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Dreamer23:
I hear this a lot from psychics: POI is too busy with work to want a relationship. Or finances are a problem. Or "home life" (whatever that means) is not good.

I have a hard time believing that someone will deliberately not want a relationship because of work commitments.

Sometimes I know that happens, especially if a relationship is becoming more serious and maybe someone is not where they want to be financially. So that makes sense.

But I hear this way too often and it makes me feel like it's a cold read line...

Dreamer23:

--- Quote from: ladya on January 30, 2019, 03:23:49 AM ---
--- Quote from: Dreamer23 on January 30, 2019, 02:58:11 AM ---I hear this a lot from psychics: POI is too busy with work to want a relationship. Or finances are a problem. Or "home life" (whatever that means) is not good.

I have a hard time believing that someone will deliberately not want a relationship because of work commitments.

Sometimes I know that happens, especially if a relationship is becoming more serious and maybe someone is not where they want to be financially. So that makes sense.

But I hear this way too often and it makes me feel like it's a cold read line...

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It can be a cold line depends on the context. but it also depends on the type of man your POI is lol. Does he work a lot or no? I mean you know him better than the reader. Wanting to be financially secure before providing something is an issue with a lot of guys, well people in general lol but mostly men cause they feel they need to be the provider. If he's more traditional, then that will be def the case. That line wouldn't be applicable to every guy I've been with but applicable to "my usual type" because i like ambitious, career-focused men.

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That makes sense. That's why I sort of believe it but I have known him for over 7 years so for this to apply for so long, it's kind of strange.

Dreamer23:

--- Quote from: Still tired on January 30, 2019, 03:39:38 AM ---I got this line when my ex was already on disability and planning to never work again.

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Hah! Incredible...those cold reads, they always confuse me.

ladya:
Also I want to add. If they say something about family or whatever else, a legit psychic should be able to pinpoint what and who. Like if they say something about home or family. Ok well what and who is it involving. They have to give you something. That’s like when they say I see some kind of loss. Loss of what??? I lose my socks all the time in the washing machine;D

Dreamer23:

--- Quote from: ladya on January 30, 2019, 03:47:40 AM ---Also I want to add. If they say something about family or whatever else, a legit psychic should be able to pinpoint what and who. Like if they say something about home or family. Ok well what and who is it involving. They have to give you something. That’s like when they say I see some kind of loss. Loss of what??? I lose my socks all the time in the washing machine;D

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I agree, it needs to be specific. I did have someone say something about POI's father's health issues. But I can't confirm that really. It's not like his father is in the hospital or anything like that.

The most confusing phrase to me is: home life. What does that mean? If the person lives alone and parents are in another state, what does home life mean?

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