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Predictions not happening anymore
star1:
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--- Quote from: star1 on January 08, 2019, 05:39:23 PM ---Gut feeling is the best tool anybody in this world could ever have. We do take it for granted or aren't always sure of what it is. Gut feeling reminds me of when you have a stomach ache or headache that won't go away. It's almost like an ache in your gut that can't go away. Try doing things to keep busy or things that you enjoy and make you happy and if you still have that "niggling" feeling, then that's your gut warning you. Do you lay in bed at night and have that annoying feeling then and when you're laying still, too? Something you can't shake off? That's your gut feeling kicking in. So far for me - it hasn't been wrong. I understand why people would be unsure and confused because it can easily be mistaken for worrying or thinking the worst.
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I love this description!!
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Thank you Sparkle :)
Miss Philosopher:
--- Quote from: star1 on January 08, 2019, 05:39:23 PM ---Gut feeling is the best tool anybody in this world could ever have. We do take it for granted or aren't always sure of what it is. Gut feeling reminds me of when you have a stomach ache or headache that won't go away. It's almost like an ache in your gut that can't go away. Try doing things to keep busy or things that you enjoy and make you happy and if you still have that "niggling" feeling, then that's your gut warning you. Do you lay in bed at night and have that annoying feeling then and when you're laying still, too? Something you can't shake off? That's your gut feeling kicking in. So far for me - it hasn't been wrong. I understand why people would be unsure and confused because it can easily be mistaken for worrying or thinking the worst.
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Perfect description! Totally agree! My problem is, sometimes I get that from having anxiety or panic attacks too. I also have had a tendency to jump to conclusions due to past emotional traumas and certain conditioning. So it's like any small thing can come across to me as a red flag but really it's not? If that makes sense. I have problems deciphering the differences because my body reacts to EVERYTHING......food, emotions, intuition.
Sapphirewaters1:
Star1 I agree! Can’t go wrong with your gut feeling as long as you know how to separate it from over reacting. You really need to contemplate and think is it my intuition or my ego/pride. Of course you need to know the other person as well and where you stand. Here’s an example:
My Ex and I broke up in Oct due to a situation that brought up past feelings from another relationship with him. I also know that work is not a good place right now for him. He is not in a good place. There is no hate between us. He knows what I want and he is going through things to decide what it is he wants. . Communication between us has been initiated by me, and he has replied. Sometimes short and cold and sometimes defensive. I sent him a card for Christmas and he texted me a reply which confirmed he was still not in a good place but I made him feel good. He didn’t need to reply but he did. I saw that as a positive moving forward. I have been giving him space, not pressuring him. Most of these psychics say don’t contact him, he will reach out. To me it’s more like advice of the golden rule. My gut told me you know him. He is stubborn and has pride. His ego is getting in the way. You saw his emotion and he is struggling with this as you are. Text him. Tell him how you still feel. I did this morning. And I didn’t leave it open with a question. I didn’t expect him to reply. But he did. Not heart felt as mine but more like he is still in the same place pretty much and he used work. I used to work there and I told him I didn’t know what was going on that I have spoken to no one and don’t want to. And asked if he wanted to talk about it. He replied with not really, maybe in awhile we can talk. I said ok. You know I’m here and to keep his head up.
My point, I went with my gut. I didn’t follow the advice of the many psychics to not contact him. My fate is in my hands. I am responsible for it. I went with my intuition and honestly I feel it has gotten me further with him since October than any of them. I’m done with calling psychics. Haven’t called one in a week. All I’ve done is PO and I’m done with that too now.
Go with your gut and intuition with a clear head is my advice.
sawthelight:
--- Quote from: Miss Philosopher on January 08, 2019, 06:13:47 PM ---
--- Quote from: star1 on January 08, 2019, 05:39:23 PM ---Gut feeling is the best tool anybody in this world could ever have. We do take it for granted or aren't always sure of what it is. Gut feeling reminds me of when you have a stomach ache or headache that won't go away. It's almost like an ache in your gut that can't go away. Try doing things to keep busy or things that you enjoy and make you happy and if you still have that "niggling" feeling, then that's your gut warning you. Do you lay in bed at night and have that annoying feeling then and when you're laying still, too? Something you can't shake off? That's your gut feeling kicking in. So far for me - it hasn't been wrong. I understand why people would be unsure and confused because it can easily be mistaken for worrying or thinking the worst.
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Perfect description! Totally agree! My problem is, sometimes I get that from having anxiety or panic attacks too. I also have had a tendency to jump to conclusions due to past emotional traumas and certain conditioning. So it's like any small thing can come across to me as a red flag but really it's not? If that makes sense. I have problems deciphering the differences because my body reacts to EVERYTHING......food, emotions, intuition.
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I have the SAME problem. that's why I don't always know if I can trust my feelings/intuition, because they tend to lean towards the negative.
star1:
Thanks guys!
MP - I get what you mean cause I get panic attacks too (sucks) and always worry and am pessimistic due to the past also, so it's hard to decipher sometimes whether it's worrying and panic or genuine intuition.
STL- I'm glad you listened to your gut over the readers and took the plunge to contact him. I'd always advise people to act on their gut over a reader. Nobody knows their POI like the person themselves who is calling readers, so it's great you acted upon it and I'm glad you got a positive response! :)
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