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josh34:

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--- Quote from: josh34 on January 26, 2019, 02:24:05 AM ---Well, it's only really destructive if
A) the psychic you go to is a fraud (which is the harder of the two to deal with)
B) They're in debt, and are already struggling financially.
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That's a very black and white view. Getting readings is a slippery slope where many different things can go wrong. Many readers are not frauds, they have real abilities, and they get enough things right so the client begins to trust them. But things can go wrong at any time, they may stop connecting, or they may get things right short term but totally miss the ultimate outcome. Financially, you could be in good shape and not spending more than you can afford. But then something else could happen that sets you back financially, and then all that money you spent on readings, probably should have been put in savings instead.

The point is that llife is unpredictable, and getting readings does not change that. It does not prepare you for what will happen, the way you think it will. Many people have come back here and shared stories of being horribly blindsided by something because readings did not give them the truth. I was fortunate not to have had that happen, my predictions simply didn't pan out. But as I have said before...even if every single prediction had come to pass, it still would have been a waste of money.


--- Quote ---Hell I'd go so far as to even say it's okay to get many reading if you're addicted, and have the funds. Getting a reading out of desperation is fine, provided you've got the funds. It helps calm and soothe the heart. Or if you get bad news, and it's a trusted (and real) reader, then you've got what's really going on, and can move forward with your life.
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Hmm. Well I'm not here to put parameters on when it is okay to get readings, like you are doing. What people want to do or choose to do is up to them. I share my experience and my perspective, and others can take it or leave it. If you think it is "not fair" for me to do that then maybe you're giving too much power to what I have to say.

Aaaaand...here we go:


--- Quote ---I think it's wrong to assume that 'most psychics are wrong', when certain readers have proven themselves time and time again, and while they can certainly be wrong, why be pessimistic about this? It just creates fear, anxiety and worry in those who are awaiting predictions (that could very well come true). I think it's not only very unhealthy, but also quite mean to push negativity or pessimism on someone with hope. While you (not you in particular, I mean 'you' as in the person in this situation) may see it as being helpful, it can be the "break it", in the "make it or break it", to somebody who's predictions would otherwise actually had happened.
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So um, what you're saying is, you think that being honest about a bad experience with readings could stop someone else's predictions from happening?

That is about five too many levels of insane for me to try to reason with. Not wasting my time. Life will definitely teach you a good lesson on that one sooner or later. Probably sooner.

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Nah, I just think you're really negative, and kind of cynical. And you should try not to be. Try to have a more optimistic outlook on things. Not only will it stop your negativity from affecting others, and bringing them down, but you'll feel better too. You're clearly a very cynical and pessimistic, sad, and angry individual, and you show it often. I mean just look at your reply. It is so filled with hatred, and out of nowhere, too. You're trying to spin every little thing that's said into something negative. I feel sorry for you. But there's good news, you can change. You can be better. You can be kinder, and not so filled with hatred, anger, and self-loathing. Are you going to continue wallowing in your pity party or are you going to grow from it, and pull out of that place of sadness, and hating yourself, and stop pushing your negativity onto others? Because you ARE a very negative and cynical person. And you're showing it, and it's affecting others. You're certainly not somebody people would want to be associated with, if you act like this with anybody else. I think you should take a look at how you're acting, instead of throwing about insults toward others who are just stating their point of views, trying to live a happy life. I think you're far more 'insane' than I am. It's sad, really. But I digress. You can choose to be a better YOU, or you can continue to be the obnoxious self-loathing, sad, angry little person who you currently are.

So are you up for the challenge? To be better? To FEEL better? And stop being so negative and spiteful?


Because I believe in you! You can do it! YEAH!

ladya:

--- Quote from: josh34 on January 26, 2019, 03:47:11 AM ---
--- Quote from: Miss Philosopher on January 26, 2019, 03:44:40 AM ---Just wanted to chime in, even though I shouldn't lol. As others have mentioned, I feel the creator of this post feels very let down because none of her readings manifested. I could definitely understand the jaded outlook there.

Some food for though though @psychicgirl, is that perhaps it is your negativity that is creating a very negative vibe and you are actually unintentionally pushing people away from you. The POI's or the ex's or whoever it is you have called about. Your energy honestly feels very bitter and that is an energy that people will run from. Maybe the man/men you have called about can feel that energy emanating from your being even from a distance when there isn't any or hasn't been any contact for long periods of time. This is usually why ex's or poi's end up reappearing........once a person has moved on and doesn't carry that same energy with them or has made a choice to just release it.

Positivity is a very alluring and attractive energy to carry. That is when people start coming toward you, whether it be new or old. Maybe you should think about perhaps working on releasing your bitterness and transforming it into strength and positivity. Uplifting others really helps with that. Self love helps with that. Positive affirmations help, uplifting music, a good diet, pampering yourself etc. Ask for help releasing the negative emotions and thoughts you have and you will receive it. And then, you will attract better things to yourself and even your readings may change around and start to manifest should you choose to receive any further readings.

I wish you the best of luck and hope that you're able to find peace and release your pain. Sending you love and healing <3

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Ahh!!! I love this so much!!!!!!:)

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I second this!!! So true. Couldn’t have said it better myself.

Miss Philosopher:
Thanks guys. I just feel this poster's pain. It's really saddening. I really do hope she finds a way to heal. I was stuck in a really bad cycle of negativity for almost an entire year. My thoughts were bitter and angry, my heart was so broken etc. It was a very hard time. So I get how this person is most likely feeling. But then, I made a willful choice that I was sick and tired of feeling that way, even though it took me almost a year to get to that point (everyone moves at their own pace in life). But the moment I decided to change all that around........after about a month..........I just felt completely different and like a thousand pounds was lifted. That's what it feels like to release all that negativity. It's such a heavy load to carry. Love to all you beautiful souls <3

josh34:

--- Quote from: Still tired on January 26, 2019, 04:07:12 AM ---
--- Quote from: ladya on January 26, 2019, 02:13:24 AM --- Alcohol can be destructive too does that mean drinking is wrong? To one person, a drink is enough, another it can cost them their life. Same with drugs. Same with gambling. Its not about the psychic readings its about how an individual uses them. One person can have a drink every night and be fine and another becomes an alcoholic. Eating can be destructive too. Should we just not eat then. Its the addiction behind the doing not the actual thing.

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Alcohol opens you up to demonic energies. My body has an intolerance to alcohol. I did a fair amount of drinking before I realized that,  and it damaged my gut. Since then I have changed a lot and I don't like to be around people who drink. It has little to do with whether or not someone is an "alcoholic" in the conventional sense of the word. I dislike the way people act when they are drinking, and I find the odor very distasteful, and the energy of it just feels bad to me. And I think people who drink any amount tend to have problems coping with reality, just like people who get readings, but worse they often use alcohol as an excuse to do things they wouldn't get away with sober. So yes, for me it is bad. Not so much a question of "wrong" because I don't look at it that way. I just don't see much value in consuming alcohol, other than maybe just rare and minimal medicinal purposes.

As with readings, if people want to drink and feel good in themselves about doing it, I don't see why my opinion should bother them. But I think people get into a lot of this "right or wrong" kind of thing when they are not really happy with themselves for doing something.

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Just pointing out that this user called me "insane", when I was stating an optimistic point of view *cough*lookattheboldedsentence*cough*. Anyway, I'm out of this thread. I don't need that kind of negativity in my life. You're not worthy of my time nor energy. And sure as hell not deserving of my time nor my energy. You don't deserve that. Anyway, she's far too negative and sad. I hope you learn to be better so that you can feel better soon, ST.

psychic girls:
Don’t put your guys belief into me. I don’t believe in any of those stuffed. Timed and timed again peoples have put psychics ability to the test on live television and they always have failed.

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