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More and More peoples have move on from psychics reading
josh34:
That's not me. But you're free to believe what you'd like so long as you don't address me as somebody else, please. Thank you.
josh34:
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--- Quote from: josh34 on January 26, 2019, 04:28:56 PM ---That's not me. But you're free to believe what you'd like so long as you don't address me as somebody else, please. Thank you.
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Lol, same as you believe whatever you want about me and address me as "negative" or whatever other labels and projections you put on me. Not hypocritical at all to ask others for respect and preach about kindness when you don't offer it in return.
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ok
ladya:
--- Quote from: sawthelight on January 26, 2019, 02:38:03 PM ---I love writing reviews for all kinds of things, restaurants, stores, clothes, cosmetics....it’s always helpful to hear others opinions.
As far as readings, we are all entitled to believe what we like. I just don’t like when people share unhealthy patterns and relationships and are being told to hang on...he might come back and realize what he lost..that’s just not good advice imo.
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I get what youre saying but tbh the older I get the more I realize we're all just trying our best. Some people do deserve second chances. Relationships are not a one size fits all. Some people may hurt you but still love you. Some people may push you away because they care and that's the only way they know how to do it at the time. The more I learn about people, the more forgiving I become to them. I'm not saying to tolerate abuse or any of that sort but love is love. It's a lot easier to judge someone else's relationship than our own because we're not directly emotionally invested. We always know deep down if a person cares about us or loves us no matter what they're doing in the physical. I don't believe you should stop your own life for anyone but if two people love each other who is anyone else to tell them what to do no matter what it looks like on the surface to us. Noone knows what goes on between 2 people except those 2 people. I would never regret following my heart, EVER. Because in that moment, it felt right. What I would regret is taking the advice of others who will not in any way have to deal with the outcome of what happens in my relationship after the fact. People will give advice and move on with their lives but If i take that advice and go against my heart, only I will be left to deal with it. It takes 2 people to make a relationship work and it takes 2 people to make the relationship fall apart. It's never just him and it's never just her.
LAW1974:
--- Quote from: Still tired on January 26, 2019, 07:14:55 PM ---If 2 people love each other, that is one thing, but it can be very painful to hang on to someone who isn't emotionally available, or not ready to be with you, or whatever the case may be that someone is getting readings about. And by trying to keep that connection alive it never gets a chance to grow and move beyond whatever is holding it back. It sounds like such a cliche but it's true, if you love someone set them free, and if it is meant to be you will find each other again. Getting readings does not help, it holds things in place.
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Truth but this has NOTHING to do with psychics it’s about how balanced and secure you are as a human to begin with. Most of my friends do not call psychics and they are a mess when they go thru divorce and break ups. Alcohol and other abuse....
josh34:
--- Quote from: LAW1974 on January 26, 2019, 07:54:46 PM ---
--- Quote from: Still tired on January 26, 2019, 07:14:55 PM ---If 2 people love each other, that is one thing, but it can be very painful to hang on to someone who isn't emotionally available, or not ready to be with you, or whatever the case may be that someone is getting readings about. And by trying to keep that connection alive it never gets a chance to grow and move beyond whatever is holding it back. It sounds like such a cliche but it's true, if you love someone set them free, and if it is meant to be you will find each other again. Getting readings does not help, it holds things in place.
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Truth but this has NOTHING to do with psychics it’s about how balanced and secure you are as a human to begin with. Most of my friends do not call psychics and they are a mess when they go thru divorce and break ups. Alcohol and other abuse....
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This. And psychics CAN definitely help. If you've got the money, it's okay to get readings. Are you desperate for a reading? If you've got the money, by all means go for it. It's not bad in such a situation. You're thinking with a black and white train of thought, saying that they're desperate, so it's automatically bad to get readings in that state. This isn't true. You're going from A to W, withholding many variables. There are times when I would've let go, but I held onto predictions, stayed neutral, and things happened as predicted. Had I let go, I probably would have blocked the person, and not had another chance with them. ST, you're looking at it from such a negative and biased-toward-negative view, and your perception of it is highly wrong, and far too overly negative. I would hope you would hope you would stop being so pessimistic about things because it's not doing you any favors, and it's certainly pushing negativity and bad feeling onto members here. Negativity helps nothing. Sure, it could come from a place of trying to protect your heart, but in the long run it's detrimental to your health and affects those around you. It's not healthy for you or for us.
LAW, I agree with you. Keeping being a light in this dark world <3
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