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More and More peoples have move on from psychics reading
sawthelight:
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--- Quote from: josh34 on January 26, 2019, 02:24:05 AM ---Well, it's only really destructive if
A) the psychic you go to is a fraud (which is the harder of the two to deal with)
B) They're in debt, and are already struggling financially.
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That's a very black and white view. Getting readings is a slippery slope where many different things can go wrong. Many readers are not frauds, they have real abilities, and they get enough things right so the client begins to trust them. But things can go wrong at any time, they may stop connecting, or they may get things right short term but totally miss the ultimate outcome. Financially, you could be in good shape and not spending more than you can afford. But then something else could happen that sets you back financially, and then all that money you spent on readings, probably should have been put in savings instead.
The point is that llife is unpredictable, and getting readings does not change that. It does not prepare you for what will happen, the way you think it will. Many people have come back here and shared stories of being horribly blindsided by something because readings did not give them the truth. I was fortunate not to have had that happen, my predictions simply didn't pan out. But as I have said before...even if every single prediction had come to pass, it still would have been a waste of money.
--- Quote ---Hell I'd go so far as to even say it's okay to get many reading if you're addicted, and have the funds. Getting a reading out of desperation is fine, provided you've got the funds. It helps calm and soothe the heart. Or if you get bad news, and it's a trusted (and real) reader, then you've got what's really going on, and can move forward with your life.
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Hmm. Well I'm not here to put parameters on when it is okay to get readings, like you are doing. What people want to do or choose to do is up to them. I share my experience and my perspective, and others can take it or leave it. If you think it is "not fair" for me to do that then maybe you're giving too much power to what I have to say.
Aaaaand...here we go:
--- Quote ---I think it's wrong to assume that 'most psychics are wrong', when certain readers have proven themselves time and time again, and while they can certainly be wrong, why be pessimistic about this? It just creates fear, anxiety and worry in those who are awaiting predictions (that could very well come true). I think it's not only very unhealthy, but also quite mean to push negativity or pessimism on someone with hope. While you (not you in particular, I mean 'you' as in the person in this situation) may see it as being helpful, it can be the "break it", in the "make it or break it", to somebody who's predictions would otherwise actually had happened.
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So um, what you're saying is, you think that being honest about a bad experience with readings could stop someone else's predictions from happening?
That is about five too many levels of insane for me to try to reason with. Not wasting my time. Life will definitely teach you a good lesson on that one sooner or later. Probably sooner.
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I agree tired. Don’t even bother trying to rationalize or talk common sense into him. He acts like he’s so helpful and caring, while in actuality it’s probably just deep denial and he doesn’t like hearing any other points of view. Actually encouraging another poster in a different thread to hang on and wait for her predictions with a man who just told her he was interested in someone else.
It’s incredibly sad.
sawthelight:
--- Quote from: Still tired on January 26, 2019, 10:46:05 AM ---
--- Quote from: sawthelight on January 26, 2019, 10:22:37 AM ---I agree tired. Don’t even bother trying to rationalize or talk common sense into him. He acts like he’s so helpful and caring, while in actuality it’s probably just deep denial and he doesn’t like hearing any other points of view. Actually encouraging another poster in a different thread to hang on and wait for her predictions with a man who just told her he was interested in someone else.
It’s incredibly sad.
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Wow, I didn't even see where he did that. Really dangerous and irrational behavior. It's just fake to say these supposedly "positive" things but lace it with insults, projection, and emotionally abusive comments. Fortunately it rolls right off of me, but I feel bad for anyone else he targets with this nonsense.
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I know. I can see right through that stuff.
I’m still convinced the third one is him. He got banned from sps. Also this thread sounds just like him
http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum11/HTML/024291.html
Notice how he argues with everyone who tells him negative news.
LAW1974:
--- Quote from: Miss Philosopher on January 26, 2019, 03:44:40 AM ---Just wanted to chime in, even though I shouldn't lol. As others have mentioned, I feel the creator of this post feels very let down because none of her readings manifested. I could definitely understand the jaded outlook there.
Some food for though though @psychicgirl, is that perhaps it is your negativity that is creating a very negative vibe and you are actually unintentionally pushing people away from you. The POI's or the ex's or whoever it is you have called about. Your energy honestly feels very bitter and that is an energy that people will run from. Maybe the man/men you have called about can feel that energy emanating from your being even from a distance when there isn't any or hasn't been any contact for long periods of time. This is usually why ex's or poi's end up reappearing........once a person has moved on and doesn't carry that same energy with them or has made a choice to just release it.
Positivity is a very alluring and attractive energy to carry. That is when people start coming toward you, whether it be new or old. Maybe you should think about perhaps working on releasing your bitterness and transforming it into strength and positivity. Uplifting others really helps with that. Self love helps with that. Positive affirmations help, uplifting music, a good diet, pampering yourself etc. Ask for help releasing the negative emotions and thoughts you have and you will receive it. And then, you will attract better things to yourself and even your readings may change around and start to manifest should you choose to receive any further readings.
I wish you the best of luck and hope that you're able to find peace and release your pain. Sending you love and healing <3
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ANNNND.... mic drop, exit left! perfectly written....
LAW1974:
Furthermore - what @josh34 and @ladya says regarding many successful people using readers/psychics is true! The problem is people who go on binges and call 5 psychics a day regarding the SAME topic and obsess about it! If you can control it and use the Yona's and Kishas and call a few times a year... that keeps vibrations up! Many. Many readers will even tell you that if you get too many readings (especially on the same subject) that they wont manifest... I very much believe in LOA and manifesting on my own, I also believe each time I call it lowers my vibration a bit....
psychic girls:
To the peoples who said there many great story of other poi coming back from psychics reading where did you get your sources from?
All I get from here is that these psychics were wrong on the big outcome for them and their poi didn't come back. And on Keen all I see on is thanks you put me at ease. And you never heard from them again if these peoples poi did come back don't you think they would come back and said thanks my poi came back? but you rarely see those reviews on keen too.
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