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I freaking give up
flora0250:
I realized I have read with so many for so long now, a little over a year, that I promised I would put together some kind of summary and how long it would take me to write it all out.
Boy if THAT isn’t eye opening I don’t know what is.
If major predictions come true or not, which I should know within a month or maybe even much sooner ... I mean either way... holy crap. That was A LOT of readers I called. A LOT. And I am going to make myself add up the money too.
Writing about each one is helping - I am putting them into categories of top, top-middle, middle middle, low middle and bottom. Which I know seems excessive! Ha! But it helps. Only those where I have either had SOME kind of very specific prediction pass or have been SO specific with details on past and present and who’s predictions are still outstanding right now are in my top category. Very, very few considering how many I’ve called. I think right now I’m around 5 in the top, 30 in the middle categories and maybe around 10 in the bottom.
I’m putting it all together for what it’s worth to others which may be little to nothing but ... it’s valuable to ME to put it in perspective just how much energy I’ve given this and how little that energy has gotten me anything or changed anything.
Wishing you lots of luck.
WinterElf:
So I got so upset and i did the LOA and also pussy whipped meditations (for women only lol). he offered me a relationship and i was so shocked that i didnt say anything.i will tell him later on today... i also prayed to mother Mary using the miraculous medallion and prayed at a catholic church.
God is great and i will get over my addiction to psychics.
twinflame93:
--- Quote from: candiednut on May 19, 2019, 01:46:09 PM ---I agree with everything you said twinflame, except for the part about "divine timing" - Usually when I see people talking about "divine timing" it is coming from a place of powerlessness, waiting, and needing to "be patient" to wait for the universe. To me that is still giving our power away...if you are a match to something, it will manifest instantaneously. If I am not yet having what I want, I will do everything I can to make myself "more aligned". Don't give your power away to anything, including "the universe", which is just a mirror for your vibration anyways. :)
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Unfortunately, I disagree. Everything happens in its right accord and it's not giving your power away... it's trusting and accepting the uncertainty you don't know when it will happen. Here are some examples:
1. I always wanted to start a business but was too lazy, selfish to do so. I only wanted money to become rich. There was a time in my life 4 years ago where i made so much money in the stock market and i never understood why I didnt start my business then - I would have had so much funding to do so. I then started a business 2 years ago after losing my job in the corporate world...I sort of forced myself to start my business. I didn't have anywhere near the right amount of funding I had but it led me to make smarter business decisions, save money from the beginning of business trading by self-learning money books and also I wanted to make money by helping others. I believe in the quote "service to others" it is what the universe wants from us - we are here to help others and learn lessons. There was many lessons i had learnt - both personal and financial/business. Had I have not learnt these lessons 4 years ago I probably would have got myself into a lot of financial debt and made poor selfish business decisions. Time allows us to rethink, grow as humans, evolve, help others and so much more - this is divine timing. The universe helping and protecting us.
I can now proudly say I run a store that does 5 figures a month. But the most rewarding feeling is the incredible feedback I hear from customers that pushes me to work harder.
Another example:
We have angels and spirit guides around us to protect us. For example: you really want to go on holiday to a certain country but don't have the funds to do so. You don't know why and you desperately want to go no matter how much you practice LOA. Next thing you know that country had a terror attack. You then thank the universe for working their magic and saving your life.
Most of the time, I've noticed that when we just release our intention and accept the uncertainty of "when" things will happen - again accepting the divine timing things manifest pretty quickly - normally because we are not desperately holding onto the desire and timeframe of it. Desperation turns into fear. Fear slows down timeframes and many time when practising LOA desperation can often be confused with "passion". We tell ourselves "well its passion so why is it not happening now?" Sometimes when we get so involved in other projects, responsibilities and keep ourselves busy and proactive it soon comes round because we let the desperation go :)
dascallie:
--- Quote from: flora0250 on May 19, 2019, 04:52:19 PM ---I realized I have read with so many for so long now, a little over a year, that I promised I would put together some kind of summary and how long it would take me to write it all out.
Boy if THAT isn’t eye opening I don’t know what is.
If major predictions come true or not, which I should know within a month or maybe even much sooner ... I mean either way... holy crap. That was A LOT of readers I called. A LOT. And I am going to make myself add up the money too.
Writing about each one is helping - I am putting them into categories of top, top-middle, middle middle, low middle and bottom. Which I know seems excessive! Ha! But it helps. Only those where I have either had SOME kind of very specific prediction pass or have been SO specific with details on past and present and who’s predictions are still outstanding right now are in my top category. Very, very few considering how many I’ve called. I think right now I’m around 5 in the top, 30 in the middle categories and maybe around 10 in the bottom.
I’m putting it all together for what it’s worth to others which may be little to nothing but ... it’s valuable to ME to put it in perspective just how much energy I’ve given this and how little that energy has gotten me anything or changed anything.
Wishing you lots of luck.
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Good for you...I need to do the same ( arrrgh---will be excruciating in terms of $$$). It's a painful exercise and mind boggling how we've been caught in this ever spiraling web.
What I'm thinking hard about is where is the common sense I used to operate with...to wit: I've always observed (and told every one of my friends as we would lament about men) that if a man up and leaves a woman that he allegedly "loves" --for no real 'reason'....other than he's "overwhelmed", "confused", "depressed"...99.9999% of the time, there is another woman involved.
Men aren't that complicated.
I think this has been my personal, deepening quicksand with the reading thing.
Over and over and over and OVER-- I've been told, no significant woman with him. None, nada. Light dating, maybe, talking--socializing, no one in particular, nothing important. I never heard a single time he was in an exclusive 'thing' with anyone.
I'm told he has a "deep connection with me unlike any before, is in love with me, but is full of fear" --but somehow he can stay away from me--his soulmate, his deepest, most special beloved one-- for many many many months ( like 10 and counting) on end??
I'm trying to ready myself for the day I bump into a uncomfortable and startling wakeup call ( AKA, I hear he's either getting married or extremely involved with someone, and has been since he dumped me :-(
THEN that big fat investment in $$$ is going to really sting all over again.
sawthelight:
--- Quote from: dascallie on May 19, 2019, 08:15:47 PM ---Good for you...I need to do the same ( arrrgh---will be excruciating in terms of $$$). It's a painful exercise and mind boggling how we've been caught in this ever spiraling web.
What I'm thinking hard about is where is the common sense I used to operate with...to wit: I've always observed (and told every one of my friends as we would lament about men) that if a man up and leaves a woman that he allegedly "loves" --for no real 'reason'....other than he's "overwhelmed", "confused", "depressed"...99.9999% of the time, there is another woman involved.
Men aren't that complicated.
I think this has been my personal, deepening quicksand with the reading thing.
Over and over and over and OVER-- I've been told, no significant woman with him. None, nada. Light dating, maybe, talking--socializing, no one in particular, nothing important. I never heard a single time he was in an exclusive 'thing' with anyone.
I'm told he has a "deep connection with me unlike any before, is in love with me, but is full of fear" --but somehow he can stay away from me--his soulmate, his deepest, most special beloved one-- for many many many months ( like 10 and counting) on end??
I'm trying to ready myself for the day I bump into a uncomfortable and startling wakeup call ( AKA, I hear he's either getting married or extremely involved with someone, and has been since he dumped me :-(
THEN that big fat investment in $$$ is going to really sting all over again.
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Oh I can so relate to this. That was the hard part of acceptance with my first POI. if he really cared and loved me as much as the readers claimed, why would he stop communicating with me? Makes no sense.
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