Yeah, looking back, she was just negative toward me lol, I thought she had a handle on POI's personality, but she said to expect him to be kind of distant even if he might appear friendly, so I kind of erred on the side of distance when we were at the same party, but then he pulled me aside toward the end specifically to chat one-on-one, and we had a great time.
We've been texting recently, so I thought I'd give her another shot, and she was negative again, so I tried to give her a little clarifying info (the space she was seeing made sense because he's an ex, but he's been pretty forward lately), and she got super defensive, told me I just wasn't ready to hear the truth, etc. I left a review and of course she's blaming it on me in her reply.