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Ever been someone else’s POI?
icloud9:
--- Quote from: aquagirl on December 30, 2018, 03:30:31 AM ---Many years ago when the internet was in its infancy, an old childhood friend and I reconnected on classmates website. I didn’t know he had been in love with me all these years. Anyway he told me that some psychic told him we’d end up together and even did a magic spell ensure this would happen. Needless to say free will prevailed lol he ended up stalking me and I had to block him on all social media years later. All along he kept saying we were destined to be together ugh. Now this is a person I never dated nor did I ever consider nor was I ever attracted to them.
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YIKES!!
that is exactly the concern I am addressing in this thread.....
This psychic told my ex that we would end up together. There is no way in he*l that is going to happen. I can verify that.
This is my ex-fiance. We went through a lot together. But he cheated on me---Twice.
I honestly mentally checked out after his second affair. So I called off the wedding. So I would say I just got disgusted I fell out of love for him because of the loss of trust.
However, given the fact that we have so much history together and we are friends from high school.. I can't just DROP him. We were friends first for over a decade (on and off) before we got into a relationship.
SO, yes I still love him as a friend, that's why I am able to still spend time with him just as a friend.
But this is what I was saying ....
These tarot readings....Most of the time I think they're unreliable :l I guess not just tarot either but psychic readings, MOST of them have been fairy tales for me.
I am going to see what happens with my current situation and continue to use my three GO-TO's. Things have been happening slowly but surely, as the readings have indicated. They have been accurate so far. However, if this doesnt work out, i am done with psychic readings for good lol.
star1:
--- Quote from: aquagirl on December 30, 2018, 03:30:31 AM ---Many years ago when the internet was in its infancy, an old childhood friend and I reconnected on classmates website. I didn’t know he had been in love with me all these years. Anyway he told me that some psychic told him we’d end up together and even did a magic spell ensure this would happen. Needless to say free will prevailed lol he ended up stalking me and I had to block him on all social media years later. All along he kept saying we were destined to be together ugh. Now this is a person I never dated nor did I ever consider nor was I ever attracted to them.
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I don't think that this is necessarily free will, but I know from your previous posts you are a huge believer in free will. It could also be destined that you two would never be together and you'd never change your mind on him, yet he saw a fraudster "honey she loves you" reader. Needless to say, I bet you ran for the hills, lol. Jeez, he sounds a scary needy one..
aquagirl:
I am a big believer in freewill, but i also believe certain things we are fated/destined to do, as per our life contracts. We are meant to meet certain people, have certain experiences., etc.... Because i had no desire to be with him, no "magic spell" could make me be with him, hence it couldn't manipulate my freewill. But in all honesty wth do we all know? Maybe we have zero free will and we re playing out parts written in a book eons ago. Or is it partially written and we fill in the blanks? All we can do is speculate. But then what is the point of living things out if it's all prewritten? I know I've had many de ja vus that were from dreams months before, am i remembering this life already lived? am i glimpsing into the future? I guess we just aren't meant to know.
As far as I recall, she never told him i was in love with him, this was in early 2000 no one was talking about twin flames then. That idea was among my spiritual circles and only became popularized by the internet. i have very different views on TF stuff. What she said was that he was destined to be with a woman from his past that he loved very much. She did say that he'd be helping me during my split, and that this is where our "love" would grow and bloom. the helping part was accurate, and that was told to him before we reunited. But then for all i know he was making it up and full of shit, because he knew i believed in this spiritual stuff. But then again so did he. His beliefs i found out later on were on the darker side of things.
And i did run for the hills, seriously , lol it was quite scary, Ive had a few stalkers in my time, not very fun.
jhuskindle:
I have too, and I'm not particularly good looking or rather not conventional. I shaved my head, still happens. I started to feel maybe it's because I don't judge men so they feel at home with me? I did think the hair thing would work. If you are genuinely kind or friendly it tends to attract weirdos usually outcast by others is my theory
star1:
--- Quote from: aquagirl on December 31, 2018, 04:40:28 AM ---I am a big believer in freewill, but i also believe certain things we are fated/destined to do, as per our life contracts. We are meant to meet certain people, have certain experiences., etc.... Because i had no desire to be with him, no "magic spell" could make me be with him, hence it couldn't manipulate my freewill. But in all honesty wth do we all know? Maybe we have zero free will and we re playing out parts written in a book eons ago. Or is it partially written and we fill in the blanks? All we can do is speculate. But then what is the point of living things out if it's all prewritten? I know I've had many de ja vus that were from dreams months before, am i remembering this life already lived? am i glimpsing into the future? I guess we just aren't meant to know.
As far as I recall, she never told him i was in love with him, this was in early 2000 no one was talking about twin flames then. That idea was among my spiritual circles and only became popularized by the internet. i have very different views on TF stuff. What she said was that he was destined to be with a woman from his past that he loved very much. She did say that he'd be helping me during my split, and that this is where our "love" would grow and bloom. the helping part was accurate, and that was told to him before we reunited. But then for all i know he was making it up and full of shit, because he knew i believed in this spiritual stuff. But then again so did he. His beliefs i found out later on were on the darker side of things.
And i did run for the hills, seriously , lol it was quite scary, Ive had a few stalkers in my time, not very fun.
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Yeah I like this, I believe in it, too. I'm on the fence about free will, but I certainly believe that some things are pre-destined too like when we die, people we meet etc.
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