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Synergy:
Well said, Elaan!!  I feel the exact same way.  The thing is I don't think I NEED my SM.  In fact, I think my outlook would benefit him more than he could benefit me.  I want to help him and stand by his side as he encounters his life challenges.  I don't feel as if I need him to function, I just KNOW we would function best together... side by side.  When I've tried detachment, it actually makes me feel worse.  And that's when he comes back around anyways to lure me back in without giving all that much. 

BTW, the lunch date was fun, but I found myself missing my SM even more... comparing the guy to him.  Ugh. 

Elaan:
lol...GHF!  Still sad, but perfectly said.

Synergy:  I know the feeling.  Not sure there is one, but if we could just find someone who can outshine our SM and keep our attention (so we don't have time to compare)...maybe, just maybe something could happen there and it could be really good. 

Maybe I should put out and ad...Needed: one brave man to transcend the sorry s.o.b. I'm still in love with.

loveblooms:
In my opinion Detachment doesn't mean ignoring the other person, to ignore other definitely signals that you are not interested. "Ignore" might work in the very initial phase but not if relationship is more than 6 months old. Detachment is; not to attach yourself with the outcome, give your love freely without the expectation as we give to our family members but we don't feel used and abused. Give love, but don't let anybody run over you, define your boundaries how much and to what extent so that they always have a respect for you. Definitely not a easy thing to practice.

I also think that what is wrong in telling some one that you love them and want to be with them (of course after a certain time in relationship), why to play it cool. Its up to them if they choose to say yes or no but there would be some clarity. Don't hang on after all we are humans and deserve reciprocation of our love.

Well I am learning these things finally..

Synergy you are not doing anything wrong by expecting a commitment from your guy but it is up to you how long would you wait and to what extent would you tolerate his ignorance and that could also be a reason you are getting different psychic reading of having some other person in your life, since your energy and vibration are signaling some sort of impatience to those readers.
I like meditation and manifestation as Elaan said. Meditation controls your anxiety and increase your patience.

Happy Holidays to all on this board !

Synergy:
Happy Thanksgiving, everyone!!!  I want to express my gratitude to all of you.  Having this forum has helped me quite a bit, even if it doesn't seem like it.  You have all provided a trusting environment for me to be open and honest.  It is much appreciated. 

May you all have a wonderful holiday.

glasshalffull:
Samefrom me: Happy Thanksgiving Day to all!

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