations with readers being so right about things but then completely wrong about the other half of it, whether it is negative or positive. Calling readers is giving your power away even if you dont always believe them.
yes it is about mindset in many cases but not always. i guess one example of that would be me calling celestial readings ? i forget her name...
She is usually only accurate on the first reading and after that, it was utter garbage from past experiences.
Jan 2019... How will POI go? IT WILL BE GREAT! YOU ALL HAVE LUCKY LUCKY CARDS. THIS LOOKS REALLY PROMISING !
Feb 2019 Just checking up on things! OH>> LOOKS LIKE HE PULLED BACK A BIT AND THERE IS AN EX COMING IN BUT YOU HAVE HOPE... JUST DO THIS AND THINGS WILL GET BETTER. HE PULLED AWAY BECAUSE OF HER. (actually he pulled away because he lost his job but ididnt know this. I believed her because she was right inthe past for someone else)
March 2019 Hi there. Wondering if things have improved overall. UM. I SEE OTHER MEN COMING IN AROUND YOU AND IT IS NOT DECIDED YET IF YOU GUYS WILL MAKE IT AT ALL. HOLD ON THOUGH
APRIL 2019. Well we are communicating more. good right? WELL, LOOKS LIKE HE WILL NEVER EVER COMMIT TO YOU. HE IS GOING A DIFFERENT ROUTE.
Progressively no matter how happy my mindset is, constantly going to a reader to get insight... well the readings get worse.
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WinterElf:
true it is a bit negative but i wanted to see if people had similar experiences.
either way, i love this forum but i get more results going to the manifesting forum because all the good reviews on certain psychics make me want to call them ! lol
I had my POI call me way more often in a week of doing the manifesting than the psychic readings. I was always waiting after a psychic reading or nervous. It is a scary thing for some of us to not call a psychic when we are freaking out but my bank is crazy angry with me now. lol
after yesterday... it was a grim wake up call.
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