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More and More peoples have move on from psychics reading
sawthelight:
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--- Quote from: Still tired on January 25, 2019, 03:09:58 PM ---Regardless of what the outcome is for any situation you get readings about, it is a waste of money. Getting readings doesn't change anything. It is just like gambling, except you don't even have the chance to win some of that money back. You just pay to hear someone else tell you about your life, and you can never be sure how much of it is accurate. It generates a constant undercurrent of insecurity and doubt that will keep you wanting more readings to settle those doubts, and finding all sorts of nonsensical reasons to justify why yo continue to do it. No one likes to hear any of this, but it's the truth and you can read it all over this forum.
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Agree it’s definitely akin to gambling or shopping addiction except the “reward” isn’t money or things - it’s something intangible that is worse I think because whether they’re wrong or right it still messes with your head in so many ways.
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Exactly. at least with shopping, you have something to show for your money. Lots of times with readings, all you have is false hope and it really does mess with your head. I found myself saying, how did hundreds of psychics all get it so wrong.
Kind of killed my spirit for a while. I only now (and I still struggle) am starting to recover....
flora0250:
--- Quote from: sawthelight on January 25, 2019, 03:32:27 PM ---
--- Quote from: flora0250 on January 25, 2019, 03:18:15 PM ---
--- Quote from: Still tired on January 25, 2019, 03:09:58 PM ---Regardless of what the outcome is for any situation you get readings about, it is a waste of money. Getting readings doesn't change anything. It is just like gambling, except you don't even have the chance to win some of that money back. You just pay to hear someone else tell you about your life, and you can never be sure how much of it is accurate. It generates a constant undercurrent of insecurity and doubt that will keep you wanting more readings to settle those doubts, and finding all sorts of nonsensical reasons to justify why yo continue to do it. No one likes to hear any of this, but it's the truth and you can read it all over this forum.
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Agree it’s definitely akin to gambling or shopping addiction except the “reward” isn’t money or things - it’s something intangible that is worse I think because whether they’re wrong or right it still messes with your head in so many ways.
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Exactly. at least with shopping, you have something to show for your money. Lots of times with readings, all you have is false hope and it really does mess with your head. I found myself saying, how did hundreds of psychics all get it so wrong.
Kind of killed my spirit for a while. I only now (and I still struggle) am starting to recover....
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I’m still not doing great but slowing down. Still struggling with how so many things have been right or actually happened and then predictions have not ... yet. So as you can see I’m still struggling. But I know it’s not how I should be spending money at all. I know it comes down to anxiety and impulse control. It’s not even heartbreak or denial of heartbreak for me personally. It’s a bigger picture thing than that I think.
Kat23:
--- Quote from: sawthelight on January 25, 2019, 03:17:04 PM ---I agree 100%. It's a total waste of money...it's cool if you enjoy it and everything, but the majority put way too much hope and emotions into readings only to be devastated when it doesn't happen...I know, I was one of them..twice! lol..not funny but it is.
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I agree... psychic readings do messed up with your head..it makes you wait for the prediction to come to pass which is usually 2 to 6 months away. While your life is on hold, waiting for the unknown, he has move on.. it also messed up your relationship with your POI...you tend to believe your reader more than him or your own intuition..
Most psychic site, they indicate "for entertainment only"... be wise..don't put too much hope, emotions on the readings and most importantly, dont put your life on hold..
sawthelight:
--- Quote from: Kat23 on January 25, 2019, 03:42:57 PM ---
--- Quote from: sawthelight on January 25, 2019, 03:17:04 PM ---I agree 100%. It's a total waste of money...it's cool if you enjoy it and everything, but the majority put way too much hope and emotions into readings only to be devastated when it doesn't happen...I know, I was one of them..twice! lol..not funny but it is.
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I agree... psychic readings do messed up with your head..it makes you wait for the prediction to come to pass which is usually 2 to 6 months away. While your life is on hold, waiting for the unknown, he has move on.. it also messed up your relationship with your POI...you tend to believe your reader more than him or your own intuition..
Most psychic site, they indicate "for entertainment only"... be wise..don't put too much hope, emotions on the readings and most importantly, dont put your life on hold..
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That's the scary part..so many POIs have moved on, dating others, living a whole other life while people calling psychics are waiting around. There was that one woman on Keen that I posted about a while back that put in her FB that she has been waiting over ten years for this married man to leave his wife..and these readers are still egging her on! It's disgusting. Can almost guarantee that man isn't going anywhere. And she still believes these readers..it's incredibly sad and depressing.
psychic girls:
--- Quote from: sawthelight on January 25, 2019, 03:46:36 PM ---
--- Quote from: Kat23 on January 25, 2019, 03:42:57 PM ---
--- Quote from: sawthelight on January 25, 2019, 03:17:04 PM ---I agree 100%. It's a total waste of money...it's cool if you enjoy it and everything, but the majority put way too much hope and emotions into readings only to be devastated when it doesn't happen...I know, I was one of them..twice! lol..not funny but it is.
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I agree... psychic readings do messed up with your head..it makes you wait for the prediction to come to pass which is usually 2 to 6 months away. While your life is on hold, waiting for the unknown, he has move on.. it also messed up your relationship with your POI...you tend to believe your reader more than him or your own intuition..
Most psychic site, they indicate "for entertainment only"... be wise..don't put too much hope, emotions on the readings and most importantly, dont put your life on hold..
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That's the scary part..so many POIs have moved on, dating others, living a whole other life while people calling psychics are waiting around. There was that one woman on Keen that I posted about a while back that put in her FB that she has been waiting over ten years for this married man to leave his wife..and these readers are still egging her on! It's disgusting. Can almost guarantee that man isn't going anywhere. And she still believes these readers..it's incredibly sad and depressing.
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That very common it all over there reviews.
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