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HornetKick:
--- Quote from: helloagain on February 04, 2019, 01:28:10 PM ---Why not unblock him to see what happens?
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Because then she'd be reacting to what a reader said instead of letting it play out organically, no?
Seeker23:
You are talking about a man that still has a video up on YouTube of him and his ex wife back in 2013. She was still married to another man and had two kids..
You would think man that moved on with his life,when dating other people, would take stuff like that down. He did not take it down proclaiming wanting to live with me, a baby, or "I love you."
That thing stayed and continues to stay up.
I did not find out about this video till after wards. Literally jilted by it and the date.
I have been through a lot of torment because of these people and I hate to say it. Endless crying. He has put me through hell.
There is vitrol within me for this that may make me want just to play with him and play him if he contacted and break the hall out of any heart this guy has.
I can only assume what other women have been victimized over the years with this.
I wish the psychics somewhere would see this.
It is February 5th and nothing.
Love2lovenj:
I agree. Unblock him to see. For all you know he may have tried to reach you but he's blocked.
icloud9:
--- Quote from: Silverlightnmoom on February 10, 2019, 02:40:51 PM ---
--- Quote from: Seeker23 on February 05, 2019, 11:03:41 PM ---You are talking about a man that still has a video up on YouTube of him and his ex wife back in 2013. She was still married to another man and had two kids..
You would think man that moved on with his life,when dating other people, would take stuff like that down. He did not take it down proclaiming wanting to live with me, a baby, or "I love you."
That thing stayed and continues to stay up.
I did not find out about this video till after wards. Literally jilted by it and the date.
I have been through a lot of torment because of these people and I hate to say it. Endless crying. He has put me through hell.
There is vitrol within me for this that may make me want just to play with him and play him if he contacted and break the hall out of any heart this guy has.
I can only assume what other women have been victimized over the years with this.
I wish the psychics somewhere would see this.
It is February 5th and nothing.
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Was the video something you talked to him about and how it made you feel and he still refused to take it down? Just from that example, because obviously I have no idea what kind of hell this man put you through, I know a lot of people have “things” from their past relationships but hold no emotional attachments to it. It would be one thing if he kept watching the video and crying every night - but i have friends in wonderful marriages who may have a few pictures of their ex’s on their social media profile. My current boyfriend has a pic of him and his ex-fiancé on his Facebook from 2014 and it doesn’t bother me because i know he holds no attachments and has probably even forgotten its up there. So what I’m getting at is if you spoke to him about that video and he dismisses your wants/needs then yes, he has some issues. If not, why don’t you unblock him and give him another chance?
If he his like my first boyfriend, who is now married to another woman but still has pictures of us on his Facebook but put them on a private setting so only him and I can see it, THAT is shady!
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I agree. I still have pictures on FB with my ex fiancé especially from all of our trips abroad … I have no attachments to him as a lover but we are friends so it’s whatever to me. ( Although I untagged & removed myself from pictures of us kissing and lovey dovey lol)
Some people really don’t care about their old posts on social media. don’t even care to remove it because it’s just a memory.
ladya:
--- Quote from: icloud9 on February 10, 2019, 06:09:01 PM ---
--- Quote from: Silverlightnmoom on February 10, 2019, 02:40:51 PM ---
--- Quote from: Seeker23 on February 05, 2019, 11:03:41 PM ---You are talking about a man that still has a video up on YouTube of him and his ex wife back in 2013. She was still married to another man and had two kids..
You would think man that moved on with his life,when dating other people, would take stuff like that down. He did not take it down proclaiming wanting to live with me, a baby, or "I love you."
That thing stayed and continues to stay up.
I did not find out about this video till after wards. Literally jilted by it and the date.
I have been through a lot of torment because of these people and I hate to say it. Endless crying. He has put me through hell.
There is vitrol within me for this that may make me want just to play with him and play him if he contacted and break the hall out of any heart this guy has.
I can only assume what other women have been victimized over the years with this.
I wish the psychics somewhere would see this.
It is February 5th and nothing.
--- End quote ---
Was the video something you talked to him about and how it made you feel and he still refused to take it down? Just from that example, because obviously I have no idea what kind of hell this man put you through, I know a lot of people have “things” from their past relationships but hold no emotional attachments to it. It would be one thing if he kept watching the video and crying every night - but i have friends in wonderful marriages who may have a few pictures of their ex’s on their social media profile. My current boyfriend has a pic of him and his ex-fiancé on his Facebook from 2014 and it doesn’t bother me because i know he holds no attachments and has probably even forgotten its up there. So what I’m getting at is if you spoke to him about that video and he dismisses your wants/needs then yes, he has some issues. If not, why don’t you unblock him and give him another chance?
If he his like my first boyfriend, who is now married to another woman but still has pictures of us on his Facebook but put them on a private setting so only him and I can see it, THAT is shady!
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I agree. I still have pictures on FB with my ex fiancé especially from all of our trips abroad … I have no attachments to him as a lover but we are friends so it’s whatever to me. ( Although I untagged & removed myself from pictures of us kissing and lovey dovey lol)
Some people really don’t care about their old posts on social media. don’t even care to remove it because it’s just a memory.
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agreed. that's how i am as well. it was part of my life at one point in time but i still have pictures up of people i have no attachments to nor care to have them.
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