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Possibly Scammed & In Too Deep
jas:
Contrary to what everyone else is saying, I think giving yourself closure with this person might be the right thing to do. HOWEVER, you will have to be very strong and really stand your ground with her. I think that Hornet's suggestion of a note written to her sounds like a good idea.
I understand your anxiety and the obligation you feel to put closure on the situation. Just remember, if you choose to speak with her it is only for your own sake and you absolutely will have to reach into your belly and not allow her sway you in any way.
happyk:
--- Quote from: tacobelle914 on April 01, 2019, 08:00:05 PM ---
--- Quote from: happyk on April 01, 2019, 07:35:53 PM ---Ignore her and block her. You're not guilty here so let go of guilt. I've been in similar situation and when i said I wouldn't pay the psychic told me that my POI will leave me and we'll never be together like literally like she was going to put a hex on me or something. Record her call or something just in case she tries to scare you and coax you into paying. You don't owe her shit. After finishing all my money I've realized no person that ditches us is worth a penny. Don't matter if they got scared of their feelings or are under a lot of pressure is whatever. But again that's just my opinion. Bottom like though-- DO NOT GIVE THAT CHARLATAN ANY MONEY!
And sending you love ♥️♥️
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Thanks so much!
She also helped me along with my spiritual awakening so that's another reason I do have some of that lingering guilt. I have more faith in myself than ever now and am feeling really balanced... which is also why this particular situation is just not sitting right with me.
I know deep down that what is meant for me will be mine no matter what, whether or not someone tells me beforehand or 'helps' me with some ritual.
As crappy as it is to say, if she is a true psychic to the degree she professes (in terms of predicting behaviors and outcomes of my POI) then she should also have known I just straight up cannot afford what she is asking of me right now.
I could use all the positive vibes you can spare right now lol <3
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If you talk to her be strong and don't let her talk into anything. Just know that she doesn't have the power of changing destiny. Sending positive vibes ♥️
doubleoh8:
I tend to agree with @Jas, that you might consider a communication with her to put closure to it IF you feel you can be firm and stand your ground. If she has not already performed the so-called ritual, I would just say something simple like "I am in a different place now and have decided I don't need or want to go through with this."
Also, you are definitely NOT the jerk and this is definitely a scam, so don't for an instant feel responsible or guilty about the $$... just get out of the situation asap.
wishes215:
I would speak with her and let her know that you are no longer interested in her services. thats it. if she talks abt money, let her know politely that you just can't. I wouldn't just disappear. but thats just me.
alphabetsoup:
You just avoided a $6000 scam. Why do you feel bad? It's not your fault.
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