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For those waiting on predictions... .

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ladya:

--- Quote from: Love2lovenj on March 15, 2019, 02:40:14 PM ---Ladya, you are seriously a ray of Sunshine. 😘

Honestly i think some rando can come in because I myself have had several exes keep wanting to rekindle things and new suitors.  So i have the option to just drop this on again off again theme and start fresh.  So i just figured he does too.  I know we won't ever find someone with the kind of chemistry we have but this relationship takes work.  The real question is are we both willing to be vulnerable and put the effort in.  I know i am but have been told he had a wall up now.  Which i have definitely noticed.  It will never work if someone keeps you at arms length and then you yourself do the same because you don't want to get hurt.

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Think of it this way lol if he has that wall up with you, he prob will have it with everyone else lol so doubt it would go very far. I do agree that 2 people need to be willing to put in the work but I believe you can only suppress your feelings for so long. You know the feelings that exist between the 2 of you can’t be found elsewhere so when he works out his issues he knows where to find you. What you choose to do after the fact is up to you and should do what’s best for you when the time comes. Predictions are hard with other people but I believe that if 2 people are meant to be and 1 is gearing too far off the path, the universe will force their hand or throw in a “tower moment” as they say to redirect them.

Love2lovenj:
That's what i am hoping for.  Lol i think if we do work things out where we get to see each other i may choke him before i hug the man. 😤

tacobelle914:

--- Quote from: Love2lovenj on March 15, 2019, 02:46:50 PM ---Thank you tacobelle914.   3 weeks isn't long but added to a month of wondering wth is going one because neither one of us wants to be the one to reach out really sucks.   

This man seems to think i should be chasing him and there is no way i will.  I am an open book and he is so afraid to express himself that i need him to show me what he wants with his actions.  At this point if April rolls around and he doesn't give me a sign that he wants to work things out i will just have to right him off.

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I understand that - I was in a situation with a stubborn man, and it was soooo hard not to get a million readings, questioning each one along with my sanity when he wasn't messaging me immediately.

I've gone through fear, uneasiness, and straight up panic. And you know what - when I stopped obsessing and listened to my gut (I felt that he was coming back, in spite of 3 months of silence) he came back.

Yes, I got a few readings in the meantime, but with the 3 readers I have come to trust most... before if someone wasn't online I would come on here to scout out the next best psychic and get triggered if it was something I didn't want to hear lol.

Personally, I believe people are more psychic than they know and can pick up on the energies of someone they are connected to. What I would say is that a time limit is great, but I wouldn't think of it as writing him off. I would think of it more as shifting your attention/focus to yourself and your life.

That way you can really address and process things instead of burying it. And - if he does come back - you can make an honest assessment about him and whether you really want to pursue something with him.

Anyway, that's the way I see things. You can always message me if you'd like to chat about things in depth or just take whatever tidbits are helpful to you/your situation from this message. I'm really rooting for you - I'm sure at the end of the day things will work out just fine, even if it's in a different way than expected.

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