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Jenjen:
No no back to my fav..
Lo12345:
She was your favorite?
njlady:
--- Quote from: beachgal214 on November 11, 2019, 01:46:30 PM ---I loved her - she would give me random hits. picked up on a womans awful energy.... predicted a tower....
but I cant tell what the deal is bc lately I have been like desperate for her to tell me to stop hanging on... and she tells me she. wishes she could but were destined.
so many other readers tell me to move on. that hes emotionally unavailable... that he likes the casual relationship. that he wants to control the communication so he doesnt get too involved... everyone tells me to move on. that he wont leave his SO. and to have more self respect. Which I do.
But lately - she doesnt give me predictions anymore its more asking what's going on and telling me hes still thinking of me... I dont get much from her anymore.
yet when I try to be like listen just tell me to move on - she says she cant. I dont get it bc so many others do.
I mean do what I want right'? and I am trying to move on. just so hard when you question why people have feelings for one another but dont figure out the relationship navigation to get things in synch.
anway long and short is I liked her a lot but then found less predictions and more hanging on...
--- End quote ---
No one is going to stick up for you but you. It doesn't matter what anyone is telling you ... the facts are this guy is throwing you scraps and you're waiting at the door like a hungry dog. It doesn't matter if he is emotionally available or not. You and he are both treating you badly. If a man really wants a woman he will do whatever it takes to get her. Look at what he is doing. He is not the man for you. Cut him loose.
JAG20:
--- Quote from: njlady on December 03, 2019, 04:33:22 PM ---
--- Quote from: beachgal214 on November 11, 2019, 01:46:30 PM ---I loved her - she would give me random hits. picked up on a womans awful energy.... predicted a tower....
but I cant tell what the deal is bc lately I have been like desperate for her to tell me to stop hanging on... and she tells me she. wishes she could but were destined.
so many other readers tell me to move on. that hes emotionally unavailable... that he likes the casual relationship. that he wants to control the communication so he doesnt get too involved... everyone tells me to move on. that he wont leave his SO. and to have more self respect. Which I do.
But lately - she doesnt give me predictions anymore its more asking what's going on and telling me hes still thinking of me... I dont get much from her anymore.
yet when I try to be like listen just tell me to move on - she says she cant. I dont get it bc so many others do.
I mean do what I want right'? and I am trying to move on. just so hard when you question why people have feelings for one another but dont figure out the relationship navigation to get things in synch.
anway long and short is I liked her a lot but then found less predictions and more hanging on...
--- End quote ---
No one is going to stick up for you but you. It doesn't matter what anyone is telling you ... the facts are this guy is throwing you scraps and you're waiting at the door like a hungry dog. It doesn't matter if he is emotionally available or not. You and he are both treating you badly. If a man really wants a woman he will do whatever it takes to get her. Look at what he is doing. He is not the man for you. Cut him loose.
--- End quote ---
I'm a guy, and I can say from my own experience every guy is different.
Some guys that are emotionally unavailable are back and forth with their girl, and others run and try avoiding tactics to forget her. That's why when a couple splits up, you often see the guy jumping from girl to girl or diving straight in to other relationships, because it's avoiding the truths if you like. I'm not encouraging beachgal214 to cling on to this person as I don't know their situation or story, but guys can act strange and come across like we don't care, when deep down we do.
njlady:
--- Quote from: JAG20 on December 03, 2019, 05:04:16 PM ---
I'm a guy, and I can say from my own experience every guy is different.
Some guys that are emotionally unavailable are back and forth with their girl, and others run and try avoiding tactics to forget her. That's why when a couple splits up, you often see the guy jumping from girl to girl or diving straight in to other relationships, because it's avoiding the truths if you like. I'm not encouraging beachgal214 to cling on to this person as I don't know their situation or story, but guys can act strange and come across like we don't care, when deep down we do.
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"Caring" is an emotional reaction that nearly everyone experiences, but clearly he does not care enough about her to take action. Action is what counts. His actions are not backing up his so called caring. Old saying, actions speak louder than words.
Emotionally unavailable is code for "I don’t have enough emotion for you to be available to you. If he cared enough, he would get his shit together. Love is a powerful motivator.
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