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WinterElf:
Ugh :-[ :-[ :'( :(, i cracked and called a psychic today. Even if i was not as emotional about what they said, I was like damn... I gave in.  It was a psychic everyone was raving about so I called her.  I know I should not be calling these people.  I looked around at the people in my life and they are all in relationships because they live in the moment and while it might hurt when they have some relationship issues, they never call psychics.  During my 20 years of calling them, they always say it's not him but the next one. You know how tiring that can be when they say he is not the one but the one after? It wears on you and I really want to kick this addiction.  I make up for the difference by doing Rideshare after my full time job so that it doesn't make a dent in my finances. 

No psychic readings from Tomorrow to April 1st is my deal...  Anyone want to join me?  Before truly getting addicted, I would go cold turkey for 3 months with little to no issue but as I have gotten older, it's gotten worse.  Meditation and watching manifestation videos helped me slow down last week.

1. Even if they give you free minutes, don't call.
2. Before doing the challenge, cut down on the list of people in your queue so afterwards, you wont be so tempted to call when you have several people available on your page.
3. Calculate how much you spent on Psychics and use half of what you spent towards savings and the other half towards clothing or things you enjoy for the upcoming months.
4. Try to avoid looking at the site and when you feel a need to go to a psychic, take a deep breath and know that things wont change after the reading other than your bank account.
5. Tell a friend or someone close to you about the challenge so that you can be accountable. 
6.Think about all the wonderful things you can do with the money you spend on psychics such as going on a trip, getting a new outfit or bag, going out to a meetup or bar etc.

Kat23:
Instead of calling psychics, you could call your POI and offered all dinner expenses paid and you can hear from the horses mouth ..
You could rent a date, a boyfriend and who knows you might enjoy the company and live life...
Don't let the moment pass you by waiting for a ghost...

WinterElf:
lol Who said I didn't have a date ?  ;) ;) 
I do get out though and my last reading was positive.  My issue is that I dont like calling in. I want to stop.

josh34:
Dont beat yourself up for it Winter! We all have weak moments <3 even the strongest of us do. What makes us really strong is accepting that we did whatever we didnt want to do, and realize that it happened, and continuing to stay positive!
You're in my thoughts <3 keep positive:)

WinterElf:
thank you Josh. I appreciate the kind words.   :) :)

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