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Dreamer23:
--- Quote from: Seeker23 on February 17, 2019, 04:05:13 AM ---He did have me unblocked for god knows for whatever reason these last two days. I stupidly reached out to him. He called me a couple of names, then said stop calling then asked "are you there". I did not respond to him.
I literally did not even say hi. He just started to call me a name. I was quiet the whole time and did not say a thing. It was so weird and I wondered if he was drinking.
It is like he unblocked me just to call me names and play a game.
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Yikes...he seems verbally abusive :(
Seeker23:
It is all because of her. They are names she calls me.
Basically from what I was told by a friend, "I told you that ex was being influenced by his ex and you were the angel in his life and your love for him saved him but his ex psycho has an control over him because she is an master manipulator ,,even though she doesnt love him anymore she doesnt want anyone else to have him,,this is the way she punishews him and unfortunately you are caught up in the negaivity from them so you need to cut the cord so that you dont get sick.
he takes it out on you and its not right and you need to stay away from this form of abuse, it is not you, its her ,his ex."
Fidget1028:
Ok, I just had to jump online to say this. And please, take it with the love and concern I am sending it with.
It is not all because of her. IT IS BECAUSE OF HIM!! Men don't abuse verbally, physically, emotionally because an ex is holding a gun to their head and making them do it. He is a grown ass man who can make decisions for himself and you need to start putting the ownership where it belongs. On him! I'm sorry if this is harsh. Lord knows I had to let that whole idea sink into my thick skull a lot. Their actions are not the results of anyone else making them do it. Are some exes psychos? Sure. Can they meddle and cause a boatload of bullshit? Of course. But don't give him a free pass because of a bitter, nasty ex. He makes the decisions he makes. He needs to own it. And you need to hold him accountable for his own actions.
I hope you can find peace with it. I've thought heavily on it in my own situation. No relationship will ever work without personal accountability...ours and theirs. We all need to just stop making excuses.
Seeker23:
Pretty much, he does not regard what he is doing as being verbal abuse. You want to retaliate by all means and it surely provokes emotions out of a person.
Believe me, I have taken a load of bad advice in this and I swear I wish people would start giving me more sound advice. I am at the edge of shutting closing down one account for psychics. I have done it before, but maybe I need to find the strength to do it again.
Flyingsoul:
--- Quote from: Seeker23 on February 18, 2019, 05:42:32 AM ---Pretty much, he does not regard what he is doing as being verbal abuse. You want to retaliate by all means and it surely provokes emotions out of a person.
Believe me, I have taken a load of bad advice in this and I swear I wish people would start giving me more sound advice. I am at the edge of shutting closing down one account for psychics. I have done it before, but maybe I need to find the strength to do it again.
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To live as a better soul is the best revenge lol. You don't need need this, don't let others take you down! Believe in yourself, sending you lots of strength and love :)
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