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The Vent: Calling for 12 Years Finally Stopped
Chelle9054:
--- Quote from: Kkbich2014 on March 08, 2019, 09:06:51 PM ---I'm venting.... I know this is where you post psychic reviews, but for anyone who is struggling to quit calling this post is for you.
I've been calling psychics since I was a junior in college. That was 12 years ago maybe longer I'm not sure. I'm about to count how many men I've called about since then......one sec....24. I just wrote out my list from the last few years, it took sometime. Saying 24 out loud makes me feel ashamed.
I'm not saying that psychics aren't real. I've had enough readings to know that they have gotten details right in various situations. But its been 12 years of self-inflicted suffering and confusion. And I just don't want anyone who's just starting out to end up here. I even had a baby with someone because a psychic on keen told me that there was nothing to fear with this relationship and that I should honor him at his word. She said she had no reservations and saw that he would marry me. So for me when the signs were there that he was cheating to everyone in my life, I couldn't see it because I trusted this woman's word over my parents and my friends. Being tied to him has been one of my biggest regrets. Its brought so much dysfunctionality to my life. Our daughter is almost 6 and it was until the last few months that we've begun to be cordial. He actually was the worst person I had ever called about but got the best outcome from a psychic I had ever had. Go figure.
Fast forward. I'm a single mom, with a baby that I adore. Every last one of those 24 men I was told would be the one, in some form or another. When I heard that, I hung on as tightly as I could. It took until maybe 2 years ago for me to really assess my life. And two years from that point to get to where I am now.
I tried therapy, I tried prescription medication for anxiety and depression, I got plastic surgery thinking that maybe that it was my self esteem that needed a boost and if I fixed the outside, the inside would follow. All of those things helped to some degree,BUT I WAS STILL CALLING, NEW BOOBS AND ALL!
I thought that my relationships would heal me, and make me whole. I let men use my body, treat me badly and take me for granted all for the sake of wanting to be in love and one day married. I have struggled! I tried to save myself... I was at the point of suicide in 2016. I could barely function.
I'm just here to share that nothing I did personally saved me. It wasn't until I turned to God, that my life has slowly begun to turn itself around. I urge any of you who have tried just about everything to stop, to try God. Get into the bible learn the word. It has taught me that NO ONE can tell you your future. No one knows the final outcome except for him. Who knows what spirit these psychics are connecting to? Whatever demonic forces are at play may be there just to keep you further trapped in sadness and heartbreak.
I'm learning to trust Him, I have the bible app and I work through plans that relate to my struggles. No matter where I turn in the Bible I find something that has helped me to move forward everyday. I have met someone nice since I stopped calling. I called about him before and the very same day everything started to go wrong. I don't know if calling messes things up. But this relationship has put a mirror up to toxic behaviors I have developed by being in toxic relationships. I no longer wish to make anyone the center of my universe, outside of God, then my daughter. Trusting Him, and letting go of the readings have changed my life and I pray that entering a relationship with Him does the same for your life.
❤️ this post. Brought tears to my eyes. Thank you
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Natashanyc:
BLESS YOU HUN FOR THIS LEVEL OF SENSE AND EMPOWERMENT!
IF PPL ONLY UNDERSTOOD THE WAY GOD SETS YOUR PATH N BRINGS YOU THRU THEY WOULDNT BE SO SCARED TO LET GO OF THE ADDICTION!...I STARTED IN A BOUT 2007 3 RELATIONSHIPS THAT FAILED AND ALL WERE SIMILAR...IT WAS ONLY WHEN I STEPPED BACK FROM CALLING DID THINGS CHANGE.. MONTHS LATER I CAN LAUGH N BE THANK FUL IM NOT WHO I ONCE WAS AND I GAINED MY POWER BACK. THIS POST IS GREAT N I THANK U FOR SHARING!!! STAY BLESSED AND HAPPY WOMENS DAY TO U AND EVERYONE HERE❤
doubleoh8:
I read your post four or five times and then saved it so I could read it again when I want / need to. It's beautifully written and a great reminder and wake up that having faith, trust and self-respect are the pathways to fulfillment.
Thank you and bless you.
Dreamer23:
Wow thank you so much for sharing. I read this post and it resonated with me so well. Talking to psychics has made me change my opinion of things and not see reality for what it is. That caused me a lot of pain and confusion.
I am so glad that you are no longer talking to psychics and that you are seeing things differently. Your post is very empowering. Thank you so so much for sharing.
You've been through a lot. I admire that you were able to persevere and come out stronger because of it.
Many blessings to you!
sharon:
I've got sad by reading your story. I feel you! I am so happy that you are gaining your power back.
Thank you for sharing your experience with us!
All the best!!
<3
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