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After the binge and looking over my notes
Jellybean123:
Celestial Tarot was soo wrong and soo off base, she is a complete fraud an her delivery is worthless
Ghukus1010:
Why was the onus on you to reach out to him! If he was sad and missed you so badly, why didn’t he reach out? Just curious. He has two hands just like you do! On another note, kudos on taking back your power and finding answers for yourself
Ghukus1010:
I didn’t realize my question was pressure. It was just that a simple question! To be honest. I don’t care who reaches out first and I clearly commended the poster on getting answers for herself rather than relying on psychics. I just found his response to be curious/enlightening. This is not putting a guy
on a throne. It’s basically trying to decipher human action or inaction I personally wouldn’t put my life on hold waiting 6 months to contact a guy. You chose that predicament. Learn from it and move on!
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Why does everybody put pressure on the guy to reach out?
If a girl misses a guy and doesn’t reach out it’s understandable but if a guy misses someone they should man up and reach out? Men fear rejection, are insecure and depending on what happened, would have reasons to believe the other person wouldn’t want to hear from them.
I waited 6 months for contact from someone that I was scared to contact, when he finally did reach out he had told me he wanted to for awhile but also thought I didn’t want to hear from him.
Don’t put men on a throne that they never asked to be on.
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Ghukus1010:
Wow why you so angry? Or at least thats how your message is coming off to me. It’s not that serious . You don’t have to explain to me. The end result of all of this is that 6 months later you reached out to him sonhe was clearly in your psyche. I’m just saying I wouldn’t do it. To each her own! When a guy hasn’t reached out to you for so long, and he’s not in prison/jail or dead or a deathbed, the chances you two are goin to connect and have a wonderful relationship are slim to none but fairytales do happen. You contact a guy after several months and you don’t think that was feeding his ego and you are here preaching to people about holding off on reaching to a guy. Everyone has their approach and it doesn’t say one is better than the other. Do you and people will offer the opinions on what they would do or not do. It’s all tiring if you ask me. What will happen will happen. If you’re meant to be with a guy, it will happen and if you’re not, hopefully you’ve haven’t spent six months “moving on” and doing exactly what you could have done earlier on. Cringeworthy. I don’t want to continue with the line of conversation, not productive! Cheers.
Ghukus1010:
Exhasuting, invest in an education. It’s not my job to help you understand. Read slowwwwwly or disregard. You are clearly conflating two different points. Just too much. Spend less time on psychics and more time on your personal advancement. Maybe you’re waiting 6 months for that too. And please don’t insult me. I’m not your “homegirl.” Eeek. That’s the most egregious thing you’ve said. Toodles.
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