Metaphysical, Spiritual and Psychic Discussions > Psychic Readings That Came True

A few predictions that panned out with London

<< < (2/4) > >>

melancholia:
Generally speaking, if you're still calling psychics about that same issue repeatedly, like more than once every, say, two months, or if you're obsessing over it at night, or you're around that person and you're wondering why they aren't just DOING something already - you're putting too much energy into it.  It's basically a situation where you take the reading, file it away in the back of your mind, and then just go with the flow.  Ignore the setbacks and don't focus on them too much, because I've found that psychics will not pick up every last setback out there - interpersonal relationships are complicated and involve more people than we're even aware of, things go on in the other person's life that are not directly connected to us and it impacts their decision-making at any given time.  No psychic can prepare for every eventuality because of free will; not just ours or our significant others', but those around us and our significant others as well.  However, if we're able to pull it back and take a deep breath when something does go awry, it will (usually) work itself out.  If we obsess over it and feed our energy into it, it worsens things by far.

That's not to say that a psychic can't be completely and utterly wrong, but if you don't allow yourself to stress over things when they start going south you have a better chance of salvaging the situation or, at the very least, maintaining your mental health.

I guess really it all just boils down to relaxing and letting things happen in their own time, and the best way to do that?  Request that they NOT give you a timeline, no matter how tempting it is.  Ask for ultimate outcomes, ask if things will be improving in the near or far future, ask HOW things will develop so you know what signs to look for if you must, but ask that they not give you specific dates because all you'll do is stress when the deadlines pass.  You can't put deadlines on interpersonal relationships.  Emotions don't work that way. Love doesn't work that way. The only things that come out of a deadline are fear and the frustration that comes with it.  Don't fall into that trap.

violet:
I see it like this.  Any reading is going to be 50/50 accurate.  Either things are going to work out the way we want them to or they're not.  The main thing that bothers me are the readers that you feel comfortable with and like and when things don't happen the way they predicted all along they change their tune and blame free will or tell you you're better off with someone else, etc.  I don't have a problem with a reader giving me bad news in the initial reading but don't play games and string someone along and when you realize it's not happening change the outcome.  I have no tolerance for that anymore.

LiveLaughLove:
Exactly!!!!!!!! Agree 100%!

kindred:
It is very difficult to not focus on a timeframe when one is offered.

Violet, I agree that I would prefer to have bad news upfront rather than be strung along and then the reader changes everything once I tell them things are not going positively as they saw. I respect and appreciate the honesty and it helps the caller to move on quicker.

I think the best readers should not take continuous calls about the same situation because there is no new information that they can provide if nothing has changed. They are basically an ear to vent to but on the callers dime. Based on feedback I have read, so many callers like the psychic they are calling and consider them to be a friend (even to the point of defending negative feedback from others when clearly not everyone has the same connection with a reader). But the problem is psychics are not friends, they are making money off of these calls. I see people write how nice, caring, sweet, patient etc. a reader is but realistically, who is not going to be nice to you and put up with your same exact questions over and over again when they want your money? A friend would be concerned about a caller's finances and encourage them to keep the calling to a minimum, if at all.

For example on Keen, Northstarjulie was a good reader for me, accurate, honest, and pleasant but I clicked on a different page to read more feedback (I am a feedback junkie, love confirmation stories hehe) she had up and there was a person who literally called everyday or every other day and the fact that she allowed and continues to allow that to go on for so long put me off of her. No wonder she could afford to not take new callers for so long! The same with VisionsByVicky, she has the same few callers that call everyday leaving feedback saying how they can't live without her, she is their saint, even with a few saying the predictions haven't happened but they have so much faith because they "love" her and she helps them keep their sanity  :o.

LiveLaughLove:
Agree again kindred!

Navigation

[0] Message Index

[#] Next page

[*] Previous page